I wouldn’t call you an SJW. Despite our disagreements (and despite my…shall we say “intemperate” tone - which was uncalled for and for which I apologise, by the way) I consider you to be a smart and pretty reasonable poster. Defining an SJW is difficult because the criterion isn’t based on ideology so much as behaviour. If you think men get paid more than women for the exact same work, that’s one thing. If you think men get paid more than women for the exact same work and call everyone who disagrees with you a shitlord while tweeting pictures of yourself drinking from a mug with ‘Male Tears’ on it to a #KillAllMen hashtag, you’re probably an SJW. If a conservative commentator is invited to speak at your campus and you decide to write a letter of complaint, or even join a peaceful protest, that’s one thing. If, on the other hand, you blockade the venue, or scream abuse at the audience, or set off the fire alarm, or reserve a seat with the express intention of using the ‘Heckler’s veto’ to shout down the speaker, you’re probably an SJW.
An SJW, in short, is someone who uses their own sensitivity as a weapon, often from behind a keyboard, and always with a vastly inflated sense of their own importance. Is this definition perfect? Probably not, but it’s the one I work with.
Yeah, but there’s criticism and then there’s criticism, isn’t there? Rose Eveleth, the Atlantic journalist who arguably started #Shirtstorm, tweeted “Thanks for ruining the cool comet landing for me, asshole”. That was her opening salvo, and it went out to each of her 13,000 followers. I ask you, in all honesty, do you really think that qualifies as constructive criticism? Yeah, she later thanked Taylor for his apology, but only after she found herself on the receiving end of a massive backlash, and at no point did she apologise for calling him an asshole.
And furthermore, Taylor didn’t handle the criticism well. He broke down in tears. Also, I disagree that this had a good outcome. #ShirtStorm overshadowed the comet landing, a feat which, when you consider the amount of hard work and ingenuity it took, qualifies as one of the most amazing technological accomplishments of our generation. The end result was that the story became about Taylor, not his achievement and not the contributions of his team, many of whom were women. Could you name - without googling - any of the women who worked on the project? I couldn’t. I never got the chance to hear their names because any talk of their contributions was drowned out by the sound of an army of SJWs screaming about Taylor’s shirt. So yeah, I consider this an all-round PR fail for absolutely everyone involved.
Well, neither of us know him so we can’t really say one way or the other. He’s clearly a very sensitive guy, and the fact that he couldn’t finish his apology without crying would seem to indicate he was probably overwhelmed by all the negative attention. He may very well still be upset about it all.
I wouldn’t have apologised. The thing about SJWs is they tend to have quite short attention spans. If their targets don’t buckle within a few days, they usually move on to someone else. If my bosses made me apologise, I’d have done it wearing a shirt covered in pictures of Afghan women in Burkhas. I imagine the silence from the regressive left would have been positively deafening. Then again, I’m kind of an asshole so they probably wouldn’t let me in front of a camera in the first place.
If they’d actually said “Hey, I think that shirt you’re wearing is problematic” (and, maybe, if they’d given him a day or so to enjoy his remarkable achievement first) then I don’t think anyone would have had a problem. Instead, they said things like “Thanks for ruining the cool comet landing for me, asshole” and “Would it have been that hard to wear a normal shirt? I’m perfectly ok with geek humour but seriously, fuck you douchebag”. I don’t think I’m being uncharitable when I say that such statements are far closer to being castigations than criticisms. This is the kind of thing I mean when I talk about weaponised sensitivity.
But I don’t have a problem with the reasonable and thoughtful criticism. Personally, I didn’t see very much of that, but reasonable and thoughtful criticism is, almost by definition, always welcome. I’m not saying it was impossible to criticise Taylor’s shirt. I’m saying that the way many people chose to do it was tantamount to bullying. SJWs, by definition, aren’t reasonable or thoughtful, and I’m willing to bet that their bullying was responsible, if not necessarily the apology itself, then for at least the obvious mental stress Taylor suffered while issuing it.
Three objections:
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As this article shows, once you correct for choice of major, choice of career, maternity leave, propensity to work overtime, and a host of other factors, the gender pay gap all but disappears. It certainly isn’t 78 cents on the dollar.
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If a woman is really being paid less than a man for the exact same work, she should sue. That kind of wage discrimination is illegal, after all.
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If it really were true that employers could get away with paying women 78 cents on the dollar for the exact same work as men, why do employers even hire men at all? Why would they impose what is, effectively, a 22% tax on themselves in return for no tangible benefit?
I can accept that, at least to a certain extent. Can you accept that SJWs have done the same thing with words that actually matter? Words like ‘Bigot’, ‘Racist’, ‘Misogynist’, and ‘Homophobe’? These people don’t think they’ve had a good day unless they’ve defined all of them downwards at least twice. And unlike ‘SJW’, words like ‘racist’ and ‘misogynist’ are words that society actually needs, and these idiots have basically neutered them through incessant overuse, to the benefit of actual racists everywhere. That’s why no-one gives a shit when they see Donald Trump being called racist or sexist. SJWs throw those words around like confetti. No-one cares anymore. This is one of the reasons I blame SJWs for the rise of the alt-right. People have lost patience with this endless procession of spurious charges of racism and sexism, and some of these people have decided that it’s just far more fun to needle SJWs with hashtags and Rare Pepes than to sort the real racists from the manufactured ones.
Yes, as a favour to a female friend. The grand irony in all this is that he was trying to help a woman. He was trying to promote her business, at her request. He probably thought he was being nice. Now, is this a bit clueless? Sure. Is it so clueless that it justified making his shirt the focus of the conversation and overshadowing his amazing achievement? Hell no!
It’s also worth noting that the contributions of all the women on Taylor’s team were similarly overshadowed by the “controversy”. It occurs to me that if the SJWs were so concerned about inclusivity in science, they could have channeled their efforts into publicising the achievements of the women on the team. Instead, they decided to do what they always do and go after the easy target and pile on until he crumbled, to the detriment of absolutely everyone involved.
I’m happy to provide them, but before I do so I feel I must ask, is this really what you want?