# I quit.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [November 15, 2000, 12:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233 "2000-11-15T00:40:25Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
**Page:** 6

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**Author:** ![Vestal\_Blue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/5e9695/32.png) [@Vestal\_Blue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Vestal_Blue)\
**Post date:** [November 16, 2000, 6:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/101 "2000-11-16T18:21:57Z")

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VB opens the door, looks in:

“If this is a permanent sayonara, then best of luck to you in all future endevours; if temporary, make it quick!  
either way, Damn. Sigh.”

Closes door softly

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**Author:** ![Wolverine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/ba9def/32.png) [@Wolverine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wolverine)\
**Post date:** [November 16, 2000, 6:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/102 "2000-11-16T18:36:08Z")

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Euty, I appreciate the time and thought you had to put into a decision like this. I’m sure it wasn’t an easy decision. The response to this thread is evidence enough how much you will be missed by both me and the people at SDMB.

Enjoy yourself and take care.

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**Author:** ![TubaDiva](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tubadiva/32/507_2.png) [@TubaDiva](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TubaDiva)\
**Post date:** [November 16, 2000, 7:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/103 "2000-11-16T19:24:26Z")

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I’ve received email from Euty and yes indeed he does want a little break from moderating.

He’ll still be listed as a moderator, he can come back whenever he likes, it’s totally up to him. We’re happy to see him when we do.

I’m sure you all wish him the best. (If you don’t, kindly keep it to yourself.)

your humble TubaDiva

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**Author:** ![dropzone](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dropzone/32/7515_2.png) [@dropzone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dropzone)\
**Post date:** [November 16, 2000, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/104 "2000-11-16T20:42:37Z")

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Thanks, **TD**. Modding looks like a really sucky job and I can’t blame anybody for getting sick of it. He can keep posting, though…

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**Author:** ![Lux\_Fiat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bc79bd/32.png) [@Lux\_Fiat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lux_Fiat)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 12:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/105 "2000-11-17T00:28:15Z")

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Keep ya head up, Euty. We’ll leave a light on for you.

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**Author:** ![Eutychus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/a3d4f5/32.png) [@Eutychus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eutychus)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 12:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/106 "2000-11-17T00:33:36Z")

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I’m okay.

I can’t really put into words the way I’m feeling right now. It’s just an incredibly sad and lonely time. I don’t really have any close friends to talk to about it. Given my family situation, I’m so busy dealing with everybody else’s problems that I never have the time or audience to deal with my own. I just grind my teeth and try to keep it all in.

It hit me hard on Wednesday night. I apologize if I scared anybody: I’m currently wanted for over-dramtaization in 17 counties in 6 different states. Please be sure that I’m not suicidal or anything. I’ll be okay.

I wish there were time to respond personally to everyone who posted here. And thanks to evryone who sent an e-mail. I’ll try to answer them as I get the chance, but be patient. I’ll be around. We will still be putting out “Teemings”, so keep those cards and letters coming in (or, in the case of some of you, just keep those cards and letters.)

Behave while I’m gone.

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**Author:** ![Rasa](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rasa/32/3578_2.png) [@Rasa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rasa)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 12:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/107 "2000-11-17T00:36:51Z")

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Thank you, Euty.

::sits quietly with her hands folded until Euty returns::

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**Author:** ![Coldfire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a587f6/32.png) [@Coldfire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Coldfire)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 12:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/108 "2000-11-17T00:37:00Z")

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I’ll see to that, Euty. Take care pal. I hope to see you back in better spirits soon.

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**Author:** ![oldscratch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/ed655f/32.png) [@oldscratch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/oldscratch)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 12:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/109 "2000-11-17T00:40:38Z")

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Take as much time as you need Euty. Settle everything in your life, come to terms with what you need to. Don’t rush things. We’ll welcome you back with open arms when you are ready.

:kind thoughts from someone who’s had their share of mental breakdowns:

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**Author:** ![relic\_11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/50afbb/32.png) [@relic\_11](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/relic_11)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 12:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/110 "2000-11-17T00:40:47Z")

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Phew.  
Best of luck IRL, Euty. I hope everything is okay.

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**Author:** ![carnivorousplant](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnivorousplant/32/3563_2.png) [@carnivorousplant](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/carnivorousplant)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 12:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/111 "2000-11-17T00:41:33Z")

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So, do I have to suck up to someone else for Teemings?  
Er, does Coldfire like Edgar Rice Burroughs satire?

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**Author:** ![Geobabe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/geobabe/32/3908_2.png) [@Geobabe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Geobabe)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 12:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/112 "2000-11-17T00:43:26Z")

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{{{{{Euty}}}}}

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**Author:** ![Ad\_Noctum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b19c9b/32.png) [@Ad\_Noctum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ad_Noctum)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 1:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/113 "2000-11-17T01:17:29Z")

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This is an extremely cold and demented time for all that have come in contact with you. Your writing, and problem-handling skills were unrivaled. Because of this, I know you will make the right decision. You will be greatly missed until your return, and I await your re-empowerment unto the boards. Good luck with whatever you do with your life.

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**Author:** ![messiah](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/3e96dc/32.png) [@messiah](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/messiah)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 1:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/114 "2000-11-17T01:21:48Z")

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I’m saving some real horror posts for when you get back,  
(the ones these other guys can’t handle).  
Wishing you the best, whatever you decide to do. Keep your chin up mate.

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**Author:** ![techchick68](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ea5d25/32.png) [@techchick68](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/techchick68)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 1:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/115 "2000-11-17T01:47:12Z")

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Ah Euty,

Glad to know you are at least breathing. Take all the time you need. You know we love you here!

We’ll leave the light on for you!

{{{{{EUTY}}}}}

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**Author:** ![rocking\_chair](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rocking_chair/32/2918_2.png) [@rocking\_chair](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rocking_chair)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 1:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/116 "2000-11-17T01:53:58Z")

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you must take care of yourself first. take all the time you need. remember there are many virtual shoulders here for you to lean on.

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**Author:** ![Jester](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jester/32/8223_2.png) [@Jester](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jester)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 1:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/117 "2000-11-17T01:56:52Z")

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Wow. I think I just breathed the biggest sigh of relief I ever have.

Enjoy your time off, Euty, we’ll miss you. ☹

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**Author:** ![Jester](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jester/32/8223_2.png) [@Jester](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jester)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 1:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/118 "2000-11-17T01:58:06Z")

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> [@](#):
>
> \*Originally posted by Jester \*  
> \*\*Wow. I think I just breathed the biggest sigh of relief I ever have.  
> \*\*

Me fail grammar? That’s unpossible! See, Euty, this is why you’ll be missed.

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**Author:** ![Welfy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e56c9b/32.png) [@Welfy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Welfy)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 2:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/119 "2000-11-17T02:33:10Z")

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Patrick, I’m relieved to see that you replied to all the worried people of Straightdopia. You can see that you’re very cared for and loved here. However, I can understand why you’d want close friends to talk to. Though I talk to people on this board about my problems and I get lots of love and support, it’s still not the same as having a flesh-and-blood person right there to be with.

I hope that you can find someone to confide in. I know that back in the old AOL-board days you were having family problems and such, but lately in this vast web board it’s been hard to keep up with the people I once felt closer to. I wish there was something I could do to help.

Like my dad would say, “The light will be left on for you and the door unlocked.”

:^(

(((((((Euty)))))))

Love, Welfy

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**Author:** ![Scotticher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Scotticher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scotticher)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2000, 2:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-quit/41233/120 "2000-11-17T02:51:20Z")

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Know what, Euty?

I quit, too.

What do you say that we quit together, and run off to some tropical island as well? I have had three major life blows this week, and I am reduced to wondering whether or not it is worth the pain in order to remain in mainstream society.

So, what do you say? We could slink off to some off-the-beaten path, trailing our loved ones behind us. Even if they don’t particularly want to come. [sub]We may just have to drug them and load them into the hold of the boat, but I am sure they will be happy once we get there. I promise.[/sub]

In any case, you have my sympathy, my best wishes, and my understanding. Please come back soon, unless it impedes our extended vacation. Please?

Scotti

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