# I want to connect to more of you on Facebook.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [November 4, 2017, 7:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650 "2017-11-04T07:36:11Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2017, 7:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/1 "2017-11-04T07:36:11Z")

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No really.

I’m connected to a few of you, 3, 6 maybe?

I’d like to connect to more.

PM me if you’re interested.

I’m just a normal guy. Honestly.

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**Author:** ![TheChileanBlob](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thechileanblob/32/435_2.png) [@TheChileanBlob](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TheChileanBlob)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2017, 10:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/2 "2017-11-04T10:31:53Z")

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The Dope group on Facebook has everyone’s username/facebook name. You can just go down the list.

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**Author:** ![DrFidelius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drfidelius/32/3447_2.png) [@DrFidelius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrFidelius)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2017, 10:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/3 "2017-11-04T10:57:27Z")

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Just sent you a Friend request.

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**Author:** ![jz78817](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jz78817/32/1028_2.png) [@jz78817](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jz78817)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2017, 11:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/4 "2017-11-04T11:00:58Z")

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Gotta find me first

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**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2017, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/5 "2017-11-04T15:46:19Z")

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What is this “Facebook” of which you speak? Must be some weird Canadian thing. 😃

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2017, 6:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/6 "2017-11-04T18:20:36Z")

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Never been there. TMI, when you are hiding from the world.

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**Author:** ![steatopygia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/steatopygia/32/3132_2.png) [@steatopygia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/steatopygia)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2017, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/7 "2017-11-04T18:48:52Z")

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When the board went down (one of the times) I joined the Facebook group to see what was going on. Almost immediately I un-joined as it paired my actual name with my SDMB name. While I stand behind what I post here, I worry about stalker type behavior that could result. Just my 2 cents.

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**Author:** ![IvoryTowerDenizen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ivorytowerdenizen/32/17937_2.png) [@IvoryTowerDenizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IvoryTowerDenizen)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2017, 7:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/8 "2017-11-04T19:11:47Z")

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> [@steatopygia](#):
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> When the board went down (one of the times) I joined the Facebook group to see what was going on. Almost immediately I un-joined as it paired my actual name with my SDMB name. While I stand behind what I post here, I worry about stalker type behavior that could result. Just my 2 cents.

How did it pair your name? We have a list for those who wish to reveal their name, but I’m struggling to see how it happens automatically.

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**Author:** ![steatopygia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/steatopygia/32/3132_2.png) [@steatopygia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/steatopygia)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2017, 7:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/9 "2017-11-04T19:35:04Z")

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It was a while back so I could be wrong.  
It is possible I was just concerned about someone matching personal info I’ve posted with personal info on Facebook. It would take about 2 minutes if anyone tried.  
I don’t recall whether it automatically matched my names or not. I do remember thinking “this is potentially a bad idea”.

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**Author:** ![IvoryTowerDenizen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ivorytowerdenizen/32/17937_2.png) [@IvoryTowerDenizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IvoryTowerDenizen)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2017, 9:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/10 "2017-11-04T21:35:25Z")

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I get that- totally reasonable! I was shocked it could’ve happened automatically.

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**Author:** ![Happy\_Lendervedder](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/happy_lendervedder/32/8488_2.png) [@Happy\_Lendervedder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Lendervedder)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2017, 9:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/11 "2017-11-04T21:38:43Z")

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I also believe the group is private, so unless a person is connected to the group, no one can see what you post there.

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**Author:** ![nightshadea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/7ba0ec/32.png) [@nightshadea](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nightshadea)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2017, 9:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/12 "2017-11-04T21:52:47Z")

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no you don’t wanto to be connected to my family unless you want alt right christan trump supporters …well ok you might for something to laugh at when your bored …

Or my long distance gf and her Filipino family

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**Author:** ![Richard\_Pearse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/richard_pearse/32/13144_2.png) [@Richard\_Pearse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Richard_Pearse)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2017, 10:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/13 "2017-11-04T22:20:45Z")

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I’m not a heavy Facebook user, but feel free to connect.

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**Author:** ![jtur88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e9c0ed/32.png) [@jtur88](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jtur88)\
**Post date:** [November 4, 2017, 11:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/14 "2017-11-04T23:50:47Z")

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> [@TheChileanBlob](#):
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> The Dope group on Facebook has everyone’s username/facebook name. You can just go down the list.

How does one view this “Dope group”?

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**Author:** ![Green\_Cymbeline](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_cymbeline/32/9244_2.png) [@Green\_Cymbeline](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Cymbeline)\
**Post date:** [November 5, 2017, 12:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/15 "2017-11-05T00:36:38Z")

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> **[Straight Dopers | Facebook](https://www.facebook.com/groups/2408464343/)**
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> A group for fans of The Straight Dope message board and Cecil Adam's The Straight Dope column. If you are a member of the SDMB and want to join this Facebook group, and your profile is completely...

Here’s a link to the group!

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**Author:** ![Green\_Cymbeline](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_cymbeline/32/9244_2.png) [@Green\_Cymbeline](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Cymbeline)\
**Post date:** [November 5, 2017, 12:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/16 "2017-11-05T00:50:30Z")

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> **[Straight Dopers | Facebook](https://www.facebook.com/groups/2408464343/)**
>
> A group for fans of The Straight Dope message board and Cecil Adam's The Straight Dope column. If you are a member of the SDMB and want to join this Facebook group, and your profile is completely...

Here’s a link to the group!

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**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2019, 1:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/18 "2019-11-01T01:07:04Z")

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Reported.

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**Author:** ![Jonathan\_Chance](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jonathan_chance/32/701_2.png) [@Jonathan\_Chance](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jonathan_Chance)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2019, 2:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/19 "2019-11-01T02:05:25Z")

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Hell, I think we’re already Facebook friends.

Got your back.

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**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2019, 2:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/20 "2019-11-01T02:10:17Z")

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> [@Jonathan\_Chance](#):
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> Hell, I think we’re already Facebook friends.
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> Got your back.

Probably. I’ll PM you.

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**Author:** ![AHunter3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ahunter3/32/368_2.png) [@AHunter3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AHunter3)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2019, 2:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-to-connect-to-more-of-you-on-facebook/800650/21 "2019-11-01T02:18:37Z")

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I’m Allan Hunter, IRL and on Facebook. I’m pretty public about the same kinds of material I post here and don’t bother to hide much. If you don’t get your fill of reading what I have to say here, you’re welcome to friend me there.

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