# I Want Your Sex... and other sexy songs...

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [August 17, 2010, 9:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575 "2010-08-17T21:57:46Z")\
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**Author:** ![KennerTheGreat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/a8b319/32.png) [@KennerTheGreat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KennerTheGreat)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2010, 7:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/41 "2010-08-19T19:03:31Z")

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> [@torie](#):
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> > [@KennerTheGreat](#):
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> > _Damn, I Wish I Was Your Lover_, by Taylor Dayne, for purely personal reasons.
> 
> Sophie B Hawkins, but yes, I concur.

Whoops. My bad.

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**Author:** ![Acsenray](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/acsenray/32/4519_2.png) [@Acsenray](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Acsenray)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2010, 7:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/42 "2010-08-19T19:20:46Z")

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Inxs - “I Need You Tonight”  
Love and Rockets - “So Alive”  
Chris Isaak - “Wicked Game”  
David Christie - “Saddle Up”  
Randy Newman - “Leave Your Hat On” - It’s much dirtier than the Joe Cocker version, just because Newman sounds like a complete sleazebag

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**Author:** ![Mr.Excellent](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f19dbf/32.png) [@Mr.Excellent](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr.Excellent)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 3:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/43 "2011-01-12T03:46:32Z")

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The Cardigans’ cover of Iron Man: [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q2PLls02gOU](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q2PLls02gOU)

Honestly, you wouldn’t expect it - but this just _works_.

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**Author:** ![AnalogSignal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/analogsignal/32/1085_2.png) [@AnalogSignal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AnalogSignal)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 4:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/44 "2011-01-12T04:22:16Z")

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> [@Serenata67](#):
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> There are the obvious ones like _I Want Your Sex_

I prefer Telex’s obscure answer song [_I Want Your Brain_](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z5wTsR0UaOo) because, here on the SDMB, intelligence is sexy.

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**Author:** ![Happy\_Lendervedder](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/happy_lendervedder/32/8488_2.png) [@Happy\_Lendervedder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Lendervedder)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 4:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/45 "2011-01-12T04:42:26Z")

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“I Touch Myself” by the Divinyls came out at a time in my life when I \*needed \*to hear a sexy woman sing those words while wearing skimpy clothing in a music video. I can’t hear that song without again feeling like a hypersexed 16-year-old.

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**Author:** ![BlankSlate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/blankslate/32/80_2.png) [@BlankSlate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BlankSlate)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 4:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/46 "2011-01-12T04:48:32Z")

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[Miracles](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zzNb5Ca_NXM) by Jefferson Airplane.

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**Author:** ![Mississippienne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d2c977/32.png) [@Mississippienne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mississippienne)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 5:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/47 "2011-01-12T05:00:00Z")

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Die Warzau’s “[Born Again](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24l0tSDlhoQ)” ( **NSFW**! Not fucking kidding!) is so sexy. The driving, pounding beat, the whispery singing… the surprisingly graphic lesbian love scene in the video doesn’t hurt, either.

Genitorturers’ “[Flesh is the Law](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZZKlrVcEqPE)” (Also NSFW because… it’s Genitorturers) is even more aggressive, and has a dominatrix, BDSM-theme that’s the hottest thing in the universe if you’re of a certain bent. Yowza!

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**Author:** ![garygnu](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/garygnu/32/2924_2.png) [@garygnu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/garygnu)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 5:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/48 "2011-01-12T05:13:29Z")

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> [@Mr.Excellent](#):
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> The Cardigans’ cover of Iron Man: [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q2PLls02gOU](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q2PLls02gOU)
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> Honestly, you wouldn’t expect it - but this just _works_.

I’m not… _quite_… sure that’s the right link, sir.

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**Author:** ![BaneSidhe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c5a1d2/32.png) [@BaneSidhe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BaneSidhe)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 5:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/49 "2011-01-12T05:23:37Z")

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Oh yesh, “Closer,” “You Can Leave Your Hat On” and Janet Jackson’s “If” make me a happy bunny.

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**Author:** ![Evil\_Captor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f17d59/32.png) [@Evil\_Captor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Evil_Captor)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 7:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/50 "2011-01-12T07:09:58Z")

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K. D. Laing’s voice is pure liquid seduction in her song “Sexuality.”  
And Chaka Khan’s voice is pure passion in “Baby Love” by Mother’s Finest.  
And in places in “Edge of Seventeen” Stevie Nicks’ voice is pure, curdled lust and desire:

“From the moment … when I first laid … eyes … on … him …”

ohhhhh, yeah …

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**Author:** ![outlierrn](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/outlierrn/32/3005_2.png) [@outlierrn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/outlierrn)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 7:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/51 "2011-01-12T07:36:48Z")

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**Morphine**  
_Whisper_ and _You Look Like Rain_

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**Author:** ![Alessan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alessan/32/465_2.png) [@Alessan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alessan)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 8:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/52 "2011-01-12T08:18:28Z")

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[Baby Did a Bad Bad Thing](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tqxa47oONQA&feature=fvw)- Chris Isaak.

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**Author:** ![Sattua](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sattua/32/11906_2.png) [@Sattua](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sattua)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 1:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/53 "2011-01-12T13:23:51Z")

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Chris Isaak’s Wicked Game does it for me. Doesn’t hurt that when he was young and smooth-faced, he looked like a slightly less handsome version of my husband.

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**Author:** ![Scougs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scougs/32/3158_2.png) [@Scougs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scougs)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 1:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/54 "2011-01-12T13:51:41Z")

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**Ball and Biscuit** from the White Stripes’ Elephant album.

The way Jack White sings “Let’s have a ball girl… and take our sweet little time about it” makes me want to do unspeakable things to him. Or anyone else that’s around, quite frankly.

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**Author:** ![StusBlues](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dc4da7/32.png) [@StusBlues](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StusBlues)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 3:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/55 "2011-01-12T15:20:14Z")

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“Midnight Blue” by Melissa Manchester. Rather blunt in its purpose, but poetically and tastefully so.

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**Author:** ![silenus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/silenus/32/166_2.png) [@silenus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silenus)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 3:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/56 "2011-01-12T15:41:25Z")

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“Sit On My Face” - Monty Python.

What?

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**Author:** ![Dogzilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e480ec/32.png) [@Dogzilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dogzilla)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 4:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/57 "2011-01-12T16:01:27Z")

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I came to this thread hoping to find suggestions for songs I can pole dance to. Sadly, the songs mentioned in this thread that are pole-danceable are already on my pole playlist. Some of these other ones are just way too fast and don’t really lend themselves to pole. Slower tempos work out better, at least at my level (intermediate – I’m past beginner but still have so much to learn).

Anyway, I thought I’d just share some of my pole playlist instead.

Before I do that, I want to point out one thing: Six Underground by the Sneaker Pimps may sound sexy, but it’s not a sexy song. It’s about wanting to kill yourself. “Take me down, six underground…” Hello. Totally inappropriate for pole. 😉

Without further ado:  
Rev 22:20 - Puscifer  
Queen B - Puscifer  
Eraser - Nine Inch Nails  
Reptile - Nine Inch Nails  
Into the Void - Nine Inch Nails  
Putting Out Fire (Cat People) - David Bowie  
Wicked Game - Chris Isaak  
Baby Did a Bad Bad Thing - Chris Isaak  
Tear You Apart - She Wants Revenge  
Blue on Black - Kenny Wayne Shepherd  
Moving in Stereo - The Cars  
Grind - Alice in Chains  
Natural One - Folk Implosion (DJ Shadow remix)  
Justify My Love - Madonna  
She’s Always in My Hair - Prince  
Gett Off - Prince  
Sexy Motherfucker - Prince  
She’s Long Gone - The Black Keys  
Bad Things - Jared Everett (True Blood theme song)  
Eyes on Fire - Blue Foundation (Zed’s Dead remix)

There’s more and I’m always on the lookout for new sexxxy pole songs.

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**Author:** ![Hal\_Briston](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a9a28c/32.png) [@Hal\_Briston](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hal_Briston)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2011, 5:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/58 "2011-01-12T17:11:46Z")

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Just about all of Vain’s _No Respect_ album - specifically:  
–[_1000 Degrees_](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3pMplYFUo0&feature=related) – Straight-up “I wanna fuck your brains out and then kick you to the curb…again” awesomeness.  
–[_No Respect_](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOY0DAnr7rQ&feature=related) – Seriously, who hasn’t been on one side or the other of the mind-fuck one-way relationship?  
–[_Laws Against Love_](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZpYA17hzCFQ&feature=related) – Still a great song, although the creepiness factor has definitely increased as I’ve gotten older.  
–[_Smoke And Shadows_](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rIPBRZHeDRo&feature=related) – A perfect “I _know_ you’re going to spend the night jilling off while you think about me” song.

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**Author:** ![gallows\_fodder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/8c91f0/32.png) [@gallows\_fodder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gallows_fodder)\
**Post date:** [January 13, 2011, 2:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/59 "2011-01-13T02:52:05Z")

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> [@Evil\_Captor](#):
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> K. D. Laing’s voice is pure liquid seduction in her song “Sexuality.”  
> And Chaka Khan’s voice is pure passion in “Baby Love” by Mother’s Finest.  
> And in places in “Edge of Seventeen” Stevie Nicks’ voice is pure, curdled lust and desire:
> 
> “From the moment … when I first laid .. eyes … on … him …”
> 
> ohhhhh, yeah …

Not to rain on your parade, but Stevie wrote that song about the death of her uncle ([cite](http://www.inherownwords.com/edge.htm)).

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**Author:** ![Invisible\_Chimp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/f05b48/32.png) [@Invisible\_Chimp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Invisible_Chimp)\
**Post date:** [January 13, 2011, 5:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/60 "2011-01-13T05:04:30Z")

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My first thought has already been mentioned, Paula Cole’s “Feelin’ Love.” I nominate Kelly Willis’ “Cradle of Love,” which is NOT a cover of the Billy Idol song of the same name, for some country sexy.

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