# I Want Your Sex... and other sexy songs... **URL:** \ **Category:** Cafe Society\ **Created:** [August 17, 2010, 9:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575 "2010-08-17T21:57:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Tangent](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tangent/32/3098_2.png) [@Tangent](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tangent)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2011, 5:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/61 "2011-01-13T05:52:13Z")
Madonna - \*Crazy For You \* The Bangles - _Eternal Flame_ Berlin - _Take My Breath Away_ Shakira - _Hips Don’t Lie_ ---
**Author:** ![Kozmik](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/8dc957/32.png) [@Kozmik](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kozmik)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2011, 6:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/62 "2011-01-13T06:02:03Z")
> [@Happy\_Lendervedder](#): > > “I Touch Myself” by the Divinyls came out at a time in my life when I \*needed \*to hear a sexy woman sing those words while wearing skimpy clothing in a music video. I can’t hear that song without again feeling like a hypersexed 16-year-old. That song, for me, will forever be associated with the fembots in _Austin Powers_. ---
**Author:** ![JpnDude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/838e76/32.png) [@JpnDude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JpnDude)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2011, 7:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/63 "2011-01-13T07:40:42Z")
Bryan Ferry - **Slave to Love** ---
**Author:** ![The\_Peyote\_Coyote](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/5f8ce5/32.png) [@The\_Peyote\_Coyote](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Peyote_Coyote)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2011, 6:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/64 "2011-01-13T18:28:57Z")
\*Little Red Corvette \*by Prince \*Baby, It’s You & Son of a Preacher Man \*by Dusty Springfield. Screw the Beatles and Stones; she was the true genius of the British Invasion ---
**Author:** ![WordMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e8c25b/32.png) [@WordMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WordMan)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2011, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/65 "2011-01-13T18:48:35Z")
> [@outlierrn](#): > > **Morphine** > _You Look Like Rain_ Came in to post this. Just wow. Intimate - begs for eye contact. ETA: [youtube link](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkSzV6jAkhQ) \*\*Dogzilla \*\*- you have been working the references to pole dancing into a few threads I have come across…always relevant, but with a \*frisson \*of “cite???” underlying it…oh, and from a pure groove standpoint, [Godsmack’s Keep Away](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5KJauwm1PZo)seems like it would be good for your needs… …no complaints, just an observation. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Dogzilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e480ec/32.png) [@Dogzilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dogzilla)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2011, 7:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/66 "2011-01-13T19:59:44Z")
> [@WordMan](#): > > Came in to post this. Just wow. Intimate - begs for eye contact. ETA: [youtube link](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkSzV6jAkhQ) > > \*\*Dogzilla \*\*- you have been working the references to pole dancing into a few threads I have come across…always relevant, but with a \*frisson \*of “cite???” underlying it…oh, and from a pure groove standpoint, [Godsmack’s Keep Away](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5KJauwm1PZo)seems like it would be good for your needs… > > …no complaints, just an observation. 😉 I do not know what these words mean when you put them in this order: “but with a \*frisson \*of “cite!?!?” underlying it” But I think you are trying to tell me “pix or it didn’t happen!” No? I’ll check out that Godsmack song. I like that band. Might work. Yes, I am obsessed with my new hobby and I apologize if I’m coming off like a one-trick pony. I\* do\* think about other stuff from time to time… ---
**Author:** ![WordMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e8c25b/32.png) [@WordMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WordMan)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2011, 8:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/67 "2011-01-13T20:10:39Z")
> [@Dogzilla](#): > > I do not know what these words mean when you put them in this order: “but with a \*frisson \*of “cite!?!?” underlying it” > > But I think you are trying to tell me “pix or it didn’t happen!” No? “pics or it didn’t happen” seems so…online drool-y I am saying your references to your new hobby…linger. ---
**Author:** ![Kozmik](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/8dc957/32.png) [@Kozmik](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kozmik)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2011, 8:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/68 "2011-01-13T20:12:00Z")
[I Want To Sex You Up](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fM2pQXXbLPY) - Color Me Badd ---
**Author:** ![Dogzilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e480ec/32.png) [@Dogzilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dogzilla)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2011, 8:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/69 "2011-01-13T20:12:43Z")
> [@WordMan](#): > > “pics or it didn’t happen” seems so…online drool-y > > I am saying your references to your new hobby…linger. I see. Awesome. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Evil\_Captor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f17d59/32.png) [@Evil\_Captor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Evil_Captor)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2011, 10:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/70 "2011-01-13T22:48:42Z")
> [@gallows\_fodder](#): > > Not to rain on your parade, but Stevie wrote that song about the death of her uncle ([cite](http://www.inherownwords.com/edge.htm)). Well, you did! I’m just gonna pretend I never heard that … I like my version better … ---
**Author:** ![gallows\_fodder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/8c91f0/32.png) [@gallows\_fodder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gallows_fodder)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2011, 10:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/71 "2011-01-13T22:54:50Z")
That’s okay, I do too. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Biggirl](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/biggirl/32/3294_2.png) [@Biggirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Biggirl)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2011, 11:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/72 "2011-01-13T23:08:05Z")
[D’Angelo’s Untitled (How Does It Feel)](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SxVNOnPyvIU). The song is quite sexy, the video. . . ssshhhhhsssssss hot! This is EMI music’s official video but the quality is not the best. Unless it’s just my computer. . … ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2011, 1:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/73 "2011-01-14T01:54:23Z")
> [@Dogzilla](#): > > I came to this thread hoping to find suggestions for songs I can pole dance to.\ How about [Filthy Gorgeous by Scissor Sisters?](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kU1xQGRPg64&feature=related) A former Doper who was a stripper said she used to dance to that song. One of my favourite sexy songs is [You’re Making Me High](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vm0pqqGUHzM) by Toni Braxton. ---
**Author:** ![breezman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/4491bb/32.png) [@breezman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/breezman)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2011, 3:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/74 "2011-01-14T03:08:17Z")
> [@Dogzilla](#): > > I came to this thread hoping to find suggestions for songs I can pole dance to. I might recommend some classic songs from Golden Earring. I think that any of the following would be good pole dancing material [Candy’s Going bad](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oe65DB1ZPyw) [Leather](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vDbMoraBeyY) [Vanilla Queen](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HKfETKRJC_M) Other songs that I find sexy are Poe’s [Hey Pretty, Drive by mix](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h_lhspmjCJ4), Heart’s [Crazy on You](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gpNqB4dnT4) – especially in [this scene](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HSRmWTeSDng) from the movie The Virgin Suicides. Definitely the hottest kiss/makeout scene I’ve ever seen in film. ---
**Author:** ![xanthous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/53a042/32.png) [@xanthous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/xanthous)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2011, 7:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/75 "2011-01-14T19:10:16Z")
[Song of Solomon](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=owAkE4GLH4w) or [The Sensual World](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AJc64xncBt4&playnext=1&list=PL43F62ABA5FA78705&index=2) by Kate Bush ---
**Author:** ![WordMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e8c25b/32.png) [@WordMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WordMan)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2011, 7:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/76 "2011-01-14T19:30:15Z")
> [@Dogzilla](#): > > I came to this thread hoping to find suggestions for songs I can pole dance to. Sadly, the songs mentioned in this thread that are pole-danceable are already on my pole playlist. Some of these other ones are just way too fast and don’t really lend themselves to pole. Slower tempos work out better, at least at my level (intermediate – I’m past beginner but still have so much to learn). > > Anyway, I thought I’d just share some of my pole playlist instead. > > Before I do that, I want to point out one thing: Six Underground by the Sneaker Pimps may sound sexy, but it’s not a sexy song. It’s about wanting to kill yourself. “Take me down, six underground…” Hello. Totally inappropriate for pole. 😉 > > Without further ado: > Rev 22:20 - Puscifer > Queen B - Puscifer > Eraser - Nine Inch Nails > Reptile - Nine Inch Nails > Into the Void - Nine Inch Nails > Putting Out Fire (Cat People) - David Bowie > Wicked Game - Chris Isaak > Baby Did a Bad Bad Thing - Chris Isaak > Tear You Apart - She Wants Revenge > Blue on Black - Kenny Wayne Shepherd > Moving in Stereo - The Cars > Grind - Alice in Chains > Natural One - Folk Implosion (DJ Shadow remix) > Justify My Love - Madonna > She’s Always in My Hair - Prince > Gett Off - Prince > Sexy Motherfucker - Prince > She’s Long Gone - The Black Keys > Bad Things - Jared Everett (True Blood theme song) > Eyes on Fire - Blue Foundation (Zed’s Dead remix) > > There’s more and I’m always on the lookout for new sexxxy pole songs. Hey - waitaminnit: what’s your position on [Crazy Bitch by Buckcherry](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NKX8v46Z11E)? Too skanky or the right kind of skanky for the right pole routine? Buckcherry fills an occasional need for slimy rock - their song[Lit Up](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2p8IjsP0xic)just really works for me, but it’s groove would be tough for pole dancing I would assume… ---
**Author:** ![Dogzilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e480ec/32.png) [@Dogzilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dogzilla)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2011, 7:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/77 "2011-01-14T19:54:13Z")
> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#): > > How about [Filthy Gorgeous by Scissor Sisters?](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kU1xQGRPg64&feature=related) A former Doper who was a stripper said she used to dance to that song. :: makes a note :: Good tip! (Pun intended ;)) I’ll resurrect that Ask the Stripper thread (it’s like 12 pages long or something) and skim through. I bet there’s more in there. Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Dogzilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e480ec/32.png) [@Dogzilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dogzilla)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2011, 7:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/78 "2011-01-14T19:55:54Z")
> [@breezman](#): > > I might recommend some classic songs from Golden Earring. I think that any of the following would be good pole dancing material > [Candy’s Going bad](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oe65DB1ZPyw) > [Leather](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vDbMoraBeyY) > [Vanilla Queen](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HKfETKRJC_M) I love Golden Earring, but I am unfamiliar with these songs. :: adds to list :: Thanks to you too! ---
**Author:** ![Dogzilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e480ec/32.png) [@Dogzilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dogzilla)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2011, 8:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/79 "2011-01-14T20:02:07Z")
> [@WordMan](#): > > Hey - waitaminnit: what’s your position on [Crazy Bitch by Buckcherry](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NKX8v46Z11E)? Too skanky or the right kind of skanky for the right pole routine? Buckcherry fills an occasional need for slimy rock - their song[Lit Up](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2p8IjsP0xic)just really works for me, but it’s groove would be tough for pole dancing I would assume… Love the song and it could be just the right amount of skanky for pole, if that’s the character/persona one wants to play on a given evening… It’s just too fast and, how shall I put this… Too mainstream frat boy metal for my personal tastes. I’m a little bit more goth(ish), so Buckcherry would be “beneath” me, if that makes any sense. Purely a personal stage image/persona thing. From a musical taste point of view, well, let’s just say I do have that song on my iPod and there is an appropriate time and place for it. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Dogzilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e480ec/32.png) [@Dogzilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dogzilla)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2011, 8:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575/80 "2011-01-14T20:07:07Z")
Because it seems relevant, I’ll give you all a little taste. Here’s some [pix of me](http://s302.photobucket.com/albums/nn91/Dogzilla_02/Pole%20Pix/) on the pole. Please keep in mind that I am just learning and so my form kind of sucks in most of these. These are just shots I got to figure out what I need to work on. That, and it’s fun to find something that will serve as a pole on the street somewhere, break out a little guerrilla trick, and disappear before the cops chase you off. Fun game we call “street pole”. You may have seen YouTube videos of girls pole dancing on the grab poles in subways. I wish there was a subway in my city so I could try it. 😃 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575.md?page=3) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-want-your-sex-and-other-sexy-songs/550575.md?page=5)