# I was addicted to escorts - ask me anything **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [March 27, 2018, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295 "2018-03-27T20:37:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Davidngrk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@Davidngrk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davidngrk)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/1 "2018-03-27T20:37:38Z")
I was regularly seeing escorts for about 5 years. I was married the entire time. It was really easy to do and surprisingly wasn’t that costly. Ask me anything about my experiences. ---
**Author:** ![Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Living_Well_Is_Best_Revenge)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 8:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/2 "2018-03-27T20:47:43Z")
Why did you stop? ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 8:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/3 "2018-03-27T20:49:00Z")
Could you hear them too, or does that cost extra? ---
**Author:** ![Hermitian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hermitian/32/470_2.png) [@Hermitian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hermitian)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 8:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/4 "2018-03-27T20:50:16Z")
How many STDs do you have now? ---
**Author:** ![Davidngrk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@Davidngrk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davidngrk)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 8:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/5 "2018-03-27T20:56:25Z")
> [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](#): > > Why did you stop? Technically, I guess I haven’t stopped. I have been to massage parlors like 3 times in last year and got rub and tugs. But I don’t see traditional escorts, hookers. A few things caused me to stop with escorts. 1 - I moved to new city and wasn’t familiar with the providers and the law enforcement tactics. Also new city has less providers, lower quality and higher prices. 1. Guilt 2. I ended up divorcing my wife and am seeing a great girl in a different city. ---
**Author:** ![Sunny\_Daze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunny_daze/32/438_2.png) [@Sunny\_Daze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunny_Daze)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 8:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/6 "2018-03-27T20:56:36Z")
Escorts to where? Movies? Ballgames? ---
**Author:** ![Davidngrk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@Davidngrk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davidngrk)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 8:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/7 "2018-03-27T20:57:39Z")
> [@VinylTurnip](#): > > Could you hear them too, or does that cost extra? Hear them? Not sure I understand. ---
**Author:** ![kaylasdad99](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kaylasdad99/32/3398_2.png) [@kaylasdad99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kaylasdad99)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 8:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/8 "2018-03-27T20:59:38Z")
You have five senses. You only talked about using one of them on the escorts. ---
**Author:** ![Davidngrk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@Davidngrk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davidngrk)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 9:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/9 "2018-03-27T21:03:04Z")
> [@Hermitian](#): > > How many STDs do you have now? None, I did catch some type of warts in my pubic area. Not genital warts bc they were on my genitals. Scared me to death. They went away after a few weeks. I believe I got them a girl who gave me bj only. I was on a kick where I just wanted oral only and that was when I got the warts. ---
**Author:** ![Davidngrk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@Davidngrk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davidngrk)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 9:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/10 "2018-03-27T21:05:59Z")
> [@Sunny\_Daze](#): > > Escorts to where? Movies? Ballgames? It was purely sexual. Not companionship. It was usually their hotel room, their apartment, my hotel if I was traveling. Sometimes oral in my car. ---
**Author:** ![DCnDC](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dcndc/32/2842_2.png) [@DCnDC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DCnDC)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 9:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/11 "2018-03-27T21:11:12Z")
> [@Davidngrk](#): > > None, I did catch some type of warts in my pubic area. Not genital warts bc they were on my genitals. Pardon? ---
**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 9:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/12 "2018-03-27T21:12:14Z")
How can you say it wasn’t costly? You lost a wife and got warts. What does the new girl think about this hobby? ---
**Author:** ![Hermitian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hermitian/32/470_2.png) [@Hermitian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hermitian)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 9:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/13 "2018-03-27T21:14:51Z")
> [@Davidngrk](#): > > 1. I ended up divorcing my wife and am seeing a great girl in a different city. Oh, so you were able to [afford a free girl](https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=644543)! ---
**Author:** ![Davidngrk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@Davidngrk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davidngrk)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 9:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/14 "2018-03-27T21:15:27Z")
> [@DCnDC](#): > > Pardon? should have said it was \*\*not \*\*on my genitals. It was something else and cleared up. ---
**Author:** ![Davidngrk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@Davidngrk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davidngrk)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 9:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/15 "2018-03-27T21:17:08Z")
> [@Beckdawrek](#): > > How can you say it wasn’t costly? You lost a wife and got warts. What does the new girl think about this hobby? You’re right, the divorce was expensive but we didn’t divorce over my escort activities. The ex wife never knew. Warts are gone. New girl doesn’t know. I am not seeing escorts anymore. ---
**Author:** ![Davidngrk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@Davidngrk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davidngrk)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 9:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/16 "2018-03-27T21:18:38Z")
> [@Hermitian](#): > > Oh, so you were able to [afford a free girl](https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=644543)! I was getting regular free sex from my ex W the whole time I was seeing escorts but nice try. ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 9:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/17 "2018-03-27T21:19:43Z")
This seems like highly personal information. What inspired you to join the board today and tell us about it? ---
**Author:** ![Little\_Nemo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/little_nemo/32/3120_2.png) [@Little\_Nemo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Nemo)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 9:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/18 "2018-03-27T21:22:10Z")
> [@Davidngrk](#): > > New girl doesn’t know. I am not seeing escorts anymore. Uh huh. > [@Davidngrk](#): > > Technically, I guess I haven’t stopped. I have been to massage parlors like 3 times in last year and got rub and tugs. But I don’t see traditional escorts, hookers. I’m guessing your new girl doesn’t know about this. Yet. If you’re going to keep having sex with professionals, you need to look for a relationship with a woman who’s okay with that. Otherwise, you’re just going to go through a series of failed relationships. ---
**Author:** ![Davidngrk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@Davidngrk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davidngrk)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 9:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/19 "2018-03-27T21:25:40Z")
> [@VinylTurnip](#): > > This seems like highly personal information. What inspired you to join the board today and tell us about it? It’s not something you can tell your friends about. The experience was an incredible rush and disappointment at the same time. I guess it’s therapeutic to talk about. I used to belong to a website dedicated to the “Hobby” and could talk about things there - mostly review providers with others - but I am not on that site anymore. ---
**Author:** ![Davidngrk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@Davidngrk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davidngrk)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2018, 9:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295/20 "2018-03-27T21:28:30Z")
> [@Little\_Nemo](#): > > Uh huh. > I’m guessing your new girl doesn’t know about this. Yet. > > If you’re going to keep having sex with professionals, you need to look for a relationship with a woman who’s okay with that. Otherwise, you’re just going to go through a series of failed relationships. I guess I rationalize it as not sex. It’s just a massage and hj. In some countries that is common. Actually her married friend who is a girl got a happy ending during her massage in Italy. My gf said she would have done the same thing when married bc she was in sexless marriage. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-was-addicted-to-escorts-ask-me-anything/811295.md?page=2)