# I yelled at someone yesterday.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-yelled-at-someone-yesterday/766808>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [September 25, 2016, 11:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-yelled-at-someone-yesterday/766808 "2016-09-25T11:50:12Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 7\
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**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2016, 10:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-yelled-at-someone-yesterday/766808/21 "2016-09-26T10:59:47Z")

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> [@purplehearingaid](#):
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> You should use this as a lesson , never hire a total stranger off the street to do any work for you. The guy now know you keep money on hand and he could be a junkie . You were lucky the guy didn’t try to force his way in your house . This kind of stuff is happening more often today.

I once hired a guy to shovel my walk. Later that day I realized, that man was **Charles Manson**.

Of course he wasn’t _the_ Charles Manson, as he’s in prison. This was Mike and Helene Manson’s son Charles (goes by Chuck). I initially didn’t recognize him in the parka and stocking cap.

But the point is, had the _real_ Charles Manson escaped from prison earlier that day, it very well could have been him I hired to shovel snow. Next thing you know, Squeeky woulda been by wanting to clean out my gutters. Which maybe wouldn’t have been all bad, they really need done.

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**Author:** ![jtur88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e9c0ed/32.png) [@jtur88](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jtur88)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2016, 12:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-yelled-at-someone-yesterday/766808/22 "2016-09-26T12:01:53Z")

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> [@purplehearingaid](#):
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> You should use this as a lesson , never hire a total stranger off the street to do any work for you. The guy now know you keep money on hand and he could be a junkie . You were lucky the guy didn’t try to force his way in your house . This kind of stuff is happening more often today. You could call a tree expert and have them tell how you can save your tree.

You you call $40 “money on hand” of sufficient opulence that it would trigger jewel thieves?

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**Author:** ![Cardigan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cardigan/32/187_2.png) [@Cardigan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cardigan)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2016, 1:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-yelled-at-someone-yesterday/766808/23 "2016-09-26T13:16:17Z")

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**Panache45** , I’m sorry to hear you got hosed. I hate it when that happens.

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**Author:** ![Sailboat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sailboat/32/461_2.png) [@Sailboat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sailboat)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2016, 4:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-yelled-at-someone-yesterday/766808/24 "2016-09-26T16:20:40Z")

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Hoping to see an update that the tree is salvageable.

As someone who gets yelled at over extremely trivial shit, I think this was a perfectly legitimate offense to yell about.

> [@jtur88](#):
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> You you call $40 “money on hand” of sufficient opulence that it would trigger jewel thieves?

Cubic zirconia thieves.

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**Author:** ![Bullitt](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bullitt/32/5725_2.png) [@Bullitt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bullitt)\
**Post date:** [October 7, 2016, 1:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-yelled-at-someone-yesterday/766808/25 "2016-10-07T13:55:10Z")

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> [@purplehearingaid](#):
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> You could call a tree expert and have them tell how you can save your tree.

This. I hope the tree gets saved. If it does, it could be a healing experience for the OP, too.

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**Author:** ![ThelmaLou](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thelmalou/32/390_2.png) [@ThelmaLou](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ThelmaLou)\
**Post date:** [October 7, 2016, 3:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-yelled-at-someone-yesterday/766808/26 "2016-10-07T15:31:14Z")

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> [@panache45](#):
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> …\<snip\>… Several weeks ago a guy knocked on my door and asked whether I wanted my grass cut for 20 bucks. …\<snip\>…
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> In front of my house is a little Japanese maple tree …\<snip\>…
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> After that guy left, I noticed that he had pruned the tree … \<snip\>…
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> Yesterday the guy came back, asking whether I wanted more work done. I showed him what he had done to my little tree. \*\*First he denied that he had done it. Then he said I told him to do it. \*\* …\<snip\>…

My bold.

Hmmm…so Donald Trump is now doing yard work, eh?

Seriously, I’m so sorry this happened to your poor tree. Do get an expert out. It’s likely something can be done. Trees are damaged by natural events, too, and they recover. After all, they are living things. Don’t euthanize it.

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**Author:** ![Helena330](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/helena330/32/531_2.png) [@Helena330](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helena330)\
**Post date:** [October 7, 2016, 7:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-yelled-at-someone-yesterday/766808/27 "2016-10-07T19:25:21Z")

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> [@kayT](#):
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> Yeah but you might notice that the OP didn’t ask the guy to trim the tree. He asked for general clean-up. Not rocket science. Maybe he should have supervised but it wasn’t the guy’s first job for him. Anyhow, maybe we could take a day off from criticizing every single thing everyone else does and just, you know, sympathize?

No kidding. I thought it was me being overly-sensitive, but I guess people really ARE being jerks around here lately.

**Panache** , we have a Japanese Maple that I love and I’d be devastated if someone butchered it like that. I do hope you take the suggestion of getting an arborist and please keep us updated.

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