# If a woman has a past relationship with a black man she's tainted forever. Why?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [July 5, 2013, 6:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743 "2013-07-05T18:45:38Z")\
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**Author:** ![JRDelirious](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jrdelirious/32/9531_2.png) [@JRDelirious](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JRDelirious)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2016, 2:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/381 "2016-03-20T02:25:19Z")

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What \*\*Ascenray \*\*just said. You are Trying To Be Rational but you are starting from such defective premises even perfectly reasoned logic will only succeed in producing masterpieces of sick ignorance like that one.

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**Author:** ![iiandyiiii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/iiandyiiii/32/7924_2.png) [@iiandyiiii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iiandyiiii)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2016, 3:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/382 "2016-03-20T03:09:21Z")

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> [@TryingToBeRational](#):
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> Don’t make such blanket statements. Yes, for many men this is indeed the case but for many it is also not. Simplifying such a complex phenomena to such an extreme extent will do more harm to society than what you might expect. We can’t have people losing their jobs or going to jail because irrational future race-based legislation officially considers it racist, evil and criminal for men/women to not approve of or not desire interracial dating… It could so easily happen. Imagine the ludicrous scenario in the future were men/women are required by law to like things they don’t like; to marry and date who they don’t want to because anti-racist laws have overruled the social liberty of freedom of choice in your personal life.
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> Crude statements like yours can make this a reality. Please think carefully about what you say. Not liking when white women date black men does NOT imply that the white man views black people as dogs. IF this becomes the common held view then horrific and tyrannical laws will be passed.

No one will ever force you to marry or date someone you don’t like, and no one will put you in jail because you don’t want to date someone. On the other hand, in the past, white supremacist laws and customs resulted in countless people suffering imprisonment, brutality, and even death for the “crime” of romantic involvement with someone of a different race. Horrific and tyrannical laws in our history on interracial marriage and romantic relations were entirely written and supported by such “race conscious” (e.g. white supremacist) white people in power. There’s a long history in America of those kind of laws, and zero history of the fictional laws that you are worried about.

Such white supremacist beliefs have an incredible history of association with brutality and evil, and zero association with anything positive.

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**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2016, 4:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/383 "2016-03-20T04:20:17Z")

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> [@TryingToBeRational](#):
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> Sorry for reviving an old thread, but it’s been going on for a few years so thought I might as well contribute. I’ve been skimming through the comments and for a site with a tagline about fighting ignorance, there is a disturbing lack of unbiased and healthy deliberation on this topic. Most comments here are very narcissist, closed minded and over-simplify this deep, instinctive ideology, labeling those with different beliefs as evil, simple minded racists - unworthy of respect or recognition. In short, most are poor quality posts you could find on any other lesser site.

As opposed to the drivel you just wrote about race mixing, which can be found on St\*rmfront?

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**Author:** ![wonky](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wonky/32/393_2.png) [@wonky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wonky)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2016, 6:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/384 "2016-03-20T06:03:30Z")

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> [@TryingToBeRational](#):
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> To them, there is no greater slap in the face than this.

Well, I was hoping it felt more like a punch, but you can’t have everything!

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**Author:** ![DrFidelius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drfidelius/32/3447_2.png) [@DrFidelius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrFidelius)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2016, 11:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/385 "2016-03-20T11:25:48Z")

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Well, that was vile.

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**Author:** ![Asimovian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asimovian/32/172_2.png) [@Asimovian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Asimovian)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2016, 4:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/386 "2016-03-20T16:34:13Z")

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Ah, the first day of spring. When new members sign up to the board to provide creative, never-before-considered and completely logical explanations for what might otherwise be mistaken for simple vile human thought/behavior.

Eternal Spring, indeed.

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**Author:** ![crowmanyclouds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crowmanyclouds/32/19884_2.png) [@crowmanyclouds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/crowmanyclouds)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2016, 5:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/387 "2016-03-20T17:00:46Z")

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_“We must secure the existence of our people and a future for white children. Because the beauty of the White Aryan woman must not perish from the earth.”_

Does that pretty much sum it up TryingToBeRational?

CMC fnord!

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**Author:** ![Little\_Nemo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/little_nemo/32/3120_2.png) [@Little\_Nemo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Nemo)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2016, 7:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/388 "2016-03-20T19:56:37Z")

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> [@Reluctant\_A](#):
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> And that’s what you call trying to be rational, is it?

I give him full credit that he really is trying to be rational. He’s not frothing at the mouth. He’s explaining his beliefs in a calm manner and attempting to convince other people.

The problem is that his beliefs are so irrational that no presentation can cover up that reality.

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**Author:** ![Little\_Nemo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/little_nemo/32/3120_2.png) [@Little\_Nemo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Nemo)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2016, 8:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/389 "2016-03-20T20:04:04Z")

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But the reason I checked out this thread was because of a recent Cracked article on a related subject: interracial porn.

[5 Ways Porn Is Bizarrely Racist Behind The Scenes](http://www.cracked.com/personal-experiences-2208-going-black-hurts-your-career-5-examples-racism-in-porn.html). It explains how many white porn actresses refuse to work with black actors. In some cases, it’s racism. But in others it’s a financial decision. Apparently many people in the predominantly white male audience don’t like it when a white actress has sex with a black actor. So they’re less likely to watch her movies, even subsequent ones with no black actors. So white actresses refuse to work with black actors in order to maintain their popularity.

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**Author:** ![Emiliana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f0a364/32.png) [@Emiliana](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Emiliana)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2016, 12:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/390 "2016-03-21T00:01:56Z")

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I’m just sitting here luxuriating in my White Aryan beauty, hoping to high heaven I don’t perish from this earth.

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**Author:** ![kaylasdad99](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kaylasdad99/32/3398_2.png) [@kaylasdad99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kaylasdad99)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2016, 2:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/391 "2016-03-21T02:35:37Z")

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> [@TryingToBeRational](#):
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> The phenomena of white men not wanting to date “blacked” white women is common, **at least in my environment.**

Please, tell me more about your environment.

Also, “phenomen **on** ,” if it’s not too much trouble.

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**Author:** ![raventhief](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/raventhief/32/4_2.png) [@raventhief](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/raventhief)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2016, 2:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/392 "2016-03-21T02:59:48Z")

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> [@Emiliana](#):
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> I’m just sitting here luxuriating in my White Aryan beauty, hoping to high heaven I don’t perish from this earth.

Alas, **Emiliana** , I fear our days are numbered in this fair world.

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**Author:** ![spamforbrains](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e274bd/32.png) [@spamforbrains](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/spamforbrains)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2016, 3:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/393 "2016-03-21T03:26:35Z")

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> [@](#):
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> But the reason I checked out this thread was because of a recent Cracked article on a related subject: interracial porn.
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> 5 Ways Porn Is Bizarrely Racist Behind The Scenes. It explains how many white porn actresses refuse to work with black actors. In some cases, it’s racism. But in others it’s a financial decision. Apparently many people in the predominantly white male audience don’t like it when a white actress has sex with a black actor. So they’re less likely to watch her movies, even subsequent ones with no black actors. So white actresses refuse to work with black actors in order to maintain their popularity.

😕  
Not much else to say. White men are weird.

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**Author:** ![crowmanyclouds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crowmanyclouds/32/19884_2.png) [@crowmanyclouds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/crowmanyclouds)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2016, 3:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/394 "2016-03-21T03:56:38Z")

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> [@spamforbrains](#):
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> 😕  
> Not much else to say. White men are weird.

You do know that there’s a whole genre of pr0n where White actresses have sex with, one or more, Black actor(s) while their White “husbands” are forced to watch? So not only are some offended by it, but for some it’s their thing!

The White man invented weird!

CMC fnord!

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**Author:** ![Little\_Nemo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/little_nemo/32/3120_2.png) [@Little\_Nemo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Nemo)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2016, 5:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/395 "2016-03-21T05:40:04Z")

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> [@spamforbrains](#):
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> Not much else to say. White men are weird.

Some white men are weird. But most of us live by the principle “We don’t care if you went black. We’ll welcome you back.”

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**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2016, 1:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/396 "2016-03-21T13:39:50Z")

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> [@Asimovian](#):
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> Ah, the first day of spring. When new members sign up to the board to provide creative, never-before-considered and completely logical explanations for what might otherwise be mistaken for simple vile human thought/behavior.
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> Eternal Spring, indeed.

Don’t think we don’t see you over there, doing your bit to extinguished the green-eyed race. :mad:

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**Author:** ![crowmanyclouds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crowmanyclouds/32/19884_2.png) [@crowmanyclouds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/crowmanyclouds)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2016, 1:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/397 "2016-03-21T13:48:25Z")

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> [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](#):
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> Don’t think we don’t see you over there, doing your bit to extinguished the green-eyed race. :mad:

Fuckin’ Martians!!11!111!!!

CMC fnord!

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**Author:** ![DigitalC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ebca7d/32.png) [@DigitalC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DigitalC)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2016, 1:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/398 "2016-03-21T13:58:29Z")

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> [@Little\_Nemo](#):
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> But the reason I checked out this thread was because of a recent Cracked article on a related subject: interracial porn.
> 
> [5 Ways Porn Is Bizarrely Racist Behind The Scenes](http://www.cracked.com/personal-experiences-2208-going-black-hurts-your-career-5-examples-racism-in-porn.html). It explains how many white porn actresses refuse to work with black actors. In some cases, it’s racism. But in others it’s a financial decision. Apparently many people in the predominantly white male audience don’t like it when a white actress has sex with a black actor. So they’re less likely to watch her movies, even subsequent ones with no black actors. So white actresses refuse to work with black actors in order to maintain their popularity.

I read that article and couldn’t help but think that if there really is a financial drawback to going black (losing your fan base) then it is perfectly reasonable not to do it and not racist at all. Of course they didn’t exactly have any evidence that this was the case.

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**Author:** ![Asimovian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asimovian/32/172_2.png) [@Asimovian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Asimovian)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2016, 2:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/399 "2016-03-21T14:08:47Z")

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> [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](#):
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> Don’t think we don’t see you over there, doing your bit to extinguished the green-eyed race. :mad:

Reparations!

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**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2016, 3:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-a-woman-has-a-past-relationship-with-a-black-man-shes-tainted-forever-why/662743/400 "2016-03-21T15:35:02Z")

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My wife and i have been doing _our_ bit to extinguish the blue-eyed, blonde part of the white race for 12 years now. It’s been fairly successful (and fun) - two non-blonde, non-blue-eyed successes.

Just think, that’s one blue-eyed blonde who _could_ have been with a member of her tribe. Thank the dark gods my wife is “deviant, progressive, and pride- and cultureless, with little respect for convention and tradition”… couldn’t very well be a White Genocidaire without her.

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