# If conservatives think being gay is a choice, what do they think are the benefits of being gay?

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [August 21, 2024, 10:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-conservatives-think-being-gay-is-a-choice-what-do-they-think-are-the-benefits-of-being-gay/1006014/27 "2024-08-21T22:59:16Z")

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> [@iiandyiiii](#):
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> EDIT: Or what @Miller said (except that I think it’s likely a majority, at least for the publicly homophobic men).

No, it’s nowhere near a majority. Not even close.

Look, humans are really good at hating other humans. There’s no secret reason that makes it all explicable. Racists aren’t racist because they’re secretly Black. Anti-Semites aren’t anti-Semitic because they’re secretly Jewish. Misogynists aren’t misogynist because they’re secretly women. And vast, vast majority of homophobes aren’t homophobes because they’re secretly gay. They’re just people who see something different and think, “‘Different’ means ‘bad,’” and who see someone weaker than themselves and think, “I can hurt them and get away with it.”

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