# If I told you we're having dressing at Thanksgiving, what would you think? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 22, 2006, 11:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485 "2006-11-22T23:08:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Fretful\_Porpentine](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fretful_porpentine/32/2873_2.png) [@Fretful\_Porpentine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fretful_Porpentine)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 2:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/21 "2006-11-23T02:24:06Z")
I’d take it as a synonym for stuffing. (It wouldn’t occur to me to make the inside-the-bird vs. outside-the-bird distinction, although now that someone’s mentioned it, it makes sense.) ---
**Author:** ![ZipperJJ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zipperjj/32/211_2.png) [@ZipperJJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZipperJJ)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 2:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/22 "2006-11-23T02:53:38Z")
In the context of Thanksgiving I’d assume you were talking about stuffing but I never use the term myself. If you said you were making chicken with dressing for Tuesday dinner, I’d assume you meant you were marinating your chicken breasts in Wishbone. ---
**Author:** ![elfkin477](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/a9a28c/32.png) [@elfkin477](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elfkin477)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 3:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/23 "2006-11-23T03:49:27Z")
I’d know what you meant since I’ve heard people use both that and stuffing with about equal frequency. I hate it myself but I think I’d call it stuffing were I ever to speak about it. ---
**Author:** ![Rushgeekgirl](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rushgeekgirl/32/3715_2.png) [@Rushgeekgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rushgeekgirl)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 3:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/24 "2006-11-23T03:58:07Z")
I’d assume it was the gray mushy cornbread heaven my grandmother always served with the turkey. I’ve never just called salad dressing “dressing” though. ---
**Author:** ![Random](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/57b2e6/32.png) [@Random](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Random)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 4:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/25 "2006-11-23T04:12:20Z")
[QUOTE=Fretful Porpentine] I’d take it as a synonym for stuffing. (It wouldn’t occur to me to make the inside-the-bird vs. outside-the-bird distinction, although now that someone’s mentioned it, it makes sense.) [/QUOTE] I agree with this. Interesting. > [@rushgeekgirl](#): > > I’ve never just called salad dressing “dressing” though. And this. I’ve always used the term “stuffing”, but I think my grandmother said “dressing”. No southern connection. Wisconsin Danish background. ---
**Author:** ![Bobotheoptimist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/919ad9/32.png) [@Bobotheoptimist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bobotheoptimist)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 4:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/26 "2006-11-23T04:14:44Z")
Never been “South” and I’d know exactly what you were talking about. ---
**Author:** ![Idle\_Thoughts](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/838e76/32.png) [@Idle\_Thoughts](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Idle_Thoughts)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 4:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/27 "2006-11-23T04:18:13Z")
So many mixed answers. :S ---
**Author:** ![Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/qadgop_the_mercotan/32/83_2.png) [@Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Qadgop_the_Mercotan)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 4:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/28 "2006-11-23T04:22:52Z")
Our preferred term is _stuffing_, but we recognize _dresssing_ as an alternative version. Heck, “Pops” Mercotan always called it _wadding_! I’ve tried to instill that usage into my kids too. Not sure if it took, tho. **elfbabe**? ---
**Author:** ![Grits\_and\_Hard\_Toast](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a183cd/32.png) [@Grits\_and\_Hard\_Toast](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grits_and_Hard_Toast)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 5:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/29 "2006-11-23T05:05:01Z")
[QUOTE=RhapsodyInBlue] My family is from the northeast and we used the terms equally. However, when I moved to the south I was told that “stuffing” is cooked inside the bird, while “dressing” is similar but made in a pan on stove. So, here you have the savory onion/thyme stuffing inside the turkey, but also pans of cornbread or oyster dressing. Whatever you call it, it’s my favorite part of the dinner! [/QUOTE] Oh, you just reminded me of my first Thanksgiving with my then boyfriend, now husband. After that meal, I knew I had to break it off with him. If he grew up thinking it normal for the wife, (his mother) to make a meal that had pans of oyster dressing, along with the crouton stuffing, along with the gravy with hard boiled eggs, and the gravy without eggs, and two kinds of green beans, some with ham and onions, some with just ham, and two cranberry things, biscuits with honey, biscuits without, tossed salad with tomatos, tossed salad without tomatos, pies with nutmeg, pies without nutmeg, hashbrowns with cheese, hashbrows without cheese, corn pudding with something, corn pudding without something, even two turkeys, one basted with one thing, one basted with another thing… Every part of the meal had a separately cooked twin, for a picky eater. Just one version of her Thanksgiving meal was the end all meal. But she cooked two versions of everything. She started in September I was told. My California mom’s version of Thanksgiving was a Turkey Loaf thing, canned green beans, and frozen pumpkin pie. My idea of Thanksgiving was to go out, let someone else mess with all that. Bless the good women who enjoy cooking and treating their families to a feast. I can love and appreciate them, but I am not going to be one of them. So I had a heart to heart with the man of my dreams. I would never be capable of what his mother did. I had no desire to do it, wouldn’t do it, and if that was an expectation of his, let’s just call the whole thing off now. So 15 years later, we will be happily having pizza for dinner tomorrow night. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![UntouchedTakeaway](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/d78d45/32.png) [@UntouchedTakeaway](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/UntouchedTakeaway)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 1:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/30 "2006-11-23T13:25:54Z")
[QUOTE=Idle Thoughts] I just was talking to a couple people who, when I mentioned we’d be having lots of dressing come Thanksgiving, didn’t know I was talking about stuffing. They were like “Ohh, so you thinking of making up a lot of salad?” I had to explain to them that, while dressing was also something you put on salad, there was another type of dressing that was another word for stuffing. I dunno, is this a regional thing? I always grew up hearing both. To me, stuffing always equaled dressing and vica versa. I always figured they were the same other than stuffing being made inside turkey and dressing outside. What say you? You ever hear stuffing refered to as dressing? [/QUOTE] Born and raised in Florida by parents who were from North Carolina - it was dressing. Here in NJ - it’s stuffing. VCNJ~ ---
**Author:** ![Lsura](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7993a0/32.png) [@Lsura](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lsura)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 2:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/31 "2006-11-23T14:15:47Z")
To me (raised in TN), dressing is stuffing, BUT it is cooked outside the bird - stuffing is what it becomes when it’s cooked inside the bird, but if you don’t want to cook it inside the bird, it’s dressing. If you weren’t asking this around Thanksgiving, I would have assumed salad dressing. But today being what it is, I assumed you meant my first reaction. ---
**Author:** ![BiblioCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ed8c4c/32.png) [@BiblioCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BiblioCat)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 2:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/32 "2006-11-23T14:22:31Z")
[QUOTE=Chefguy] Stuffing is cooked inside the bird. Dressing is cooked separately. But yeah, same thing. [/QUOTE] What he said. ---
**Author:** ![Susie\_Derkins](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e47774/32.png) [@Susie\_Derkins](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Susie_Derkins)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 3:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/33 "2006-11-23T15:48:37Z")
I was born and raised in North Florida. My family always has both: bread stuffing, made with shredded white bread, chicken broth, and sauteed onions and celery, which is mooshed together and shoved inside the bird (may not sound like it, but it is AWESOME), then a pan of cornbread dressing with boiled eggs and other goodies baked inside. This time of year I would assume that you were talking about cornbread dressing. ---
**Author:** ![Johanna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johanna/32/8318_2.png) [@Johanna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johanna)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 10:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/34 "2006-11-23T22:39:15Z")
I would be thinking of what to wear to dinner. Something stylish but not too dressy. ---
**Author:** ![Ruby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/13edae/32.png) [@Ruby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ruby)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2006, 10:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/35 "2006-11-23T22:53:07Z")
[QUOTE=Chefguy] Stuffing is cooked inside the bird. Dressing is cooked separately. But yeah, same thing. [/QUOTE] This is how it’s been at Chez Ruby for as long as I can remember. (Born and raised in the Midwest) For the most part, though, the terms are used synonomously with my family and friends. ---
**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2006, 3:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/36 "2006-11-24T03:10:24Z")
I’m a mid-40’s native of California, now in the Midwest. My parents and their ancestors for a cople generations were from the Chicago / So. Wisconsin area. Just what Ruby & Chefguy said. In a non-feast context I’d probably assume “dressing” meant sauce for a salad. But in any context involving roast poultry, “dressing” would be bread & savory stuff cooked outside the bird & served as a starch course with the bird & gravy. ---
**Author:** ![Khampelf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/8e7dd6/32.png) [@Khampelf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khampelf)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2006, 3:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/37 "2006-11-24T03:47:59Z")
[QUOTE=Chefguy] Stuffing is cooked inside the bird. Dressing is cooked separately. But yeah, same thing. [/QUOTE] Should be obvious, when you consider the shortcut “Stove Top Dressing” 😛 [http://www.kraftfoods.com/stovetop/](http://www.kraftfoods.com/stovetop/) ---
**Author:** ![pulykamell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pulykamell/32/3166_2.png) [@pulykamell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pulykamell)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2006, 4:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/38 "2006-11-24T04:17:12Z")
I would think of cornbread dressing. Generally, I refer to it as “dressing” if it’s prepared outside the turkey, and “stuffing” if it’s prepared inside the turkey. The defacto term around here is “stuffing,” although around African-Americans I’ve generally heard “dressing” more often. ---
**Author:** ![Kyla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/eada6e/32.png) [@Kyla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kyla)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2006, 10:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485/39 "2006-11-24T10:59:54Z")
[QUOTE=Scribble] I wouldn’t have a clue what you were talking about. [/QUOTE] Ditto. I grew up in CA, for what it’s worth. ---
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Dressing, to me, is what goes on a salad. Stuffing is what you have with roasties. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/if-i-told-you-were-having-dressing-at-thanksgiving-what-would-you-think/381485.md?page=3)