Easily since this is my instant messaging handle as well. And my pic is linked in a coulple.
But even whithout those there’s enough info in all of my posts collectively that friends and coworkers would know it’s me. Especially the ones I’ve pitted.
Which is why I’ve never posted anything I wouldn’t want known.
I don’t know if many people would associate my written persona with my face-to-face self. I can be much more articulate when I can edit and revise, and I tend to keep my opinions to myself in real-life encounters because I just don’t like conflict. I’d be surprised if someone who didn’t know otherwise matched **FairyChatMom ** to the real me.
If anyone cared to read through all my posts, they could track me down pretty easily. I have described where I work and my position and enough personal stuff, which pretty much eliminates plausible deniability.
Probably not worth it to them. I don’t reveal much of an ultra-personal nature anyway. I’m always afraid that something I say here will come back to me from an unexpected direction.
Maybe my online personality would be more interesting if I threw caution to the wind. I don’t think I’m going to try to find out.
Roddy
It would depend on which of my posts they read. If someone connected all of the dots, it wouldn’t be hard at all (probably reading which GQ threads I posted definitive answers in would give it away, since my combination of skills and careers is rather unique).
Oh, absolutely. Chicago may be a den of sin, but there still aren’t that many herbalist neopagan poly chicks looking to enter nursing school after having a micropreemie.
Actually, that micropreemie thing alone seems to be how many people I don’t know know of me. There were so many prayer and healing circles arranged on our behalf that I’m still meeting people at parties who say, “OH! Are you that person we were praying for a few years ago?”
I would like to think so . I speak almost as I do here, although I take more time in my thought before I speak. This causes my wife a slight amount of distress in public as I have a fairly deep voice. Not like Johnny cash or anything but I try to speak softly for the most part.
Doubt it. I write much prettier than I talk. If I made a conscious effort to write the way I talk, maybe, but I don’t know if I even could-- a lot of the things that come out of my mouth would make me cringe on paper.
Now, if you told someone to pick out something I’d posted from things strangers had posted, they’d be a lot more likely to figure it out, but I think that’s probably true for everybody.