Thank God! I sometimes wonder if I am expressing myself coherently.
Welcome!! A little background. I am also a former Christian. Now I am independent but still count myself as a believer. I believe no religion is the correct religion, but they all may be an expression of our desire to know the truth and to relate to that transcendent other we sometimes experience. One analogy I use is pouring the purest water {the spirit of God} through an impure filter {mortal humans} What ever comes out will contain some of the impurities of the filter.
I believe people should pursue whatever they perceive to be true for themselves. It’s in honestly seeking what is true and looking within we progress. So, that means good people who are honest atheists seeking the truth have the same goal as I do even though our approach may be different. I respect that. I use “smug” only because of the tone I often find here. There tends to be a hand wave dismissal of believers sometimes as if “that’s all a load of crap and it should be obvious to any thinking person”
The truth is none of us know for sure.
Yes
I’ll attempt to explain my answer.
Being a parent myself the parent child analogy is useful in discussing certain aspects of God but limited as well. When I hear the “how could a heavenly father be so cruel?” I tend to use it.
Another analogy I like is the one in the Bible about us all being part of the same body. Humans are made up of essentially the same stuff. IMHO we are all connected to God and each other and many of our problems come from not realizing and not living that truth. So, would we say the hand is the child of the head. Not really. Both analogies are only attempts to understand aspects of God. My son and daughters share my DNA and in fact all humans are essentially the same and the differences we see in height, body, shape skin color, are extremely minor when considering our physical make up. That reflects our spiritual reality. We are all the same stuff. Drops of the same ocean. Cells in the same body. When we don’t realize that and act as if that’s not true, we create many of our problems.
They also assume that the reality they propose is a better one and if they can think of a better one then obviously God should be able to make one. I usually find that the reality they propose only works if free will and personal effort towards growth is compromised. What I see is that we have the power to create a better reality and only make half hearted efforts in order to pursue our own interests or because we believe that our efforts will not be enough.
I don’t see it that way. I tend to think as part of God we are co creators of this physical reality which is only a temporary reflection of the spiritual. We can change it and create something new with God if we simply put forth the effort. It may be that we as spiritual beings agreed to come here and play out this physical role. To me “the wages of sin is death” is not about us being punished. It means that if we continue to choose the illusion that this physical life is our primary reality, if we continue to deny the truth of our connection to each other, if we continue to place too much value on the things that moth and rust corrupts, we will continue to deal with the consequences of those choices. Namely, separation from God and each other.
I tend to think the universe exists within God in a similar way our dreams exist within us. I don’t see God as a separate all powerful being that decides how to interact with us. I see God as the sum of what we are all a part of. How it all works together is beyond me for now.
On free will. In the myth of Adam and Eve they were in paradise with a knowledge of God but with no knowledge of good and evil. Once they gained that knowledge everything changed and they had to leave paradise. Yet the decision to experience choice by knowing good and evil was in itself a choice.
without that choice and some concept of good and evil there was nothing to choose so we couldn’t experience free will, and everything that goes with it.
I suspect that free will and the duality we choose from is part of the illusion but here I am so I’m working with it. We have to act in this physical world to reflect our inner selves. What we value most is reflected in our choices.
I guess that’s a different discussion so I’ll end there.