# I'll keep my Trump-voting cousin, if you don't mind

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Tags:** trump\
**Created:** [November 13, 2024, 4:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183 "2024-11-13T04:22:51Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Der\_Trihs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/der_trihs/32/233_2.png) [@Der\_Trihs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Der_Trihs)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 5:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/161 "2024-11-15T17:39:14Z")

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> [@CairoCarol](#):
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> Taxes.

“Let’s persecute millions of people for money!”

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**Author:** ![Chisquirrel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/6bbea6/32.png) [@Chisquirrel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chisquirrel)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 5:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/162 "2024-11-15T17:43:09Z")

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> [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](#):
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> As long as you look on it as a unitary movement instead of as a chaotic movement back and forth, we’re gonna be talking past each other.

As long as you think I could possibly give a flying fuck about people who are at best okay with removing the bodily autonomy and rights of people I love, you’re going to continue wasting your breath crying for appeasement. Despite your repeated protestations at now multiple people, is pretty clearly not working. Or should we reject the evidence of our eyes and ears?

> [@Czarcasm](#):
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> The reason he supports Trump is “taxes”?  
> That’s it?

She DID say he was an idiot.

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**Author:** ![Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/left_hand_of_dorkness/32/7156_2.png) [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 5:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/163 "2024-11-15T17:43:21Z")

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> [@CairoCarol](#):
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> You wanted an answer, I gave you one. Does it make a difference?

For what it’s worth, I think the answer was perfectly clear, and one of the most common reasons that people supported Trump, to the extent that I’m unconvinced any request for elaboration is made in good faith.

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**Author:** ![Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/left_hand_of_dorkness/32/7156_2.png) [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 5:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/164 "2024-11-15T17:43:51Z")

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> [@Chisquirrel](#):
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> you’re going to continue wasting your breath crying for appeasement

How delightful, then, that that’s not what I’m advocating.

> [@Chisquirrel](#):
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> Or should we reject the evidence of our eyes and ears?

Absolutely not–but nor should we reject science, nor should we pretend that a superficial conclusion suffices to understand a complex system.

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**Author:** ![Chisquirrel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/6bbea6/32.png) [@Chisquirrel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chisquirrel)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 5:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/165 "2024-11-15T17:51:11Z")

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> [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](#):
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> How delightful, then, that that’s not what I’m advocating.

Really? Because your entire schtick is giving them a safe space, a face-saving harbor, not venting your spleen, giving them an easy path out of fascism.

But you’re absolutely slowly leaching Trump’s power. That’s why a pedophile is the AG nominee, a blatant Russophile is the DNI nominee, and RFK Jr is about to run HHS. Keep going, we don’t have anyone in power openly calling for concentration camps yet!

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**Author:** ![We\_re\_wolves\_not\_werewolves](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/838e76/32.png) [@We\_re\_wolves\_not\_werewolves](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/We_re_wolves_not_werewolves)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 5:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/166 "2024-11-15T17:52:33Z")

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> [@Der\_Trihs](#):
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> He voted to have them persecuted, so yes he is. Him being in denial about the results of his actions doesn’t matter to his victims.

It’s funny, but for someone who is very comfortable labeling everyone who voted for Trump as a Nazi, you are the one sounding very much like some erstwhile Hitler youth instructor.

“Loyalty to the party means everything, family and relations are subservient to your utmost duty to the party. Your family will turn on you. Cast them aside if you think them disloyal to the party line.”

Thankfully not everyone is buying that shit that you are peddling.

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**Author:** ![Just\_Asking\_Questions](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba9def/32.png) [@Just\_Asking\_Questions](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Just_Asking_Questions)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 5:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/167 "2024-11-15T17:55:27Z")

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> [@CairoCarol](#):
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> My cousin, BTW, is not intolerant of LGBTQ folks. He’s just an idiot when it comes to politics.

Tell that to the LGBTQ folk being harassed right now by the people he supports. I’m sure they’ll be comforted and understanding.

And happy they are paying less taxes.

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**Author:** ![Cheesesteak](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cheesesteak/32/3694_2.png) [@Cheesesteak](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cheesesteak)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 5:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/168 "2024-11-15T17:55:39Z")

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> [@CairoCarol](#):
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> Taxes.

Boy, will he be unhappy when he finds out what tariffs are.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 5:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/169 "2024-11-15T17:57:08Z")

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Quit covering for the right-wing assholes. This “Those who hate those destructive haters who are using their power and influence to destroy lives are the _real_ haters!” crap is just bullshit.

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**Author:** ![Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/left_hand_of_dorkness/32/7156_2.png) [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 6:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/170 "2024-11-15T18:16:54Z")

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> [@Chisquirrel](#):
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> Really? Because your entire schtick is giving them a safe space, a face-saving harbor, not venting your spleen, giving them an easy path out of fascism.

Giving them a safe _path out of fascism_, not a safe space.

> [@Chisquirrel](#):
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> But you’re absolutely slowly leaching Trump’s power. That’s why a pedophile is the AG nominee

Okey dokey. You really don’t understand how complex systems work, so we’re pretty done here.

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**Author:** ![Der\_Trihs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/der_trihs/32/233_2.png) [@Der\_Trihs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Der_Trihs)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 6:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/171 "2024-11-15T18:18:25Z")

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> [@We\_re\_wolves\_not\_werewolves](#):
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> It’s funny, but for someone who is very comfortable labeling everyone who voted for Trump as a Nazi, you are the one sounding very much like some erstwhile Hitler youth instructor.
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> “Loyalty to the party means everything, family and relations are subservient to your utmost duty to the party. Your family will turn on you. Cast them aside if you think them disloyal to the party line.”

Which doesn’t resemble anything I said. _What_ “party line”?

“Fascists are dangerous” isn’t a “party line”, it’s a statement of fact demonstrated by history. “Right wingers hurt their own family” is the same. Encouraging people to trust right wing members of their family is setting them up to suffer at best ostracism. There’s an epidemic of homelessness among teenage homosexuals because their right wing parents dump them on the street.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 6:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/172 "2024-11-15T18:20:04Z")

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> [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](#):
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> Giving them a safe _path out of fascism_, not a safe space.

If the Right constantly tells them a bunch of crap and all you do in response is basically _nothing_ to counter it, then all you’ve done is provide safe space.

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**Author:** ![Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/left_hand_of_dorkness/32/7156_2.png) [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 6:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/173 "2024-11-15T18:21:58Z")

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How delightful, then, that I’m not suggesting we do basically nothing!

Y’all are too much.

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**Author:** ![Der\_Trihs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/der_trihs/32/233_2.png) [@Der\_Trihs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Der_Trihs)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 6:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/174 "2024-11-15T18:22:46Z")

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If someone bends over backwards to pretend that supporting fascism isn’t that bad, then the fascists have no reason to _stop_. And on top of that they are likely to regard it as a concession that they are in the right, since you are “obviously” unable to come up with a valid argument against them.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 6:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/175 "2024-11-15T18:23:22Z")

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What specifically are you doing to counter the lies?

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**Author:** ![Babale](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/babale/32/15666_2.png) [@Babale](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Babale)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 6:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/176 "2024-11-15T18:24:05Z")

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> [@madmonk28](#):
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> I’m glad you can laugh at the suffering people like him are causing. Maybe you can explain to any gay or trans friends you may have that you find the whole thing hilarious.
> 
> Fuck you and your fascist cousin.

In a thread filled with gems by Czarcasm and Der Trihs, it’s hard to believe that there’d be a new contended for Biggest Asshole of the Thread, and yet - here you are.

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**Author:** ![Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/left_hand_of_dorkness/32/7156_2.png) [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 6:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/177 "2024-11-15T18:24:21Z")

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@czarcasm, you have a long way to go before I believe you’re asking questions in good faith.

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**Author:** ![We\_re\_wolves\_not\_werewolves](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/838e76/32.png) [@We\_re\_wolves\_not\_werewolves](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/We_re_wolves_not_werewolves)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 6:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/178 "2024-11-15T18:25:17Z")

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> [@Der\_Trihs](#):
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> “Fascists are dangerous” isn’t a “party line”, it’s a statement of fact demonstrated by history.

sure, but the problem is that you think all 76 million people who voted for Trump are, by virtue of that single data point, fascists, when I’m quite certain they are not

> [@Der\_Trihs](#):
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> “Right wingers hurt their own family” is the same.

No, it’s actually not. Assholes hurt their own family. And assholery crosses political party lines

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 6:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/179 "2024-11-15T18:26:29Z")

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If only you were as concerned about the real assholes that would take away rights.

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**Author:** ![Der\_Trihs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/der_trihs/32/233_2.png) [@Der\_Trihs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Der_Trihs)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2024, 6:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ill-keep-my-trump-voting-cousin-if-you-dont-mind/1010183/180 "2024-11-15T18:26:58Z")

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> [@We\_re\_wolves\_not\_werewolves](#):
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> sure, but the problem is that you think all 76 million people who voted for Trump are, by virtue of that single data point, fascists, when I’m quite certain they are not

“What do you call someone who sits down at a table with nine Nazis? Ten Nazis.”

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