# I'm accused of sexism so of course I get a warning.

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**Created:** [July 30, 2016, 5:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-accused-of-sexism-so-of-course-i-get-a-warning/761306 "2016-07-30T17:13:56Z")\
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**Author:** ![Colibri](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/colibri/32/1841_2.png) [@Colibri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Colibri)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2016, 4:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-accused-of-sexism-so-of-course-i-get-a-warning/761306/57 "2016-08-01T16:57:27Z")

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> [@What is happening with this board re: modding?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-happening-with-this-board-re-modding/761437/1):
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> WTF? Even though I made it clear in my OP that harpy referred to her voice I am being called out because it is a sexist term therefore it is acceptable to imply I’m a sexist AND furthermore a mod is saying I should apologize for using it? To whom? Hillary? The women on the Board? The women of the world next March 8th?

**Saint Cad** posted this on the other thread he started on the subject but I think it’s better to address it here since this is where I made the remark.

If it were me, what I would say would be something along the lines of “I’m sorry for using words that some people might regard as sexist. I am not a sexist, and don’t want to be viewed as such. In the future I will try to avoid using such words to avoid giving the impression I might be sexist.”

If you don’t want to give the impression you are sexist, then the best thing is obviously to avoid using language that might be perceived that way. And if you do use it, you should apologize for giving the wrong impression.

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