# I'm getting laid too much. **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [January 15, 2001, 1:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066 "2001-01-15T01:51:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 6
**Author:** ![Esprix](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/esprix/32/7899_2.png) [@Esprix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Esprix)\ **Post date:** [January 17, 2001, 11:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066/101 "2001-01-17T23:52:20Z")
**vanilla** , you’re jumping to conclusions, my dear - please don’t. I promise that no souls were damaged in the making of this sexcapade - all safe, sane, and consensual. Really. **matt** , however… well, I’ll be driving him insane when we finally meet… \ Esprix ---
**Author:** ![Falcon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/49beb7/32.png) [@Falcon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Falcon)\ **Post date:** [January 17, 2001, 11:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066/102 "2001-01-17T23:57:41Z")
Would SOMEone just buy matt a ticket to California already? Please? 😉 _sweet, innocent smile_ ---
**Author:** ![Esprix](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/esprix/32/7899_2.png) [@Esprix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Esprix)\ **Post date:** [January 18, 2001, 12:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066/103 "2001-01-18T12:36:49Z")
Ooo! Ooo! Add Arik to the list - a gymnast, no less. \ 😉 Esprix ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [January 18, 2001, 1:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066/104 "2001-01-18T13:36:45Z")
Yes, please! (image of menage a trois between me, Spree, & Doob…) Dammit! I have a Spanish test in ninety minutes! ---
**Author:** ![vanilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/f19dbf/32.png) [@vanilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vanilla)\ **Post date:** [January 18, 2001, 2:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066/105 "2001-01-18T14:24:53Z")
Esprix: Sorry. I stand corrected. Carry on. ---
**Author:** ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)\ **Post date:** [January 18, 2001, 2:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066/106 "2001-01-18T14:32:53Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Esprix \* > **Ooo! Ooo! Add Arik to the list - a gymnast, no less. \ 😉** How was his dismount?😃 [sub]Oh, **c’mon** …it had to be said…[/sub] ---
**Author:** ![cykrider](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@cykrider](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cykrider)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2001, 2:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066/107 "2001-01-19T02:39:49Z")
I know I’m still pretty fresh around here and I’m not one to cause trouble. I’ve read this post and I’ve read the pit post as well. After reading this you may wonder why I bothered to read this post at all. And you might tell me that if I don’t like it I don’t have to read it. Well, if you don’t like what I have to say, you don’t have to read it. But hear me out. I want everyone to be forewarned that I am merely expressing my view. m’kay? Esprix, I think that if you truely cared about these people, you should try make love to them (or better yet one of them). Do you know the difference between having sex and making love? Sex without love is f\*cking dude. I find it hard to believe that you would care about someone enough to have sex with them and then later that day go off and repeat it with someone else. Or is that why you put this in mundane and pointless stuff? It’s really mundane and pointless? Basically I think you are degrading an act which was intended to be an act of love. Has it losts it’s value? Has promiscutiy become something so commonplace in our society that it is now considered acceptable? Their is a big gay rights campaign out there, and I feel that you’re not helping your cause. How you or anyone else finds your actions moral is beyond me. Do you believe it’s ok to be a prostitute? So far, the only difference I’ve observed in your actions and a prostitute’s is that you never got any money out of it. So what does “gay pride” stand for? Are you proud that you can get laid multiple times in one day? Someone on here said it was your job to rub it in the straight people’s faces that your getting laid alot. Please realize that some of us don’t want to be laid all the time if at all. After re-reading what I’ve said, I’m sure this is going to be moved to the Pit, sorry. Furthermore, just because I’m new doesn’t make my post worthless. Esprix has many other fine qualities I’m sure, but I was hoping to enlighten him and maybe some others in my post. You can flame me, curse me, or ignore me, but I will stand up for what I believe in. Good luck, and be careful Esprix. ---
**Author:** ![webmastr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/9fc29f/32.png) [@webmastr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/webmastr)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2001, 3:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066/108 "2001-01-19T03:08:33Z")
I would only say that I am not sure if Esprix getting loads of loving has anything to do with ‘gay pride’. If a straight guy does the bunny hump a zillion times a day, does anyone think it gives straights a bad name? In my previous post I mentioned that I believe that a straight guy posting something in line with what Esprix posted would not be treated so nicely. This does not necessarily mean I think that Esprix should or should not be doing the horizontal bop any chance he gets 🙂 All disclaimers about safe sex, mutual understanding on expectations, etc. included… ---
**Author:** ![Esprix](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/esprix/32/7899_2.png) [@Esprix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Esprix)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2001, 3:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066/109 "2001-01-19T03:10:13Z")
:rolleyes: Jesus H. tap-dancin’ Christ in a g-string… Don’t speak to me as if I’m a child, **cykrider**. [ul][li]Sex is fun. Sex can be consensual for one night, several nights, or the rest of one’s lives. Sex can involve love. Sex can also just be about two people getting off. There is nothing inherently wrong with any of these. Overall, I know and understand the differences between all of these, as do my partners. I am not an idiot.[/li] [li]I don’t really care what you may or may not find hard to believe about what I do or don’t do. YMMV is a very good rule of thumb. Please don’t make presumptions about what I do or do not feel. Thank you.[/li] [li]My sexual life reflects not one iota on the gay community, its goals, or equal rights in general. If anything, the gay rights movement is about _freedom_, and if that includes promiscuity as well as monogamy, so be it. I wasn’t aware that all gay men and lesbians wanted to be involved in life-long, monogamous relationships at all times without any other options.[/li] [li]Keep your morality to yourself.[/li] [li]I am not a prostitute.[/li] [li]If you don’t want to get laid a lot, bully for you. I hope you’re happy. I’m not criticizing you. YMMV, again.[/ul][/li] Esprix ---
**Author:** ![cykrider](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@cykrider](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cykrider)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2001, 3:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066/110 "2001-01-19T03:51:44Z")
Again, I just wanted to express my thoughts on the matter. Thanks for listening. I don’t plan on posting or looking here anymore. No offense Esprix, if you don’t want me treating you like a child; don’t act like one. ---
**Author:** ![Esprix](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/esprix/32/7899_2.png) [@Esprix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Esprix)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2001, 5:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066/111 "2001-01-19T05:32:08Z")
Yeah, “no offense,” calling me a prostitute, second-guessing my emotional state and moralizing over my behavior. Sure. Whatever. :rolleyes: Esprix ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2001, 6:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066/112 "2001-01-19T06:16:11Z")
You know, interesting you should mention being a child. When I was a child, I thought men and women always got married and always became mommies and daddies afterwards. Now I’m an adult, and in so being I realize things are _slightly_ more complicated than that. The world is a bigger place than you know of, cykrider, and talking down to one of the most respected posters on this board is not the best way to ingratiate yourself to us. Bear this in mind. ---
**Author:** ![Esprix](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/esprix/32/7899_2.png) [@Esprix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Esprix)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2001, 6:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066/113 "2001-01-19T06:28:11Z")
And since I’d like to keep this thread about sex (hello, **matt** … ;)), if you really want to debate the current state of HIV and AIDS, you can go to [this thread](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?threadid=56265) which I started. Just a thought. Now, then, **matt** , you were saying something about you, me, and **Doobeious**? C’mere, my little French Canadian sex kitten… Esprix ---
**Author:** ![Coldfire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a587f6/32.png) [@Coldfire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Coldfire)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2001, 9:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066/114 "2001-01-19T09:58:28Z")
**Esprix** , no offense, but I’m closing this thread. Anything of true value has been said, and all the input that seems to be arriving now is either new people providing old opinions (indeed, quite often in a rather thoughtless way), or shameless flirtations between you and the gay contingent on this board. The first type of input belongs in the Pit (unless people choose to voice their opinions in a civil manner - say, without comparing you to a whore). The second type of input, I could easily do without before lunch. 😃 In short, we’ve all had our say, and I don’t wanna keep on checking this thread for yet another “well-meaning” board member who crosses the line when chiming in with his opinion. **cykrider** , take note. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-laid-too-much/50066.md?page=5)