# I'm getting married!

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [April 30, 2010, 1:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812 "2010-04-30T01:39:12Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
**Page:** 4

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [May 3, 2010, 6:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/61 "2010-05-03T18:47:35Z")

</div>

The muckety muck was mahmoud ahmedinajad!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![lorene](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/65b543/32.png) [@lorene](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lorene)\
**Post date:** [May 3, 2010, 6:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/62 "2010-05-03T18:54:44Z")

</div>

Congratulations and all, but what the hell are you doing online now, during your honeymoon??

Not all that bright, indeed…

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![lindsaybluth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/90db22/32.png) [@lindsaybluth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lindsaybluth)\
**Post date:** [May 3, 2010, 10:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/63 "2010-05-03T22:03:50Z")

</div>

> [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](#):
>
> We didn’t - her family are fourth-generation immigrants, so the most Swedish thing about them is the name and some old furniture. She wore something Swedish but I forgot what it was. She also wore a _mangalsutra_ for part of the reception, and some of the traditional bridal bangles the whole time (I have no idea what those are called).
> 
> My mother is throwing a Hindu marriage blessing ceremony/party for us, and we’ll both wear traditional dress (kurta, mandarin collar coat on me; sari for her) during the ceremony.

That sounds nice to me, I have to ask…will you guys have a fire at the Hindu ceremony? 😃

Thanks for answering, I was curious how you guys incorporated various things. Nice and subtle it seems.

And of course, congrats!!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [May 3, 2010, 11:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/64 "2010-05-03T23:27:14Z")

</div>

> [@lorene](#):
>
> Congratulations and all, but what the hell are you doing online now, during your honeymoon??
> 
> Not all that bright, indeed…

I was wondering that myself. 🙂

Congratulations to both of you!

ETA: They’re dropping like flies around here these days!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [May 4, 2010, 5:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/65 "2010-05-04T17:18:39Z")

</div>

> [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](#):
>
> The muckety muck was mahmoud ahmedinajad!

Ah ha! So HE planted the car bomb!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [May 5, 2010, 8:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/66 "2010-05-05T20:41:13Z")

</div>

> [@lorene](#):
>
> Congratulations and all, but what the hell are you doing online now, during your honeymoon??
> 
> Not all that bright, indeed…

She likes to take afternoon naps so I use the time to catch up on work (okay, not really) and post the day’s pictures to Facebook.

I will copy them to Photobucket when I get back so I can link directly to them…

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![ShibbOleth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/848f3c/32.png) [@ShibbOleth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ShibbOleth)\
**Post date:** [May 5, 2010, 9:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/67 "2010-05-05T21:25:01Z")

</div>

I liked the wedding photo of that guy’s ear. That was excellent. Hope you took the opportunity to kick Ahmedinajad right in the dinajad. Now, stay away from here until after the honeymoon is over.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [May 8, 2010, 2:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/68 "2010-05-08T02:17:24Z")

</div>

Aaaaand we’re back. Thanks again for all the happy thoughts. Pictures to follow.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![whitetho](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/whitetho/32/1059_2.png) [@whitetho](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/whitetho)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2015, 3:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/69 "2015-08-25T15:17:33Z")

</div>

Was replying to now deleted post.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2015, 4:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/70 "2015-08-25T16:50:39Z")

</div>

So now that this thread has been resurrected for no apparent reason, how’s married life going after 5 years, **RNATB**? 🙂

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Hal\_Briston](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a9a28c/32.png) [@Hal\_Briston](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hal_Briston)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2015, 5:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/71 "2015-08-25T17:49:34Z")

</div>

Yes, it’s a zombie – but we’ll at least let **RNATB** have a chance to give an update before any potential lockdown. Hope all is still wedded bliss! 🙂

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Spiderman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spiderman/32/230_2.png) [@Spiderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spiderman)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2015, 6:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/72 "2015-08-25T18:02:05Z")

</div>

> [@Hal\_Briston](#):
>
> Yes, it’s a zombie – but we’ll at least let **RNATB** have a chance to give an update before any potential lockdown.

Didn’t his lockdown happen just after he started this thread. 😉

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Duckster](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/duckster/32/1244_2.png) [@Duckster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Duckster)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2015, 6:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/73 "2015-08-25T18:07:16Z")

</div>

> [@Hal\_Briston](#):
>
> Yes, it’s a zombie – but we’ll at least let **RNATB** have a chance to give an update before any potential lockdown. Hope all is still wedded bliss! 🙂

**RNATB** married a zombie? Any little zombies by now?

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2015, 6:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/74 "2015-08-25T18:55:10Z")

</div>

Congratulations!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Urbanredneck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/ea5d25/32.png) [@Urbanredneck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Urbanredneck)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2015, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/75 "2015-08-25T19:12:34Z")

</div>

Watch your credit cards.  
Create a budget.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Hershele\_Ostropoler](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e47c2d/32.png) [@Hershele\_Ostropoler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hershele_Ostropoler)\
**Post date:** [August 26, 2015, 5:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/76 "2015-08-26T17:54:17Z")

</div>

Before I noticed this was a zombie I thought “wow, that’s a long engagement”

Then I noticed and I thought “what went wrong?”

I’m glad nothing seems to have gone wrong.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [August 27, 2015, 2:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/77 "2015-08-27T02:31:19Z")

</div>

> [@RTFirefly](#):
>
> So now that this thread has been resurrected for no apparent reason, how’s married life going after 5 years, **RNATB**? 🙂

Just to note, I saw the post that resurrected the thread. That post has been deleted, but it was spam from someone linking to their website featuring wedding rings for sale.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [November 10, 2015, 10:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/78 "2015-11-10T22:50:53Z")

</div>

Man, I need to do more vanity searches. I just noticed this thread was zombie-awakened in August.

We celebrated our fifth anniversary this past May. Still happy and whole. Since I promised pictures but never posted them, I guess this is a good time to post [the wedding video](http://www.veoh.com/watch/v25652195gfFp26FP). It was shot by my sister-in-law, so the quality isn’t great. We plumped for an extra photographer instead of a videographer, which was probably a mistake.

ETA: No little zombies yet. We’re not quite ready, though we’re close.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![harmonicamoon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/65b543/32.png) [@harmonicamoon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/harmonicamoon)\
**Post date:** [November 11, 2015, 2:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/79 "2015-11-11T02:40:37Z")

</div>

Very nice ceremony. Yeah, I watched the whole video. (I don’t have cable.) And because I feel that we are family. I followed you in law school, the bar exam and now the wedding. My eyes are watering.

But seriously, congrats! I love LTR’s so keep it going.

And still waiting for your visit, amigo.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Buttercup\_Smith](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/buttercup_smith/32/473_2.png) [@Buttercup\_Smith](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Buttercup_Smith)\
**Post date:** [November 12, 2015, 11:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812/80 "2015-11-12T23:35:04Z")

</div>

Congrats. My SO always says to newly married folks “so, you got tired of being happy?”

[Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812.md?page=3)

[Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-getting-married/537812.md?page=5)
