# I'm going on indefinite hiatus from the Dope

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305>\
**Category:** About This Message Board\
**Created:** [July 29, 2014, 4:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305 "2014-07-29T04:50:23Z")\
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**Author:** ![Dead\_Cat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/9fc29f/32.png) [@Dead\_Cat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dead_Cat)\
**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 5:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/41 "2014-07-31T17:42:10Z")

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Sorry to see the OP go, you seemed like one of the more reasonable posters on this board - come back soon!

> [@C\_K\_Dexter\_Haven](#):
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> MODERATOR INTERJECTION: **stpauler** , I assume this is meant to be a joke, but it’s still insulting and as such not permitted in this forum. (You not giving two shits is not the problem, but “random bitch” is.) I agree it’s border-line, but you know better, and please don’t do this again.

I know this wasn’t a warning, so it’s a no harm no foul kind of thing, but my reading of this was **stpauler** explaining what the term “Felicia” (used by another poster) meant to someone who asked, not **stpauler** ragging on the OP. So had it been a warning, I would have argued for it to be rescinded.

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**Author:** ![Fotheringay-Phipps](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d9b06d/32.png) [@Fotheringay-Phipps](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fotheringay-Phipps)\
**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 6:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/42 "2014-07-31T18:12:11Z")

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> [@Dead\_Cat](#):
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> **stpauler** explaining what the term “Felicia” (used by another poster)

This is incorrect.

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**Author:** ![Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7cd45c/32.png) [@Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elendil_s_Heir)\
**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 6:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/43 "2014-07-31T18:25:17Z")

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> [@Eliahna](#):
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> Will be glad to hear from you again when you pop in. All the best 🙂

Seconded. Godspeed, **drewtwo99**.

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**Author:** ![cochrane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cochrane/32/10441_2.png) [@cochrane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cochrane)\
**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 6:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/44 "2014-07-31T18:41:49Z")

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> [@Dead\_Cat](#):
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> **stpauler** explaining what the term “Felicia” (used by another poster) meant to someone who asked, not **stpauler** ragging on the OP.

> [@Fotheringay-Phipps](#):
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> This is incorrect.

I’m sorry, but **Dead Cat’s** explanation sounds logical to me. If you clicked the link, **stpauler** was directly quoting the introductory line of the Urban Dictionary entry and not directly addressing **drewtwo99** or implying that he is a bitch.

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**Author:** ![Fotheringay-Phipps](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d9b06d/32.png) [@Fotheringay-Phipps](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fotheringay-Phipps)\
**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 6:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/45 "2014-07-31T18:44:01Z")

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He provided the link to explain his own usage of the term, directed at the OP, in post #14.

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**Author:** ![stpauler](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9d8465/32.png) [@stpauler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/stpauler)\
**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 6:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/46 "2014-07-31T18:44:19Z")

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> [@Dead\_Cat](#):
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> Sorry to see the OP go, you seemed like one of the more reasonable posters on this board - come back soon!
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> I know this wasn’t a warning, so it’s a no harm no foul kind of thing, but my reading of this was **stpauler** explaining what the term “Felicia” (used by another poster) meant to someone who asked, not **stpauler** ragging on the OP. So had it been a warning, I would have argued for it to be rescinded.

I should’ve found a better definition for the term or changed it to “random person” like this one. My fault for just grabbing the first one:

> [@](#):
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> [“Bye Felicia” is what Smokey and Craig say to get rid of Felicia in the movie Friday. Felicia keeps dropping by asking for stuff, because that’s what crackheads do. That’s why “Bye Felicia” is what people say when someone is bothering them like a pesky crackhead and they have no more energy to give to their foolishness](http://madamenoire.com/430286/phrases-decoded/#sthash.aXoOejMg.dpuf)

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**Author:** ![Fenris](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fenris/32/498_2.png) [@Fenris](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fenris)\
**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 7:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/47 "2014-07-31T19:03:00Z")

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> [@cochrane](#):
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> I’m sorry, but **Dead Cat’s** explanation sounds logical to me. If you clicked the link, **stpauler** was directly quoting the introductory line of the Urban Dictionary entry and not directly addressing **drewtwo99** or implying that he is a bitch.

So in post 14, he essentially called DrewTwo99 a “bothersome, pesky crackhead” and that you have “no more energy to give to his foolishness”. Which is why Dex’s note was correct.

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**Author:** ![cochrane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cochrane/32/10441_2.png) [@cochrane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cochrane)\
**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/48 "2014-07-31T19:12:08Z")

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Yeah, I missed that **stpauler** made the “Bye, Felicia” comment in the first place. So you guys (and **Dex** ) are correct.

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**Author:** ![stpauler](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9d8465/32.png) [@stpauler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/stpauler)\
**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/49 "2014-07-31T20:26:35Z")

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> [@Fenris](#):
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> So in post 14, **he** essentially called DrewTwo99 a “bothersome, pesky crackhead” and that **you** have “no more energy to give to his foolishness”. Which is why Dex’s note was correct.

Who knows what you’re trying to say here because your use of pronouns is all over the place per the bolded quote above. But really? Is that what I REALLY did? No.

Here’s another definition for this common slang phrase:

> [@](#):
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> [It’s a phrase for telling someone to get out/leave/I’m done with you, and I’m pretty sure it’s from the movie Friday](http://www.reddit.com/r/OutOfTheLoop/comments/1v8eki/why_did_bye_felicia_suddenly_become_so_popular/)

:rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![cochrane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cochrane/32/10441_2.png) [@cochrane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cochrane)\
**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 9:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/50 "2014-07-31T21:28:54Z")

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Blah. Whatever. It was just a mod note. Nothing substantial at stake.

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**Author:** ![Biffy\_the\_Elephant\_Shrew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e47c2d/32.png) [@Biffy\_the\_Elephant\_Shrew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Biffy_the_Elephant_Shrew)\
**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 10:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/51 "2014-07-31T22:12:50Z")

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> [@Morgenstern](#):
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> The board is in wane, and I don’t see that stopping.

And I wonder, still I wonder, who’ll stop the wane?

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**Author:** ![TroutMan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/troutman/32/6721_2.png) [@TroutMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TroutMan)\
**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 10:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/52 "2014-07-31T22:20:21Z")

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> [@Biffy\_the\_Elephant\_Shrew](#):
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> And I wonder, still I wonder, who’ll stop the wane?

That’s it, I’m leaving too.

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**Author:** ![C\_K\_Dexter\_Haven](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b2d939/32.png) [@C\_K\_Dexter\_Haven](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/C_K_Dexter_Haven)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2014, 1:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/53 "2014-08-01T01:05:52Z")

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**stpauler** : you’re just digging yourself in deeper. You brought up “Felicia”, presumably pointing at the OP, and that’s insulting (as per all your explanations.) So, drop it.

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**Author:** ![stpauler](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9d8465/32.png) [@stpauler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/stpauler)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2014, 1:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/54 "2014-08-01T01:20:02Z")

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Paradoxically, this is making me grok **drewtwo99** ’s position more explicitly.

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**Author:** ![MeanOldLady](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/meanoldlady/32/10737_2.png) [@MeanOldLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MeanOldLady)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2014, 1:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/55 "2014-08-01T01:35:21Z")

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Don’t worry, **stpauler** , I got it. I got it the first time.

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**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2014, 6:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/56 "2014-08-01T18:22:18Z")

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I could have got it but I haven’t seen Friday in a long time.  
ETA: Holy hamburgers that movie is almost 20 years old.

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**Author:** ![Dead\_Cat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/9fc29f/32.png) [@Dead\_Cat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dead_Cat)\
**Post date:** [August 5, 2014, 2:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/57 "2014-08-05T14:22:13Z")

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> [@cochrane](#):
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> Yeah, I missed that **stpauler** made the “Bye, Felicia” comment in the first place. So you guys (and **Dex** ) are correct.

I’d missed this as well, apologies. Now I _really_ wish I hadn’t mentioned it, but at least we all seem to agree now!

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**Author:** ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)\
**Post date:** [August 6, 2014, 8:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/58 "2014-08-06T20:32:34Z")

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Good to see you are still checking up on us.

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**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\
**Post date:** [August 6, 2014, 8:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/59 "2014-08-06T20:41:27Z")

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Good to see you’re checking up on him checking up on us.

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**Author:** ![Zeldar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/b77776/32.png) [@Zeldar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zeldar)\
**Post date:** [August 6, 2014, 8:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-going-on-indefinite-hiatus-from-the-dope/694305/60 "2014-08-06T20:47:25Z")

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> [@Baker](#):
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> Good to see you are still checking up on us.

> [@Inner\_Stickler](#):
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> Good to see you’re checking up on him checking up on us.

[Looking Back To See](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bhfQ4oFy4Oo)

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