# I'm in love with my gay male friend

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [November 8, 2013, 11:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-in-love-with-my-gay-male-friend/673468 "2013-11-08T23:52:08Z")\
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**Author:** ![TashaKitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/d26b3c/32.png) [@TashaKitty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TashaKitty)\
**Post date:** [November 8, 2013, 11:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-in-love-with-my-gay-male-friend/673468/1 "2013-11-08T23:52:08Z")

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I want to lose my virginity to him. I literally fantasize about it and I call his name out when I orgasm. We’re close enough to be comfortable around each other naked but obviously, since he’s gay, he probably wouldn’t want to have sex with me. We’ve talked about having a child together in the future, but I want to conceive it naturally instead of via turkey baster.

Should I tell him or would that scare him off? Or should I go for the gusto and strip down and start playing with him and see what his reaction is?

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