# I'm looking for sympathy, empathy, and good vibes

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-looking-for-sympathy-empathy-and-good-vibes/539133>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [May 12, 2010, 2:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-looking-for-sympathy-empathy-and-good-vibes/539133 "2010-05-12T02:20:47Z")\
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**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\
**Post date:** [May 17, 2010, 5:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-looking-for-sympathy-empathy-and-good-vibes/539133/41 "2010-05-17T17:07:24Z")

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My goodness, sounds like you’ve been through some stuff. Sending good thoughts your way.

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**Author:** ![banjoDavid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3d9bf3/32.png) [@banjoDavid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/banjoDavid)\
**Post date:** [May 17, 2010, 5:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-looking-for-sympathy-empathy-and-good-vibes/539133/42 "2010-05-17T17:39:15Z")

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Thanks for the continued support.

I can say right now I am NOT in pain, but am quite uncomfortable. That’s a big deal difference!

Keep on pickin’. If there is enough interest I will copy the banjo lesson to a new thread of banjo lessons, and keep writing them.

Love  
David

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**Author:** ![Ferret\_Herder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e47774/32.png) [@Ferret\_Herder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ferret_Herder)\
**Post date:** [May 17, 2010, 5:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-looking-for-sympathy-empathy-and-good-vibes/539133/43 "2010-05-17T17:50:31Z")

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Glad to hear that things are all right for you so far, and I’ll keep wishing for a good outcome!

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**Author:** ![Surly\_Chick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ec9cab/32.png) [@Surly\_Chick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Surly_Chick)\
**Post date:** [May 17, 2010, 6:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-looking-for-sympathy-empathy-and-good-vibes/539133/44 "2010-05-17T18:00:08Z")

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Well, look at the bright side - if you need to lose some weight, this will help…

Hugs and hope you’re feeling better!

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**Author:** ![Libre](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/85e7bf/32.png) [@Libre](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Libre)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2010, 6:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-looking-for-sympathy-empathy-and-good-vibes/539133/45 "2010-05-18T06:48:44Z")

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I’m really sorry to hear of this, brother.

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**Author:** ![banjoDavid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3d9bf3/32.png) [@banjoDavid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/banjoDavid)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2010, 8:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-looking-for-sympathy-empathy-and-good-vibes/539133/46 "2010-05-19T20:01:26Z")

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Once again, thanks for the kind words

I am feeling better, speaking through clenched teeth is getting easier, and I haven’t had to take pain medication for a few days now.  
I will probably do my bluegrass radio show on Saturday, June 5. I just won’t talk as much about the tracks I play.

And to sad Rand Rover, a big hug!

Love  
David

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**Author:** ![WordMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e8c25b/32.png) [@WordMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WordMan)\
**Post date:** [May 20, 2010, 7:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-looking-for-sympathy-empathy-and-good-vibes/539133/47 "2010-05-20T19:57:39Z")

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> [@banjoDavid](#):
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> The 5 string banjo is tuned to an open G chord.

So THAT’s why bluegrass guitar players typically play in G, C, D type chords…I guess I kinda knew that, but hadn’t put it all together - ignorance fought.

Can you play any Rolling Stones on the banjo, since Keef plays Open G on a number of their best songs? 😉

Glad to hear you are on the mend. I’ll have to tell you about that pre-war Martin D-18 I played a few months ago…

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**Author:** ![banjoDavid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3d9bf3/32.png) [@banjoDavid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/banjoDavid)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2010, 5:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-looking-for-sympathy-empathy-and-good-vibes/539133/48 "2010-05-22T17:04:16Z")

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No Expectations, the Spider & the Fly, Wild Horses

Also Beatles tunes, the Who, some jazz, and oh yeah, bluegrass too.  
Good music can work in many different contexts.  
Pre-war D-18, cool.  
I heard Tony Rice at a workshop and concert a couple weeks ago playing Clarence White’s old D-28 with the enlarged sound hole. He uses VERY low action and nickle steel strings, and says he only changes them about twice a year.  
I’m off to teach some banjo.  
Love  
David

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