# I'm receiving some seriously mixed signals from this woman. Care to help me decipher them?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [July 31, 2014, 5:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-receiving-some-seriously-mixed-signals-from-this-woman-care-to-help-me-decipher-them/694468 "2014-07-31T05:28:43Z")\
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**Author:** ![tullsterx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e9bcb4/32.png) [@tullsterx](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tullsterx)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2014, 1:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-receiving-some-seriously-mixed-signals-from-this-woman-care-to-help-me-decipher-them/694468/41 "2014-08-14T01:58:13Z")

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Unlike some of the other commenters, I think maybe you weren’t that into her.

From my experience, and I’m a kinda shy guy, when I’ve seen a woman I was really attracted to, who showed interest in me, my “inner man” demanded that I take action. At those times I was definitely telling myself “Holy Shit! She is awesome. God I want to (lewd things) with her. . . and get to know her and hold her! God I want her! Damn. I am definitely not going to sit this one out.”

I’m not hearing anything like that here. . . . I think you need to move on and look for someone that makes you feel like that. It’s pretty primal, but it’s real.

I’ve been married to a woman that makes me feel like that for the last 9 years.

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**Author:** ![handsomeharry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e9c0ed/32.png) [@handsomeharry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/handsomeharry)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2014, 7:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-receiving-some-seriously-mixed-signals-from-this-woman-care-to-help-me-decipher-them/694468/42 "2014-08-14T07:12:11Z")

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> [@AnaMen](#):
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> These signals are consistent with her being interested in you at first, then losing interest. They aren’t mixed.

This.

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**Author:** ![handsomeharry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e9c0ed/32.png) [@handsomeharry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/handsomeharry)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2014, 7:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-receiving-some-seriously-mixed-signals-from-this-woman-care-to-help-me-decipher-them/694468/43 "2014-08-14T07:13:17Z")

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> [@control-z](#):
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> Basically it sounds like she wasn’t that into you and didn’t have the courtesy or the guts to tell you about it. I’ve been there, on both sides.
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> The advice I’ve always thought wise was if they are into you they will find a way to see you. If not they may like you but they are not in love/lust with you.

And this.

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