# I'm trying to think of a word

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [April 19, 2015, 4:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024 "2015-04-19T04:01:34Z")\
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**Author:** ![Roderick\_Femm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/roderick_femm/32/14875_2.png) [@Roderick\_Femm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Roderick_Femm)\
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… to describe a person whose every utterance is absolute, who is positive that s/he is right and who does not harbor any doubts about anything s/he says. You should just take their utterances as given, and not expect any supporting evidence, even though there may be a lot of both supporting and counter evidence. This person does not know “on the other hand.”

Now that I’ve written out the description, it sounds a lot like Sheldon Cooper. Interesting. Has anyone on that show used the word I’m looking for (something specific to this characteristic, not a generic “asshole” sort of word)?

I was so sure there was such a word, but I have been reaching for it for days now and I can’t come up with one. I’ve tried thesauruses to no avail.

Any help out there?

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**Author:** ![usedtobe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/ec9cab/32.png) [@usedtobe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/usedtobe)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 4:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/2 "2015-04-19T04:09:00Z")

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Maybe some variant of “Absolutist”?

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**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 4:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/3 "2015-04-19T04:10:38Z")

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“Bill O’Reilly”?

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**Author:** ![guizot](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guizot/32/3636_2.png) [@guizot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/guizot)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 4:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/4 "2015-04-19T04:15:10Z")

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There are various terms, depending on how you wish to paint the person. Did you consider any of these?:

_cocksure  
overbearing  
dogmatic  
unflappable  
imposing  
imperative  
dictatorial_

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**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 5:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/5 "2015-04-19T05:13:19Z")

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There’s the phrase “ipse dixit” which means “he has spoken”. It originally referred to somebody who had the power to make official declarations - for example, a judge - but now it more often refers to somebody who acts as if anything they say is a declaration of fact.

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**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 5:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/6 "2015-04-19T05:22:38Z")

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> [@Little\_Nemo](#):
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> There’s the phrase “ipse dixit” which means “he has spoken”. It originally referred to somebody who had the power to make official declarations - for example, a judge - but now it more often refers to somebody who acts as if anything they say is a declaration of fact.

Or, Mammy Yokum’s famous declaration: “AH has spoken!”

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**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 5:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/7 "2015-04-19T05:34:28Z")

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Just spotted this one, in German, in the nearby thread about silly euphemisms:

> [@Suggest a Humorous Euphemism (kid-friendly too, please!)](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/suggest-a-humorous-euphemism-kid-friendly-too-please/717861/47):
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> \*Rotzlöffel \*(it actually means an annoyingly know-it-all young person who is still wet behind the ears; literally translates as “snot-spoon”)

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**Author:** ![Becky2844](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@Becky2844](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Becky2844)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 9:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/8 "2015-04-19T09:17:45Z")

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[wordhippo.com](http://wordhippo.com) is a great site for questions like this.

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**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 11:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/9 "2015-04-19T11:43:24Z")

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Arrogant  
Smug  
Uppity  
Presumptuous  
Haughty

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**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 1:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/10 "2015-04-19T13:06:41Z")

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Around here, we call him Mike.

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**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 1:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/11 "2015-04-19T13:48:16Z")

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Narcissist.

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**Author:** ![Zeldar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/b77776/32.png) [@Zeldar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zeldar)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 1:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/12 "2015-04-19T13:59:56Z")

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First thing I thought of was [Imprimatur Definition & Meaning | Dictionary.com](http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/imprimatur)

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**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 2:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/13 "2015-04-19T14:16:48Z")

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**Obstinate**

Looking it up it gives **pertinacious** as a synonym. I’ve never used that word and if you think I’m going to start now you’ve got another thing coming!  
Also **refractory** , but I’ve been using that to describe bricks.

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**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 2:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/14 "2015-04-19T14:19:13Z")

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I first thought of _fundamentalist_, but that’s not quite right. Checking a thesaurus gave me the following alternatives:

die-hard  
\*a person who vigorously maintains or defends a seemingly hopeless position, outdated attitude, lost cause, or the like. \*

intransigent  
_a person who refuses to agree or compromise, as in politics._

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**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 3:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/15 "2015-04-19T15:39:30Z")

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I find “useless” pretty well describes the folks the OP’s asking about.

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**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 3:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/16 "2015-04-19T15:41:48Z")

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Doper

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supercilious  
peremptory  
autocrat  
know-it-all

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**Author:** ![Roderick\_Femm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/roderick_femm/32/14875_2.png) [@Roderick\_Femm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Roderick_Femm)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/18 "2015-04-19T16:46:40Z")

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Dogmatic. That’s the word I was trying to think of (thanks **guizot** ).

Not a difficult or unusual word, but I just couldn’t think of it. I’m sure there’s a good reason for that, other than creeping senility.

Lots of other good words up there too, guys. But “dogmatic” is the one I was trying to think of, that was in the back of my mind and the tip of my tongue at the same time.

(Here’s a phenomenon, I wonder if there’s a name for it: while trying to think of this word I came up with “didactic” which is sort of related but not a synonym. Once I had that word in my head that was it, I couldn’t come up with the right word because “didactic” was too close in sound and was sort of blocking the right word.)

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**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 4:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/19 "2015-04-19T16:58:39Z")

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Overweening

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**Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 5:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-trying-to-think-of-a-word/718024/20 "2015-04-19T17:07:19Z")

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> [@Roderick\_Femm](#):
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> Dogmatic. That’s the word I was trying to think of (thanks **guizot** ).
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> Not a difficult or unusual word, but I just couldn’t think of it. I’m sure there’s a good reason for that, other than creeping senility.
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> Lots of other good words up there too, guys. But “dogmatic” is the one I was trying to think of, that was in the back of my mind and the tip of my tongue at the same time.
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> (Here’s a phenomenon, I wonder if there’s a name for it: while trying to think of this word I came up with “didactic” which is sort of related but not a synonym. Once I had that word in my head that was it, I couldn’t come up with the right word because “didactic” was too close in sound and was sort of blocking the right word.)

That _phenomenon_ you describe is attacking me a lot these days (must be related to aging somehow) to the point of having to rely on another similar sequence of events: that of knowing that if I wait a while (hours in some cases) the missing word or face or snippet of a song will eventually penetrate my consciousness from where it had been lurking.

Just the other day I was having lunch with some old buddies and had several instances of having to wait to finish a thought or sentence until that “recall circuit” had completed. At least the other folks had similar issues so I wasn’t made to feel totally inadequate.

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