# Important News for Friends of norinew \[RIP\]

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [May 30, 2011, 2:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727 "2011-05-30T02:11:51Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Ellen\_Cherry](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ellen_cherry/32/3600_2.png) [@Ellen\_Cherry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ellen_Cherry)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 10:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/321 "2011-06-02T10:07:29Z")

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Arielle, thank you for taking the time to post. I lost my dad when I was about your age. Your family is in my prayers.

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**Author:** ![IvoryTowerDenizen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ivorytowerdenizen/32/17937_2.png) [@IvoryTowerDenizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IvoryTowerDenizen)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 10:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/322 "2011-06-02T10:09:41Z")

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> [@EtherealFreakOfPinkness](#):
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> This is her middle daughter, Arielle. I would like to thank you all for your support. Your kind words about my mother are both appreciated and true. My mother was a loving, inspiring, brilliant person and I’m truly honored to be related to her. I consider myself blessed because I got to spend 20 years with her, although that time was entirely too short and went by entirely too quickly. The only thing even remotely relieving about this whole ordeal is that she was in pain for quite some time, and it’s comforing to know that she no longer is.

Your mom was great and will be missed.

My deepest condolences to your whole family. It was so obvious even over posts on a message board how much she loved you guys.

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**Author:** ![Sticks\_and\_Scones](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sticks_and_scones/32/16951_2.png) [@Sticks\_and\_Scones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sticks_and_Scones)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 10:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/323 "2011-06-02T10:18:11Z")

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Even after reading this entire thread it’s still hard to believe that this has happened. I am another person to whom Norine offered kind words and an offer of friendship many years ago when I was having a tough time.

She was a delightful person and a sweet and kind soul. We will all miss her so very much…

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**Author:** ![Pixiesnix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/898d66/32.png) [@Pixiesnix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pixiesnix)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 10:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/324 "2011-06-02T10:34:06Z")

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Oh no…

I don’t remember interacting with her, but I do remember reading her posts. They showed her to be a smart, funny, good-natured person who loved her family fiercely. The board and the planet are a little less for her not being here.

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**Author:** ![ratatoskK](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ratatoskk/32/2987_2.png) [@ratatoskK](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ratatoskK)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 12:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/325 "2011-06-02T12:08:57Z")

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I also liked her a lot and am very sorry to hear this sad news. My condolences to her family.

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**Author:** ![ladyfoxfyre](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ad7895/32.png) [@ladyfoxfyre](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ladyfoxfyre)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 12:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/326 "2011-06-02T12:23:26Z")

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Damn, this sucks. I really liked her ☹

She will be missed for sure.

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**Author:** ![MsWhatsit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb8c5e/32.png) [@MsWhatsit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MsWhatsit)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 12:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/327 "2011-06-02T12:49:50Z")

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I hate that this thread says RIP. I hate that. ☹ :mad:

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**Author:** ![John\_DiFool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_difool/32/19543_2.png) [@John\_DiFool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_DiFool)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 12:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/328 "2011-06-02T12:57:37Z")

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Two things: the In Memoriam thread needs updating, and can we put a custom tag on her handle saying that, or some other pertinent title? Seems appropriate to me.

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**Author:** ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 1:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/329 "2011-06-02T13:22:13Z")

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> [@John\_DiFool](#):
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> Two things: the In Memoriam thread needs updating, and can we put a custom tag on her handle saying that, or some other pertinent title? Seems appropriate to me.

I usually wait about a week before updating the In Memoriam thread (although we’ve had several days of posts about **norinew** already, so I could do it sooner if I get the time). We don’t do custom tags for people who’ve died. The admins move them into a different user group so the account is no longer active but doesn’t say “banned.”

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**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 1:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/330 "2011-06-02T13:29:49Z")

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> [@IvoryTowerDenizen](#):
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> Your mom was great and will be missed.
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> My deepest condolences to your whole family. It was so obvious even over posts on a message board how much she loved you guys.

**norinew** is one of a very few posters who I think of as “extra people” - she wasn’t just her, she was you guys, her family. When I think of her, I think of her children. I suspect she would have been very happy to hear that.

My thoughts are with you all.

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**Author:** ![DianaG](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7ab992/32.png) [@DianaG](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DianaG)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 2:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/331 "2011-06-02T14:42:18Z")

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This is so sad. I didn’t know Norine personally, but reading her posts over the years I’ve always thought of her as an exceptionally kind person, and like RNATB said so well, when I thought of her, I thought of her family.

I’m so sorry for your loss, you’re all in my thoughts.

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**Author:** ![Koldanar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/dbc845/32.png) [@Koldanar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Koldanar)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 2:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/332 "2011-06-02T14:46:22Z")

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I am so sorry I came to this late; my condolences to all the friends and family of norinew ☹

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**Author:** ![Beware\_of\_Doug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/278dde/32.png) [@Beware\_of\_Doug](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beware_of_Doug)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 2:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/333 "2011-06-02T14:56:48Z")

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I too read the thread hoping for the best, but knowing the odds were long. The sorrow you must feel, I cannot imagine. I wish you all possible consolation and peace.

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**Author:** ![CandidGamera](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/candidgamera/32/2878_2.png) [@CandidGamera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CandidGamera)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 4:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/334 "2011-06-02T16:16:18Z")

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Sudden and horrible. My sympathies and condolences to the family.

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**Author:** ![lindsaybluth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/90db22/32.png) [@lindsaybluth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lindsaybluth)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 4:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/335 "2011-06-02T16:18:56Z")

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> [@MsWhatsit](#):
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> I hate that this thread says RIP. I hate that. ☹ :mad:

God I just saw that now. I feel like throwing up.

**Arielle** , something else to know about your Mom is that she was universally liked. There are several posters in this thread who think that I should take a long walk off of a short pier and I think the same of them. And yet we’re all universal in our respect and admiration of your mom. The way she resonated with people of all different perspectives and outlooks was nothing short of incredible.

Most of these threads last a page or two. This one’s sure to hit 10.

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**Author:** ![bup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6bbea6/32.png) [@bup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bup)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 6:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/336 "2011-06-02T18:43:53Z")

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I’m very sorry.

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**Author:** ![Larry\_Griffin-Kentzel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/larry_griffin-kentzel/32/14787_2.png) [@Larry\_Griffin-Kentzel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Larry_Griffin-Kentzel)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 6:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/337 "2011-06-02T18:45:40Z")

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> [@lindsaybluth](#):
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> Most of these threads last a page or two. This one’s sure to hit 10.

Please keep in mind that people are often – as no doubt in this case – too shocked to say anything.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/338 "2011-06-02T19:12:27Z")

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I keep thinking, “But she was just _here_ - she can’t be dead.” I can’t even imagine how it is hitting her family.

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**Author:** ![SylverOne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c0e974/32.png) [@SylverOne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SylverOne)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 7:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/339 "2011-06-02T19:15:12Z")

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Shocked about covers it…

I’m so sorry - your family is in my thoughts.

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**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2011, 7:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/important-news-for-friends-of-norinew-rip/583727/340 "2011-06-02T19:17:41Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> I keep thinking, “But she was just _here_ - she can’t be dead.” I can’t even imagine how it is hitting her family.

Exactly! I wake up in the night and think, “Norine gone? But we were _just talking_.”

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