# In love with my manager.... he knows it... and i need tips to move on ??

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion
**Created:** [October 2, 2014, 11:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/in-love-with-my-manager-he-knows-it-and-i-need-tips-to-move-on/700173 "2014-10-02T11:55:11Z")
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### Author: ![Inf3rno](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8491ac/32.png) [@Inf3rno](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inf3rno)
#### Post date: [October 2, 2014, 11:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/in-love-with-my-manager-he-knows-it-and-i-need-tips-to-move-on/700173/1 "2014-10-02T11:55:11Z")

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Hi  
So lately i have been getting butterflys in my tummy when i see my manager or he touches ne in any way…  
I jever had a thing for him in past 2 years and bow suddenly i am head over heels for him… it started out coz f him… he started looking at me … and then he touched and rubbed my back daily by some or the other reason… then he started to check me out from head to toe not in some creepy way …but he had dis intense look in his eyes…which made me skip a beat… den he started noticing change in my behaviour as i became more confused and worried about all dis… i suddenly became more aware of his presence i became quieter and more lost in my thoughts … i tried avoiding him… and den he started hitting ke with his questions what happened to u… y r u so lost… wts bothering u… i replied nothing to all f his questions so he said dats hes hundred percent sure ders something in my mind… and whenevr he asked all dis he gave me a strange look and smile almost as if he was dazed… n dat made my heart beat more faster… this went on for few weeks and then one day he told me to tell him wts wrng odrwise he will take a one to one meet with me… n that day i told him dat ders nthn i cn tell hm coz i myself m confused and i told hm dat all i want is for him to b safe coz a few days back he had an accident and that oeft me way tooo scared… post dat he still looks at me all d tym n he still touches my back which i am in love with now… the way his hand feels is nthn i cn describe but i dont react and now i want to know how can i avoid him n get this feeling out of me… coz afterall hes my manager and i dnt wnt to mess things up… \*\*\*\*hes single and i am single hes jus 5 years elder to me…but still i dnt wnt this coz if it turned out that he dosent loves me i will b damn hurt… so mite as well i avoid him… helppppp :smack:

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