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No, that’s just stupid. The remedy is to get very outraged about the law, and to change the law. People who have no power to change the law can still be outraged by it. The law itself is newsworthy, outrageous and morally wrong. For laws to be just, they must have some reason to exist. There is no reason for a law to have a special penalty for having oral sex, that doesn’t apply to vaginal sex.
I remember when it was illegal for consenting, married adults to have oral sex in Georgia. The answer, of course, is to avoid having oral sex, right Aangelica?
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Read what I actually wrote.
The remedy for an unjust or invalid law is to seek to change that law. It isn’t to violate that law or to applaud those who do. If the law outrages you, then that’s all well and good if you channel your outrage into working to amend or remove the law that so outrages you. If all it motivates you to do is defend the person who broke the law, then I submit your priorities are in the wrong spot.
Until a law is changed, it’s still the law.
I also dispute that the law itself can be categorized as outrageous and morally wrong - there are at least arguably reasons to have such a law in place, historically and currently. I’m not entirely sure I agree with those reasons, but I don’t live in Georgia, either.
There are also reasons for laws to have different penalties based on the sort of sex act it was - not ones that I necessarily agree with - but reasons all the same. If, for example, you believe sexual acts should be reserved solely for procreation (not that I do, but a goodly number of people at least profess to believe so), then there’s every reason for having oral and anal sexual conduct in that situation carry heavier penalties. In some instances, there are health reprecussions - for example, anal sex is more physically dangerous than vaginal sex for women - or can be.
As for the law itself being newsworthy, that’s just bollocks. To the best of my knowledge, all 50 states have laws prohibiting “statutory rape” (i.e., prohibiting sexual relations solely because of the age of the participants, regardless of consent).
There are plenty of reasons for those laws to exist. For starters, historically, one of the reasons behind the original enactment of “statutory rape” laws was to prevent people who had sex with children from arguing they’d gotten consent from the child in question. This is based primarily on the premise that there is an age before which a child is unable to give meaningful consent to sexual activity, and therefore all sexual activity is by necessity nonconsensual. For an explanation of how this evolved, you can see the discussion in State of North Carolina v. Anthony (http://www.aoc.state.nc.us/www/public/sc/opinions/2000/342-99-1.htm) or alternatively, the article noted here: http://www.ncjrs.gov/app/publications/Abstract.aspx?id=181527
Another historical reason for the enactment of such laws was to discourage the then-traditional practice of marrying girls off as soon as they began menstruating. Girls can quite often begin menstruation before age 12, and instances of girls with regular menses before age 9 are uncommon, but not unheard of. Marrying a girl off at that age is in no sense healthy for the girl - physically or emotionally.
Not all of the historic reasons for enacting those laws still apply, but they’re not totally baseless, either. Granted, prohibiting anyone under the age of 18 (the age at which a person is entitled in this country to enter legal agreements - generally the benchmark for full-consent status) from having sex isn’t reasonable. But, like it or not, it’s hard to dispute rationally the notion that there is an age before which a person cannot give anything that resembles “consent”. A three-year old can say the word “yes” to agree to activities, but I’m not certain it’s possible for a rational argument to be made that the consent is valid in any generally understood meaning of the word “consent”.
I repeat, again, that being outraged because the law was applied as written and implying (or flat-out stating) that the person who broke the law was somehow entitled to do so is wrong-headed thinking and frankly shameful.
Just because you do not agree with the law, does not give you the right to violate it.