# In the Marvel films, is Steve Rogers a virgin (so far)?

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**Created:** [March 24, 2014, 11:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/in-the-marvel-films-is-steve-rogers-a-virgin-so-far/684484 "2014-03-24T23:10:58Z")\
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> [@epbrown01](#):
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> Actually, yeah, given his awkwardness and thinking fondue is a euphemism for intercourse, I’m thinking Steve is a 90-year old virgin.

Oh, come on. He didn’t think it meant sex because he knew nothing about sex, he thought it meant sex because he had never heard of fondue, and the rich guy was talking about going off with the hot chick and doing _something_.

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**Post date:** [March 25, 2014, 4:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/in-the-marvel-films-is-steve-rogers-a-virgin-so-far/684484/22 "2014-03-25T04:39:51Z")

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Well, Sharon Carter is in the new one, so hopefully the guy can get some (implied) action by the end of the flick.

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> [@bienville](#):
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> Tony Stark: definitely not a virgin  
> Bruce Banner: definitely not a virgin (though, hopefully Hulk is)  
> Thor: We haven’t seen evidence onscreen, but probably not a virgin- though it’s not clear if he and Jane have done it yet (but I kind of think that’s what happens after the camera cuts out on the stinger from _Thor: The Dark World_).  
> What do you think?  
> Is the movie version of Steve Rogers still a virgin?  
> If so, do you think he’ll get laid in the new movie?

Why on earth does it matter?

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> [@Broomstick](#):
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> Given the era in which Rogers was raised he might well be a “no sex outside of marriage” kind of guy

This. Not just because of when he was raised (I mean, look at Bucky at the time) but because of who he is. He’s such a do-gooder, he really is saving himself for the right girl. Sweet, really.

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**Post date:** [March 25, 2014, 8:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/in-the-marvel-films-is-steve-rogers-a-virgin-so-far/684484/25 "2014-03-25T08:07:56Z")

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I dunno. I mean, it’s not as if he’s some sort of Protestant Midwestern farm boy. He’s a New Yorker, a working-class kid from Brooklyn. Sexual mores were different there - even in the 1940’s. And I’m saying that as a descendant of Brooklynites.

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> [@Alessan](#):
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> I dunno. I mean, it’s not as if he’s some sort of Protestant Midwestern farm boy. He’s a New Yorker, a working-class kid from Brooklyn. Sexual mores were different there - even in the 1940’s. And I’m saying that as a descendant of Brooklynites.

Yeah, but going by how his personality is presented in the movies, though, he seems a little bit straightlaced. Very WASPy, even if he’s from Brooklyn. He’s clearly religious, at any rate (remember his “There’s only one God, ma’am. And I’m pretty sure He doesn’t dress like that” quip? Also note that he’s “ma’am”-ing a very hot woman in a leather bodysuit! He’s a Boy Scout.)

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All my Scout friends in high school used to have \*tons \*of sex. Made me regret not joining.

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> [@Alessan](#):
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> All my Scout friends in high school used to have \*tons \*of sex. Made me regret not joining.

I assure you, there are nerds, even in Brooklyn. I know personally someone who was raised there and is a virgin in his mid-thirties.

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**Post date:** [March 25, 2014, 9:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/in-the-marvel-films-is-steve-rogers-a-virgin-so-far/684484/29 "2014-03-25T09:13:31Z")

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> [@leahcim](#):
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> I imagine that when Thor has had his way with a woman, he throws her off the bed and yells “Another!”.

No, he yells “I am Mighty Thor!”

And she lisps “Tho am I, but it wath tho wonderful!”

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> [@Chronos](#):
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> More to the point, wasn’t there a scene in the first one with Jane making him breakfast (just cold cereal, but still)? That’s standard code for “these two people have just slept together”.

But that was immediately after the scene where they were sitting by the fire while he described Asgard and the Nine Realms. She fell asleep, and he covered her with a blanket and left. Which is standard code for “He’s too noble to take advantage of the situation.”

Plus, there’s the scene where Thor regains his power and defeats the Destroyer. The kiss between Thor and Jane at the end of that scene was the standard First Kiss.

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I don’t think so. I remember reading a the time that on Army bases and on USO tours when there were women around they were heavily chaperoned.

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> [@Alessan](#):
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> All my Scout friends in high school used to have \*tons \*of sex. Made me regret not joining.

With each other?😕

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> [@Alessan](#):
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> All my Scout friends in high school used to have \*tons \*of sex. Made me regret not joining.

Sex with Scoutmasters don’t count for the purposes of this exercise.  
😉

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> [@msmith537](#):
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> With each other?😕

Scouts here are co-ed.

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> [@muldoonthief](#):
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> But that was immediately after the scene where they were sitting by the fire while he described Asgard and the Nine Realms. She fell asleep, and he covered her with a blanket and left. Which is standard code for “He’s too noble to take advantage of the situation.”
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> Plus, there’s the scene where Thor regains his power and defeats the Destroyer. The kiss between Thor and Jane at the end of that scene was the standard First Kiss.

Natalie Portman didn’t make even a brief appearance in the _Avengers_ movie because she was extremely pregnant. Too bad they didn’t let her show up in high dudgeon, wondering if Thor had, after all, had his way with her while she was asleep. Because she hadn’t been with anybody else.

Then he would have to explain why he hadn’t even gone for a full kiss. (She did.) Because even a deep kiss from an Asgardian can have unexpected results…

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> [@Chronos](#):
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> More to the point, wasn’t there a scene in the first one with Jane making him breakfast (just cold cereal, but still)? That’s standard code for “these two people have just slept together”.

From _Castle_:

Javier Esposito: Dude. Pancakes is not just breakfast, it’s an edible way of saying, ‘Thank you SO much for last night.’

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> [@AK84](#):
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> I don’t think so. I remember reading a the time that on Army bases and on USO tours when there were women around they were heavily chaperoned.

Which just leads to crazy hijinks, e.g. _Some Like It Hot_

Joe: “Why would a guy want to mary a guy?”  
Jerry: “Security!”

Stranger

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> [@Robot\_Arm](#):
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> Why on earth does it matter?

Why does anything in comics or movies (or fiction in general) matter?

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I watched it again last night. In regards to the knockout who stops him on the stairs during the song montage, it’s not a big leap to imagine those two had sex. It’s all communicated in their faces.

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I would think that he is a virgin throughout the first movie. Steve is shown to be pretty unsuccessful with the ladies before he’s Super Soldier’d and he’s also fairly naïve about fondue (did they have fondue in WWII? I thought it didn’t get popular until the 60s-70s). On top of that, he has the conversation with Peggy where they’re going to go dancing later, that’s a PG movie euphemism for sex. Yes, I know the movie was PG-13, but it’s close enough for government work.

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