In this real life sexual assault scenario, who's at fault? (Somewhat graphic language)

And this craziness takes it down to new levels. If my wife and I go to a function where she gets really drunk and I drive home and she wants sex, and I don’t really want to but agree because she is my wife, then it would seem that sexual assault charges are in the making for both of us, even though this is very common, happens all of the time, and nobody thinks it to be criminal. It’s time that society gets itself a reality check on this stuff.

No. You can’t fuck a drunk chick when she’s passed out. But sex due to intoxication is very common and people are going crazy with the idea.

ETA: Happens all of the time in society, not in my particular relationship.