I’ve only been in love twice. I married the first guy and am widowed. I’m still dating the second.
The only hearts I’ve broken have been guys who wanted to date me and I only liked them as friends. There have been quite a number of those and some of them have indeed been quite hurt. However once I’m in a relationship I’m generally the one to have my heart broken.
This. I’m never as into the guy as he is into me. Most of my relationships have been pretty casual, but I’ve had one or two boyfriends who were pretty upset.
“In love there is one who kisses and one who offers the cheek” - French proverb
I am definitely the one offering the cheek.