# Incubus is douchebag **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [July 28, 2014, 3:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247 "2014-07-28T15:20:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 17
**Author:** ![Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Living_Well_Is_Best_Revenge)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 7:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/321 "2014-07-31T19:39:44Z")
> [@AnaMen](#): > > You understandably took his posts as an apology–he admits to behaving poorly and says he feels bad. > I’m not saying he failed to deliver some particular rhetoric. He fails to acknowledge his victims, he fails to identify what he did wrong that hurt others, and he promises to “cut down” on making “abusive statements.” I’m afraid you are reading remorse into what he is saying that simply is not there. “Victims” is a tad melodramatic. ---
**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 7:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/322 "2014-07-31T19:41:25Z")
> [@DrDeth](#): > > But not about his salary. Which still none of you are gonna admit you were wrong. While I never even gave the disputed number a second thought I hereby apologize that other people I’ve never met had a wrong opinion about his salary. There. Happy? ---
**Author:** ![Fenris](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fenris/32/498_2.png) [@Fenris](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fenris)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 7:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/323 "2014-07-31T19:50:37Z")
> [@DrDeth](#): > > I dont see at all where Monstro has been in any way forgiving or apologetic. She still hasn’t apologized or taken back her calling Incubus a liar due to her ignorance. > > Monstro mouths platitudes, but never actually apologizes. She’s just trying to collect hugboxes, whatever the hell they are. Do shut up. You’re tedious. ---
**Author:** ![TroutMan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/troutman/32/6721_2.png) [@TroutMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TroutMan)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 7:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/324 "2014-07-31T19:53:36Z")
> [@DrDeth](#): > > But not about his salary. Which still none of you are gonna admit you were wrong. > [@TroutMan way back in post #43](#): > > Yup, $90K is very believable, or at least used to be. In 2009, [over 25% of Muni drivers in SF pulled in more than $80K](http://www.sfexaminer.com/sanfrancisco/driver-salaries-fueling-deficit/Content?oid=2135249), and 3.5% earned more than $100K. I’ll expect your apology to be forthcoming. Because I’m deeply, deeply wounded. ---
**Author:** ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/325 "2014-07-31T20:05:51Z")
> [@TroutMan](#): > > I’ll expect your apology to be forthcoming. Because I’m deeply, deeply wounded. Yes, I know, both you and I supported his salary as possible. But you never called him a liar for claiming that salary, did you? ---
**Author:** ![Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Living_Well_Is_Best_Revenge)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/326 "2014-07-31T20:06:45Z")
> [@DrDeth](#): > > Yes, I know, both you and I supported his salary as possible. But you never called him a liar for claiming that salary, did you? Are you mental? WTF is your problem? ---
**Author:** ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/327 "2014-07-31T20:06:58Z")
> [@Fenris](#): > > Do shut up. You’re tedious. I know. Everyone hates the dude who points out The Emperor has No Clothes. ---
**Author:** ![Calatin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Calatin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Calatin)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/328 "2014-07-31T20:13:55Z")
> [@DrDeth](#): > > I know. Everyone hates the dude who points out The Emperor has No Clothes. That depends. Is the Emperor hot? ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/329 "2014-07-31T20:21:06Z")
> [@DrDeth](#): > > I know. Everyone hates the dude who points out The Emperor has No Clothes. I think you’re more of a generic village idiot in this fable. ---
**Author:** ![TroutMan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/troutman/32/6721_2.png) [@TroutMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TroutMan)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/330 "2014-07-31T20:30:22Z")
> [@DrDeth](#): > > Yes, I know, both you and I supported his salary as possible. But you never called him a liar for claiming that salary, did you? I can’t even follow what your argument is anymore. So good job, I guess. You win the internet. ---
**Author:** ![tapu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/49beb7/32.png) [@tapu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tapu)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/331 "2014-07-31T20:35:26Z")
Oh, fuck it all! Who is Monstro’s sister?? If it’s Nava, I’ll die in ecstasy. ---
**Author:** ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/332 "2014-07-31T20:35:28Z")
> [@TroutMan](#): > > I can’t even follow what your argument is anymore. So good job, I guess. You win the internet. Thank you. My work here is done. 🆒 Except no one has yet apologized for calling Incubus a liar, but go ahead, give each other a nice group hug for being so damn tolerant and nice, eh?:dubious: ---
**Author:** ![Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Living_Well_Is_Best_Revenge)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/333 "2014-07-31T20:38:05Z")
> [@tapu](#): > > Oh, fuck it all! Who is Monstro’s sister?? If it’s Nava, I’ll die in ecstasy. I think it’s you with the face. ---
**Author:** ![Lamia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8e7dd6/32.png) [@Lamia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lamia)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/334 "2014-07-31T20:38:14Z")
n/m ---
**Author:** ![Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Living_Well_Is_Best_Revenge)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/335 "2014-07-31T20:39:06Z")
> [@DrDeth](#): > > Thank you. My work here is done. 🆒 > > Except no one has yet apologized for calling Incubus a liar, but go ahead, give each other a nice group hug for being so damn tolerant and nice, eh?:dubious: You are so clever! You really taught us a lesson. ---
**Author:** ![monstro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ba9def/32.png) [@monstro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/monstro)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/336 "2014-07-31T20:45:57Z")
> [@QuickSilver](#): > > Every time I read one of your posts I realize I’m not nearly as magnanimous, considered or forgiving as I could be. That makes me feel bad about myself. I demand an apology, **monstro**. This is **monstro’s** cat: I’m so ashamed to read all of her posts! She tries so hard to be cool, but she’s really a crazy cat lady. And you should see how messy she is. She’s secretly jealous of **Incubus’s** housekeeping skills! I apurrogize on her behalf. ---
**Author:** ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/337 "2014-07-31T20:50:09Z")
> [@monstro](#): > > This is **monstro’s** cat: > > I apurrogize on her behalf. Not buying it. I asked one of my cats to post a response and: dswrfeauighodhpydkpok[jl[y[pk ]]jjfoihto[trhpijh;lopojihigudwqfgdgudwfihfjpo ---
**Author:** ![monstro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ba9def/32.png) [@monstro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/monstro)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/338 "2014-07-31T20:57:33Z")
> [@DrDeth](#): > > Not buying it. > > I asked one of my cats to post a response and: > dswrfeauighodhpydkpok[jl[y[pk > ]]jjfoihto[trhpijh;lopojihigudwqfgdgudwfihfjpo You make almost as much sense as your cats do. ---
**Author:** ![KarlGrenze](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/dbc845/32.png) [@KarlGrenze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KarlGrenze)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/339 "2014-07-31T20:58:04Z")
> [@tapu](#): > > Oh, fuck it all! Who is Monstro’s sister?? If it’s Nava, I’ll die in ecstasy. If **Nava** is **monstro** ’s sister, that is one truly bizarre switch at birth story. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 9:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247/340 "2014-07-31T21:01:14Z")
> [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](#): > > I think it’s you with the face. Hey now, no need to go insulting the guy by saying he has a face. He’s just asking questions. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247.md?page=16) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/incubus-is-douchebag/694247.md?page=18)