# Indian (India) guy interracial relationships poll

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [March 30, 2013, 6:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366 "2013-03-30T18:05:45Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![ZenBeam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/3ab097/32.png) [@ZenBeam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZenBeam)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 1:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/21 "2013-03-31T01:04:22Z")

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> [@Curious\_Man](#):
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> how so?

Because you’re not interested in knowing about Indian men with other races and nationalities of men.  
(It was a joke)

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**Author:** ![vix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/a88e4f/32.png) [@vix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vix)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 1:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/22 "2013-03-31T01:26:08Z")

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I dated an Indian kid (second generation American) when I was in high school. I’m a white woman. I know a Japanese woman married to an Indian man (both are relatively recent immigrants). I also know a white woman married to an Indian man. I probably know or have known other such couples. I don’t really keep track…

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**Author:** ![Loach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/loach/32/350_2.png) [@Loach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loach)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 1:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/23 "2013-03-31T01:31:40Z")

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> [@Lamia](#):
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> Why do you care about the women’s hair color?

Because redheads are hot.

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**Author:** ![Curious\_Man](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Curious\_Man](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Curious_Man)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 2:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/24 "2013-03-31T02:48:46Z")

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> [@vix](#):
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> I dated an Indian kid (second generation American) when I was in high school. I’m a white woman. I know a Japanese woman married to an Indian man (both are relatively recent immigrants). I also know a white woman married to an Indian man. I probably know or have known other such couples. I don’t really keep track…

do you live in a big city type of setting?

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**Author:** ![vix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/a88e4f/32.png) [@vix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vix)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 3:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/25 "2013-03-31T03:12:38Z")

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> [@Curious\_Man](#):
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> do you live in a big city type of setting?

No. In high school, I lived in a moderate-sized town (maybe 35K). Now, I live in a small city (approx 68K). Both communities are part of larger metro areas, but neither is a suburb of a big city.

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**Author:** ![Curious\_Man](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Curious\_Man](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Curious_Man)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/26 "2013-03-31T16:17:41Z")

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> [@vix](#):
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> No. In high school, I lived in a moderate-sized town (maybe 35K). Now, I live in a small city (approx 68K). Both communities are part of larger metro areas, but neither is a suburb of a big city.

oh alright

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**Author:** ![Curious\_Man](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Curious\_Man](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Curious_Man)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 4:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/27 "2013-03-31T16:22:35Z")

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looking at the poll, I would have NEVER imagined that an Indian guy - Blonde White woman couple would even exist out there, I seriously mean it

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**Author:** ![SussieQ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/df705f/32.png) [@SussieQ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SussieQ)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 4:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/28 "2013-03-31T16:23:39Z")

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> [@John\_Mace](#):
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> You never heard of Sanjay Gupta? Arguably the most recognized Indian male in the country.

I thought (actually assumed) his wife is Indian.

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**Author:** ![SussieQ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/df705f/32.png) [@SussieQ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SussieQ)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 4:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/29 "2013-03-31T16:27:56Z")

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> [@FaerieBeth](#):
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> I find it similarly amazing that you thought such pairings would not exist, much less never having seem one such.

Probably because it doesn’t happen much. Unless the family is very progessive, it’s discouraged.

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**Author:** ![Curious\_Man](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Curious\_Man](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Curious_Man)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 4:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/30 "2013-03-31T16:29:44Z")

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In my area it has less to do with Indian people. Most of the White people in my area, especially women, don’t mix it up. I hear in bigger cities they do mix it up but it is usually with Black men and that is about it.

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**Author:** ![grude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e47774/32.png) [@grude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/grude)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 4:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/31 "2013-03-31T16:37:15Z")

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> [@ZenBeam](#):
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> There’s your problem. Cutting your potential dates in half right from the start.

I remember my wife telling me when we were dating “you know I’m just not sexually attracted to black men”.

I said “Thats ok I have the same problem”.

:dubious:😛

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**Author:** ![Curious\_Man](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Curious\_Man](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Curious_Man)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 6:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/32 "2013-03-31T18:34:12Z")

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So 18 people in here know of an indian guy - blonde white female couple

I have never seen or heard of that in real life. What kind of a town do I live in, jeez.

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**Author:** ![Curious\_Man](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Curious\_Man](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Curious_Man)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 6:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/33 "2013-03-31T18:38:50Z")

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> [@grude](#):
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> I remember my wife telling me when we were dating “you know I’m just not sexually attracted to black men”.
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> I said “Thats ok I have the same problem”.
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> :dubious:😛

are you black?

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**Author:** ![Curious\_Man](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Curious\_Man](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Curious_Man)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 9:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/34 "2013-03-31T21:54:20Z")

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just one bump

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**Author:** ![Stonebow](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Stonebow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stonebow)\
**Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 1:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/35 "2013-04-01T01:56:29Z")

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> [@Curious\_Man](#):
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> I have never seen or heard of that in real life. What kind of a town do I live in, jeez.

That is an excellent question. Care to tell us? You have also not said whether you are native to India or the US, what your current life stage might be, or any other number of life variables that would influence your lack of luck in this area and assist us with any sort of meaningful conjecture.

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**Author:** ![Curious\_Man](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Curious\_Man](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Curious_Man)\
**Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 2:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/36 "2013-04-01T02:00:34Z")

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> [@Stonebow](#):
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> That is an excellent question. Care to tell us? You have also not said whether you are native to India or the US, what your current life stage might be, or any other number of life variables that would influence your lack of luck in this area and assist us with any sort of meaningful conjecture.

Live in the USA.

Have been here for over a decade. American culturally.

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 2:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/37 "2013-04-01T02:02:49Z")

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IME, they date non-Indians and then marry Indians. Not all of them, of course, but it is a thing.

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**Author:** ![Curious\_Man](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Curious\_Man](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Curious_Man)\
**Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 2:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/38 "2013-04-01T02:37:58Z")

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> [@Anaamika](#):
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> IME, they date non-Indians and then marry Indians. Not all of them, of course, but it is a thing.

what state or country are you in?

I notice a lot of people say this about Indians.

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**Author:** ![dropzone](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dropzone/32/7515_2.png) [@dropzone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dropzone)\
**Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 2:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/39 "2013-04-01T02:41:23Z")

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> [@Anonymous User](#):
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> Also, Indians _are_ Asians.

And they are White. Well, Caucasoid. As are Middle Eastern/Persians and many Latinos, at least partly. And if you use less-biological and more-cultural definitions, like love of suburban lawn care, you cannot get Whiter than Blacks and East Asians, so this poll has little basis in reality.

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**Author:** ![Curious\_Man](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Curious\_Man](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Curious_Man)\
**Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 5:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/indian-india-guy-interracial-relationships-poll/654366/40 "2013-04-01T05:07:56Z")

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Indian =/= White

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