For those who don’t know, the very basics of how to deal with infinity in arithmetic (and the very basics are literally all I know) involve making a distinction that is not often made for non-infinite numbers–the distinction between ordinality and cardinality.
Roughly, the ordinality of a number is its position in the ordering of numbers. Meanwhile, the cardinality of a number is, very roughly, how “big” it is. For non-infinite numbers, on the standard ordering, the ordinality and cardinality are for all practical purposes the same–meaning a number further to the right in ordinality always has a higher cardinality and vice versa. But for infinite numbers (yes, “numbers”) the two can differ. Define “infinity” as “the first number greater than all counting numbers.” Infinity plus one is a different number (called “infinity plus one” as far as I know). It’s cardinality (how big it is) is exactly the same as infinity, but its ordinality is different from infinity. Infinity plus one is “further to the right on the number line” than infinity. Well that can’t be exactly right since nothing can be to the right of infinity. But the idea is that infinity plus one is the successor to infinity. It’s the next number. Don’t visualize it (you can’t) just understand the definitions and their implications.
As long as you’re adding or multiplying infinites together by pairs, you never get an infinite number with higher cardinality, but you do get a whole set of infinite numbers with different ordinalities. You could represent them on a “past-infinity” numberline like so: Infinity plus one, infinity plus two, infinity plus three, …, infinity times two, infinity times two plus one, infinitiy times two plus three… infinity squared, infinity squared plus one, infinity squared plus two… and so on…
There are, of course, an infinite number of these numbers with the same cardinality as infinity.
But it turns out something happens when you exponentiate by infinity. Infinity to the power of infinity doesn’t just have a different ordinality than infinity. It has a different cardinality! It’s literally an infinite quantity that’s bigger than infinity as defined above. It’s a new order of infinity. This cardinality we call aleph-one. (The first cardinality we called aleph-null).
Once again you can build a whole line of ordinalities within this cardinality. Then, exponentiate this cardinality by aleph-null again, and you get yet another cardinality.
How the cardinalities are standardly ordered I forget.
But anyway, that’s the basics. There are proofs for all this. While the proofs rest on conventions that one could negate to create alternative systems, the fact is that for what I’ve said so far, the proofs do pretty much the best job of using conventions that integrate the infinite numbers pretty neatly into the system we already have for dealing with counting numbers. Arithmetic turns out quite intuitive, and intuitions about which quantities should be “greater than” others check out quite nicely. So though this isn’t the only way you could do infinity, it is the way mathematicians standardly do do infinity.