# Intelligent, thoughtful, challenging films for kids

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**Created:** [November 8, 2016, 2:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intelligent-thoughtful-challenging-films-for-kids/771061 "2016-11-08T14:44:40Z")\
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Unforgiven  
12 Angry Men  
Glengarry Glen Ross  
The Iceman Cometh  
A Few Good Men  
Rashomon  
Chinatown  
Brazil  
My Cousin Vinny

All high-quality classics. Watched _12 Angry Men_ again just a few weeks ago and it’s still as good as it ever was.

Included _My Cousin Vinny_ because it’s both extremely entertaining and a surprisingly accurate portrayal of courtroom proceedings, or so I’ve been told. I just like it, okay!

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1. Lots of fun and educational, too.  
Duck Soup.

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There’s plenty of classic, wholesome children’s fare left untapped. Such as [The Adventures of Mark Twain!](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Adventures_of_Mark_Twain_(1985_film))

[Still as good](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqi5F5MqqTQ)as when they ran it on the Disney Channel!

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After _The Great Escape_ you might watch _Chicken Run_ which parodies a few scenes but has a much happier ending.  
_Dark Crystal_ for the ethics and _Labyrinth_ for the logic puzzles might be fun.  
And an upvote for _Real Genius_ mentioned above.

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**Post date:** [November 8, 2016, 9:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intelligent-thoughtful-challenging-films-for-kids/771061/25 "2016-11-08T21:54:21Z")

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A lot of Terry Gilliam’s films are great but they should definately see the “Trilogy of Imagination” films. The battle between fantasy and what we perceive as reality through the eyes of a child “Time Bandits”, the eyes of a middle aged man “Brazil”, and they eyes of an old man “The Adventures of Baron Munchausen”.

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I thought that The Book Thief did a good job handling themes of racism and human empathy, for a “kids movie”.

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/NvlQEfGHZ6o/maxresdefault.jpg "The Book Thief Official Extended Trailer - Words Are Life (2013) HD") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NvlQEfGHZ6o)

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**Post date:** [November 9, 2016, 12:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intelligent-thoughtful-challenging-films-for-kids/771061/27 "2016-11-09T00:11:17Z")

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If we want to compete for _bad parenting_ awards, I showed my daughters [Tucker and Dale versus Evil](http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1465522/) when they were fairly young and they learned to love it. If you have never seen it, the movie is a great spoof on 1980’s style horror movies that also reverses the typical “villain versus victim” relationship and it is also a sweet love story by the end. However, it is also incredibly gory and violent (no sex or nudity though).

The reason I showed it to them was they kept getting freaked out by by standard scary shows. I wanted to teach them how Hollywood special effects work and why the stories are just made-up scripts with ridiculous premises. It worked for the most part. We have watched Tucker and Dale several times now and they see the absurdity, comedy and genuine sweetness in it. That helped them learn not to squeal like their friends at every other scary movie or events like haunted houses.

I also got them to watch Mean Girls and Heathers to prepare them for their teenage years but I am not sure that worked as well. My 10 year old daughter took those as inspirational stories and seems like she wants to shoot for the lead Heather role in a few years.

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**Post date:** [November 9, 2016, 12:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intelligent-thoughtful-challenging-films-for-kids/771061/28 "2016-11-09T00:37:49Z")

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Wow! A bunch of great suggestions.  
Thanks to all.

They have seen and loved Ferris Bueller’s Day Off, Into the Woods (they really appreciated the flipping of the fairy-tales), Napoleon Dynamite and Groundhog Day. The Dark Crystal and Labyrinth went down OK, but not as well as I’d hoped.  
They liked Fantastic Mr Fox, so maybe some more Wes Anderson films would be good. The only other one I’ve seen is Moonrise Kingdom, but I agree that would be a good film to show them.

I personally love The Unforgiven, but that will have to go on the waiting list along with films like Schindler’s List and Shawshank Redemption because of the savagery of some scenes.  
I think they’re probably ready for Blade Runner.

I’ll look for Attack the Block, which I’ve been meaning to see myself. If it’s not too scary. For comparison, Aliens, one of my favorite films, will have to wait a little longer. Meanwhile, my boy has watched Blair Witch without me! I rented it in unfulfilled hopes of sharing time with his horror-movie-enthusiast older brother, but the young’un sneaked a view whilst he was off school recovering from a cold.  
About the only time I have to watch films is with the kids, so this was doubly disappointing.

In regard to alien invasion movies, they really liked Mars Attacks.  
Also, since my boy really likes Simon Pegg, I’ve even shown them the highly inappropriate yet quite enjoyable Paul.

A number of folks have recommended Brazil, which I’d like to see. But considering that my son found the cynicism and bleakness of a film like Bird Man a little disturbing, would it perhaps be too dark?  
Same concern for Eternal Sunshine, which I also haven’t yet seen, but have been deliberating on whether to watch with the kids.

I liked 12 Monkeys, but it goes in the maybe box.  
I don’t want to show them bleak stuff unless there’s a valuable lesson to be gained or some other compelling merit.

I would like to show them Citizen Kane, but I wonder if it will hold their interest.  
Same with 12 Angry Men, another personal favorite.  
I think the boy, in particular, might appreciate the Great Escape.

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Phoebe in Wonderland! Just a real treat of a movie with Felicity Huffman, Elle Fanning, and Patricia Clarkson. “Confounded by her clashes with the seemingly rule-obsessed world, a troubled young girl seeks enlightenment from her unconventional drama teacher.”

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> [@Not\_Carlson](#):
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> A number of folks have recommended Brazil, which I’d like to see. But considering that my son found the cynicism and bleakness of a film like Bird Man a little disturbing, would it perhaps be too dark?

Heh. I was going to come into this thread to downvote _Brazil_ - it’s a fabulous movie and I adore it, but, people! the main character is\* tortured into insanity\* at the end of it! :eek:

My suggestions:

_Juno_  
_The Sapphires_  
_Bend it like Beckham_  
_Bring it on_

…all a little chick-flicky, but intelligent non-sappy chick-flicky

_Ruthless People_  
_The Fugitive_

- although the first one does have a ‘police chief being blackmailed for seeing a prostitute’ subplot

Possibly maybe _Room_? Or maybe not for a couple of years. It’s a wonderful movie, it has a (fairly) happy ending, I don’t think it deserves its R rating (which apparently it got for bad language) - but definitely deals with confronting themes.

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This list is very old, from when I was homeschooling . . . my daughter is grown now. Geared for a highly intelligent, anxiously sensitive girl, so nothing scary, and nothing very sexy either. But you might find something anyway.

The Addams Family  
The African Queen  
Beetlejuice  
The Best Years of Our Lives  
Billy Elliot  
Breaking Away  
Casablanca  
A Christmas Story  
Cold Comfort Farm  
Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon  
Cyrano de Bergerac  
The Dish  
Driving Miss Daisy  
The Efficiency Expert  
Enchanted April  
Ever After  
Fast, Cheap, and Out of Control  
The Five Thousand Fingers of Dr. T  
Fly Away Home  
Hairspray  
Hamlet  
Il Postino  
The Inn of the Sixth Happiness  
The Iron Giant  
It’s A Wonderful Life  
Kikki’s Delivery Service  
The King of Masks  
Local Hero  
Lawrence of Arabia  
The Lord of the Rings  
Madeline  
The Maltese Falcon  
A Man For All Seasons  
Men In Black  
Microcosmos  
Moonstruck  
My Father’s Glory  
Mystery Men  
Nanook of the North  
Not One Less  
October Sky  
Pride and Predjudice  
The Princess Bride  
Quiz Show  
The Secret of Roan Inish  
The Seven Faces of Dr. Lao  
Seven Samurai  
Shall We Dance?  
Shrek  
Smoke Signals  
Some Like It Hot  
The Sound of Music  
Star Wars  
Straight Story  
Strictly Ballroom  
Tender Mercies  
To Kill A Mockingbird  
Twelve Angry Men  
Waking Ned Devine  
Wallace and Gromit  
The Winslow Boy  
The Wizard of Oz  
You Can’t Take It With You

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I don’t think these were mentioned:

[ul]  
[li]Hoosiers[/li][li]Tootsie[/li][li]October Sky[/li][li]Jaws[/li][li]Rear Window[/li][li]Silkwood[/li][/ul]

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_Finding Forrester_  
_The Hunt for Red October_  
_Scent of a Woman_  
_Planes, Trains & Automobiles_

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Forgot two.

_Explorers_  
_Field of Dreams_

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The Phantom Tollbooth.

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_Hugo_’s a good one nobody’s mentioned. If nothing else, you’re getting them started on Martin Scorsese.

I know they have a bad reputation but I really like _Jumanji_ and _Zathura_.

_The Three Musketeers_ and _The Four Musketeers_ (the Richard Lester ones)

_Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory_ (skip the remake)

_Yellow Submarine_

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> [@Little\_Nemo](#):
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> _Hugo_’s a good one nobody’s mentioned. If nothing else, you’re getting them started on Martin Scorsese.
> 
> I know they have a bad reputation but I really like _Jumanji_ and _Zathura_.
> 
> _The Three Musketeers_ and _The Four Musketeers_ (the Richard Lester ones)
> 
> _Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory_ (skip the remake)
> 
> _Yellow Submarine_

Jumanji, yes, Zathura… not so much.

Yes, fantastic!

Nice pick.

Maybe.

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> [@Little\_Nemo](#):
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> _Hugo_’s a good one nobody’s mentioned. If nothing else, you’re getting them started on Martin Scorsese.

Hugo was gorgeous! Brazil is, I think, great for kids in high school (when I saw it and fell in love with it), but I wouldn’t show it to younger kids. It’s super-bleak.

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> [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](#):
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> Hugo was gorgeous! Brazil is, I think, great for kids in high school (when I saw it and fell in love with it), but I wouldn’t show it to younger kids. It’s super-bleak.

The “love conquers all” edit isnt so bleak.

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> [@DCnDC](#):
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> Unforgiven  
> 12 Angry Men  
> Glengarry Glen Ross  
> The Iceman Cometh  
> A Few Good Men  
> Rashomon  
> Chinatown  
> Brazil  
> My Cousin Vinny
> 
> All high-quality classics. Watched _12 Angry Men_ again just a few weeks ago and it’s still as good as it ever was.
> 
> Included _My Cousin Vinny_ because it’s both extremely entertaining and a surprisingly accurate portrayal of courtroom proceedings, or so I’ve been told. I just like it, okay!

Chinatown, boring fore the age group. Brazil, boring for any group. Glengarry Glen Ross, a cautionary tale about where you end up if you plan your life only for the next 35 years. Many of them, only okay if one wants to ready his kids for eventual suicide.

Let them be kids for a while longer. And make them become prescient enough to know what skills will still be viable long after you assume they will retire. Good luck with that.

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