# Intense songs by women

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**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [June 18, 2009, 8:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216 "2009-06-18T20:40:44Z")\
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**Author:** ![AskNott](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asknott/32/5790_2.png) [@AskNott](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AskNott)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2009, 9:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/41 "2009-06-19T21:51:29Z")

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_I Can’t Make You Love Me_, by Bonnie Raitt

_That’s Why I’m Cryin’_, by KoKo Taylor

_My One And Only Love_, by Rickie Lee Jones

_Travelin’ Blues_, by Diane Schuur

_I Know Now_, by June Bronhill and Kieth Mitchell

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**Author:** ![Peanuthead](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/peanuthead/32/360_2.png) [@Peanuthead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Peanuthead)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2009, 9:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/42 "2009-06-19T21:58:05Z")

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Well, I guess there are more degrees of intensity than I realized. I’m reminded of the bar scene at the beginning of The Deer Hunter when all the guys are getting so hepped up over a mediocre Four Seasons tune. The atmosphere was certainly intense, but the song was…average. So I’m not going to break anybody’s bubble by slamming their selection. But I do want to thank everyone who responeded because you wouldn’t have done so if you weren’t serious about music and that’s what makes life worth living. Some artists or songs I haven’t heard before but I will definitely check them out ( The names Lucinda and Dar Williams turn up often. Are they sisters?) And some I should have known would be here. eg: Alison Krause - When You Say Nothing At All. (I virtually melt when she sings that song)

And one more song before I go:  
Annie Lennox - Why?

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**Author:** ![maplekiwi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a4c791/32.png) [@maplekiwi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/maplekiwi)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2009, 11:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/43 "2009-06-19T23:05:48Z")

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Aesiron, thank you for recommending Charlotte Martin (in another thread)

I’m going to try avoiding naming songs already named (even though I came in to recommend I can’t make you love me)

so

Down on Me Janis Joplin  
Girl You think you see Carly Simon  
Weakness in Me Joan Armatrading  
Boy with the Sad Hands Jay Clarkson  
Sway Bic Runga  
Violnet by Stellar\* I think thats the correct spelling Bic’s sister Boh’s band anyway.

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**Author:** ![Ephemera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8baadc/32.png) [@Ephemera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ephemera)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2009, 11:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/44 "2009-06-19T23:36:30Z")

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Any time. Women with pianos are my most favorite kind. You might also look into Sarah Fimm, Allison Crowe, Regina Spektor, and Sarah Slean. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Claire\_Beauchamp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ec9cab/32.png) [@Claire\_Beauchamp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Claire_Beauchamp)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2009, 12:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/45 "2009-06-20T00:04:28Z")

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> [@Peanuthead](#):
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> ( The names Lucinda and Dar Williams turn up often. Are they sisters?)

Nope, just share a last name.

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**Post date:** [June 20, 2009, 12:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/46 "2009-06-20T00:28:27Z")

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> [@Peanuthead](#):
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> The names Lucinda and Dar Williams turn up often. Are they sisters?

Yes, they are!

Just not to each other.

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**Author:** ![maplekiwi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a4c791/32.png) [@maplekiwi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/maplekiwi)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2009, 1:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/47 "2009-06-20T01:24:31Z")

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> [@Aesiron](#):
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> Any time. Women with pianos are my most favorite kind. You might also look into Sarah Fimm, Allison Crowe, Regina Spektor, and Sarah Slean. 🙂

I know Regina Spektor. I’ll check out the others! 🙂

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**Author:** ![Ephemera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8baadc/32.png) [@Ephemera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ephemera)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2009, 1:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/48 "2009-06-20T01:52:02Z")

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Sarah Fimm is my most favorite of those, and my most favorite musician period. You (and everyone reading this) owe it to yourself to give her a try most of all, and **[this link](http://cdbaby.com/cd/fimmgiftl)** gives you a handy all in one tour of all her songs. My favorite is Virus, but I also love Sets Us Apart, Violet, Let it Run, Scream, Sexual Animals, Bombay Cafe, Be Like Water, Be What You Wanna Be, and practically every song she’s recorded.

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**Author:** ![maplekiwi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a4c791/32.png) [@maplekiwi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/maplekiwi)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2009, 10:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/49 "2009-06-20T22:40:29Z")

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I’m playing Be Like Water now - & trying to think of who she sounds like! It will come to me.

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**Post date:** [June 20, 2009, 11:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/50 "2009-06-20T23:17:26Z")

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I’m curious to hear who you say. I don’t think she really reminds me of anyone.

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**Author:** ![Girl\_From\_Mars](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/3da27b/32.png) [@Girl\_From\_Mars](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Girl_From_Mars)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2009, 11:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/51 "2009-06-20T23:27:48Z")

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Kelis - Caught out there  
Skunk Anansie - Hedonism  
Joni Mitchell - Both sides now  
K’s Choice - Not an addict  
Abba - The winner takes it all  
Anastacia - Out of love  
Dixie Chicks/Stevie Nicks - Landslide  
Jamelia - Thank you

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**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 3:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/52 "2009-06-22T03:23:28Z")

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> [@Girl\_From\_Mars](#):
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> Kelis - Caught out there  
> Skunk Anansie - Hedonism  
> Joni Mitchell - Both sides now  
> K’s Choice - Not an addict  
> Abba - The winner takes it all  
> Anastacia - Out of love  
> Dixie Chicks/Stevie Nicks - Landslide  
> Jamelia - Thank you

Both Sides Now … how did I miss that? That also made me think of…

Turn Me On by Norah Jones. She’s a great singer, but for some reason that song (above others) really touches something deep inside me.

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**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 3:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/53 "2009-06-22T03:37:52Z")

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What, no blues women here?

Memphis Minnie: Tricks Ain’ Walkin’ No More, Bumblebee Blues, Me & My Chauffeur Blues

Lucille Bogan (AKA Bessie Jackson) also did Tricks Ain’t Walkin’

The late KoKo Taylor: Wang Dang Doodle

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**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 4:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/54 "2009-06-22T16:31:52Z")

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“Strange Fruit” by Billie Holiday  
“Train Song” by Eliza Carthy  
“Banks of the Nile” by Sandy Denny (in Fotheringay)  
“Our Town” by Iris Dement  
“Where Will I Be” by Emmylou Harris  
“Medicine Wheel” by Kate Wolf  
“A Case of You” by Joni Mitchell  
“There’s a Light Beyond These Woods” by Nanci Griffith

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**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 5:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/55 "2009-06-22T17:37:27Z")

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Grace Jones, “Let Joy and Innocence Prevail,” from the \*\*Toys \*\*soundtrack.

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**Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 7:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/56 "2009-06-23T19:02:29Z")

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Caught Out There by Kelis

You Bloody M_therf_ing A$$hole by Martha Wainwright

Annie Lenox - can’t think of any song in particular right now but she’s got some great ones

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**Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 7:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/57 "2009-06-23T19:29:09Z")

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I didn’t get a chance to read the thread, so there may be some repeats:

Belly - Gepetto  
Be Your Own Pet - The Kelly Affair  
Bjork - Big Time Sensuality  
Cowboy Junkies - Blue Moon Revisited (Song for Elvis)  
Duke Spirit, The - The Step and the Walk  
Elastica - Stutter  
Fiona Apple - Criminal  
Garbage - Why Do You Love Me  
Hole - Celebrity Skin  
L7 - Pretend We’re Dead  
Lawson, Ellie - Gotta Get Up From Here  
Luscious Jackson - Naked Eye  
Lush - For Love  
O’Connor, Sinead - I Want Your (Hands On Me)  
Paramore - Crushcrushcrush  
Paramore - Decode  
Phair, Liz - Supernova  
Primitives, The - Crash  
Republica - Ready To Go  
Romeo Void - Never Say Never  
Shiny Toy Guns - On a Rainy Monday  
Shiny Toy Guns - You Are The One  
Single Gun Theory - From a Million Miles  
Sneaker Pimps - Six Underground  
Soho - Hippychick  
St. Etienne - Only Love Can Break Your Heart  
Yaz - Don’t Go  
Yaz - Only You

I suppose these aren’t all BY women. But it’s definitely the female voice that makes them “intense”.

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**Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 8:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/58 "2009-06-23T20:08:20Z")

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No Yoko?

[![]( " - YouTube") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=78DT-XLS_do)

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**Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 8:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/59 "2009-06-23T20:10:20Z")

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“Strange Fruit” by Billie Holliday  
Second Dusty Springfield on “Son of a Preacher Man” and would also nominate her version of “The Look of Love”  
Mahalia Jackson singing “Come Sunday” with Duke Ellington’s band  
“The Blues in the Night” by Rosemary Clooney  
Dinah Washington, Koko Taylor, and Chrissy Hynde on more songs that I care to mention

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**Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 8:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/intense-songs-by-women/500216/60 "2009-06-23T20:31:10Z")

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I missed two really, really intense songs by female vocalists thinking they were just disposable pop. The first was Kelly Clarkson’s “Walk Away.” I tend to think most artists who gain fame by appearing on TV game shows are bound to be third rate. Then one day I was driving in my care and actually LISTENED to “Walk Away” and I was just blown away by the sheer intensity with which she starts with “I want a man who’ll fight for me, live and die for me, me me MEEEEEE!” and then she’s squeezing that last “ME!” right out of her very soul. Damn.

The other was “Edge of Seventeen” by Stevie Nicks. I like some Fleetwood Mac songs a lot, but I wouldn’t describe their music as intense. Then came another one of those moments when I just happened to really LISTEN to “Edge of Seventeen” and was electrified by the sheer curdled lust of the phrase:

From the moment  
When I first laid  
Eyes! On! Him!

Good lord, I don’t think anybody, male or female has ever conveyed the feeling of looking at someone and just ACHING to have them the way Nicks did in that song.

Also, you left out Zombie by the Cranberries and Sleeping Satellite by Tasmin Archer, but I forgive you … this time.

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