# Interracial sex and the Net **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [June 27, 2001, 9:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376 "2001-06-27T21:12:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Lumpy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lumpy/32/446_2.png) [@Lumpy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lumpy)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2001, 9:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/1 "2001-06-27T21:12:12Z")
(1)Why is it that when you do a search on the net for interracial sex pics, 99% of what you find is black men with white women? WTF is this? Very few white men with black women; certainly no oriental men with white women. Thirty-five years after _Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner?_, is it really still such a taboo for white women to go with black guys? Is it mostly white guys looking at these pics, fantasizing about “their” women getting “violated” by blacks? (2)And when you do find pics of black women, why are 90% or better of them coffee-with-cream lightskinned? Why is Janet Jackson (who is admittedly gorgeous) considered the ideal for black women? Do black guys still consider it a mark of status to have the lightest woman with the straightest hair possible? For the record, I am a middle-aged hetero white male, and I would adore a romp with a chocolate-skinned, afroed woman with black nipples and a purple vulva. ---
**Author:** ![pepperlandgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f17d59/32.png) [@pepperlandgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pepperlandgirl)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2001, 9:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/2 "2001-06-27T21:52:51Z")
> [@](#): > > Is it mostly > white guys looking at these pics, fantasizing about “their” women getting “violated” by blacks? How do you know it’s the men looking at these sites and not the women? I personally prefer to look at black men over white men. ---
**Author:** ![pepperlandgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f17d59/32.png) [@pepperlandgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pepperlandgirl)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2001, 9:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/3 "2001-06-27T21:57:16Z")
Maybe it’s not the men fantasizing about their women being violated. Maybe it’s the white women fantasizing about being violated. ---
**Author:** ![Fairy\_Princess\_Kitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/df705f/32.png) [@Fairy\_Princess\_Kitty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fairy_Princess_Kitty)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2001, 10:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/4 "2001-06-27T22:07:35Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Lumpy \* > **WTF is this? Very few white men with black women; certainly no oriental men with white women. Thirty-five years after _Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner?_, is it really still such a taboo for white women to go with black guys** They’re Asian, not oriental, I’ve gotten chewed out by Asians for too long to let anyone else get away with it. And I just wanted to back up pepper, maybe it is the women with the fantasies and not the guys. Though being Mexican and not represented in eitrher group being discussed, I wouldn’t know. Kitty ---
**Author:** ![Weirddave](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/919ad9/32.png) [@Weirddave](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Weirddave)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2001, 3:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/5 "2001-06-28T03:49:15Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Lumpy \* > \*\* > For the record, I am a middle-aged hetero white male, and I would adore a romp with a chocolate-skinned, afroed woman with black nipples and a purple vulva. > \*\* Well, I have been with women of all ethnic backgrounds in my life, and guess what? They pretty much all work the same. Saying “I wanna screw a black woman” without any thought as to weather a specific person is atractive is as racist as saying “I wouldn’t trust a black man”. It treats people as objects, not individuals. Grow up. ---
**Author:** ![Pammipoo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/87869e/32.png) [@Pammipoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pammipoo)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2001, 7:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/6 "2001-06-28T07:00:29Z")
I’m a 19 year old white female, and for me, older black men just turn me on beyond belief. I don’t know what it is…Rashad’s black, and I completely adore him. When it comes to flings, I lean towards dark skin. When relationships come into the picture, I always end up with pale white guys…go figure. ---
**Author:** ![Sublight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/439d5e/32.png) [@Sublight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sublight)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2001, 10:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/7 "2001-06-28T10:45:33Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Weirddave \* > \*\* > > > [@](#): > > > > _Originally posted by Lumpy \* > > \*\* > > For the record, I am a middle-aged hetero white male, and I would adore a romp with a chocolate-skinned, afroed woman with black nipples and a purple vulva._\* > > Well, I have been with women of all ethnic backgrounds in my life, and guess what? They pretty much all work the same. Saying “I wanna screw a black woman” without any thought as to weather a specific person is atractive is as racist as saying “I wouldn’t trust a black man”. It treats people as objects, not individuals. Grow up. \*\* First of all, he mentioned skin color, which is not the same thing as ethnic background. Second, how is saying “chocolate-skinned” any different than saying “big-breasted”, “red-haired” or “brown-eyed”? It’s a physical attribute that he finds attractive, nothing more. When I hear something like this, my common sense interprets it as “I think attribute X is an extremely sexy thing for a woman to have, but that’s of course weighed against the hundreds of other physical, emotional and intellectual traits that exist in every individual.” But then, in the [What do you find sexy?](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?threadid=75303) thread, nobody was saying “I like blonds BTOCWATHOOPEAITTEIEI,” so I may be the only one. btw, what’s the deal with vulva color? –sublight. “People shouldn’t be treated like objects. They aren’t that valuable.” P.J. O’Rourke ---
**Author:** ![missdavis102](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7feea3/32.png) [@missdavis102](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missdavis102)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2001, 4:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/8 "2001-06-28T16:19:34Z")
Funny, nearly all the interracial porn I’ve seen on the internet is about the opposite: white men with black women, which frankly is something I don’t need to see. Just doesn’t interest me. Also predominate are Asian women with white men, though I sometimes run across Asian women with black men, too. Never Asian men with anybody, though. Rarely do I see black men with white women on the internet. Maybe I’m just not going to the right places, but it’s not like I can’t see that in real life anyway. I personally would like to see more erotica involving men from the Indian Subcontinent. Add the obligatory agreement with **Weirddave** : when picking partners, it’s best to pick an individual person for the person he/she is, not for their ethnicity or skin tone. ---
**Author:** ![pepperlandgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f17d59/32.png) [@pepperlandgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pepperlandgirl)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2001, 6:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/9 "2001-06-28T18:12:33Z")
Why did **Weirddave** jump on **Lumpy** for saying he was attracted to black women enough to want to sleep with one purely on physical attributes, but he left me alone, and I said basically the same thing? Well, not in so much loving detail, but I did say I perfer black men. So did **Pammipoo**. So what’s the deal? Just some weird double standard? ---
**Author:** ![missdavis102](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7feea3/32.png) [@missdavis102](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missdavis102)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2001, 6:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/10 "2001-06-28T18:27:17Z")
Dunno… Maybe he either thinks us wimmens is more high-minded and as a class we appreciate more in a man than dark skin, or else he thinks wimmens are so shallow as to be beneath contempt for their shallowness in choice of partners. Either way, I agree. 😃 But seriously, my impression was that Lumpy didn’t seem to have a particular black woman in mind (though he may; it just wasn’t indicated in his post), whereas your posts and Pammipoo’s both give the impression there is a certain somebody in the picture [unspoken] whom you presumably value for more than the fact of their skin color [/unspoken]. ---
**Author:** ![Weirddave](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/919ad9/32.png) [@Weirddave](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Weirddave)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2001, 6:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/11 "2001-06-28T18:37:13Z")
No double standard. I just haven’t been back to the thread. 😉 The OP said " I wanna sleep with a black woman"-BECAUSE she’s black was implied. Same deal for men. It did not say “I find X physical atribute attractive”, it said: > [@](#): > > For the record, I am a middle-aged hetero white male, and I would adore a romp with a chocolate-skinned, afroed woman with black nipples and a purple vulva. Basically, I wanna fuck a stereotype. And that’s just as wrong as lumping anyone into a group, be it by skin tone, hair color or ethnicity. It completely ignores the individuals involved, implying that there would be something “different” because of ethnicity, and that is exactly what racism does as well. PLG, I know your hubby is black, but to me that says that you find one particular black man beguileing. And your attraction was stated as a physical characteristic you find attractive. If you had said “geeze, I just wanna fuck a black man, THEY must all be like mandingo”, I would have jumped on you as well. ---
**Author:** ![Heloise](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e36b37/32.png) [@Heloise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Heloise)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2001, 8:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/12 "2001-06-28T20:58:34Z")
I’m actually curious about the answer to Lumpy’s second question. Why is it that Black men seem to prefer the whitest looking of Black women? Not all, of course, but in my experience, the Black men that I’ve known either treat a darker women with less respect, or they don’t want to be with them at all. The lighter the better. Or, they will “slum” with someone who is mixed, but when it comes to a relationship, they want full Black or White. ---
**Author:** ![Lamia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8e7dd6/32.png) [@Lamia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lamia)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2001, 11:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/13 "2001-06-28T23:04:32Z")
I don’t know how relevant reality is to the porn industry, but I believe interracial relationships between black men and white women are much more common than those between black women and white men. ---
**Author:** ![pepperlandgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f17d59/32.png) [@pepperlandgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pepperlandgirl)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2001, 11:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/14 "2001-06-28T23:54:41Z")
> [@](#): > > PLG, I know your hubby is black, but to me that says that you find one particular black man beguileing. And > your attraction was stated as a physical characteristic you find attractive. If you had said “geeze, I just > wanna fuck a black man, THEY must all be like mandingo”, I would have jumped on you as well _nods_ Ok, I see where you are coming from, and that makes sense. My hubby, the porn king, says that he has seen it all mixed up with all different people. He admits that he sees the black men and white women the most, however, they aren’t the _only_ combinations he sees. Of course, I would never look at porn on the net, so I have to depend on what he says. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Morrison\_s\_Lament](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d26b3c/32.png) [@Morrison\_s\_Lament](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morrison_s_Lament)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2001, 12:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/15 "2001-06-29T00:00:33Z")
For me, a white guy with a black girl is somehow a bit of a turnoff. I think the darkness of the girl’s skin somehow highlights the unattractiveness of the white, hairy, male ass. 😃 — G. Raven ---
**Author:** ![Biggirl](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/biggirl/32/3294_2.png) [@Biggirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Biggirl)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2001, 12:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/16 "2001-06-29T00:17:29Z")
Where is all this porn? Dangit I wanna see! In the pit there’s a priest complaining about web porn sites and how he can see all he wants for free on usenet. How come I can’t see it? Huh? Huh? Biggirl I am curious, yellow. ---
**Author:** ![amarinth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3be4f8/32.png) [@amarinth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/amarinth)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2001, 1:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/17 "2001-06-29T01:35:14Z")
Biggirl, It’s your kids. They’ve decided that adults definitely aren’t interested in sex, and don’t need to see that sort of thing - so they’ve slipped a net nanny on your machine, to keep you away from such prurient material. Send them to bed, disable it, and it’s right there. ---
**Author:** ![Lumpy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lumpy/32/446_2.png) [@Lumpy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lumpy)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2001, 2:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/18 "2001-06-29T02:37:02Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Biggirl \* > \*\*Where is all this porn? Dangit I wanna see! In the pit there’s a priest complaining about web porn sites and how he can see all he wants for free on usenet. > > How come I can’t see it? Huh? Huh? > Biggirl > I am curious, yellow. \*\* Without posting a direct link to porn sites, might I suggest the Lycos Multimedia Search ([http://multimedia.lycos.com/default.asp](http://multimedia.lycos.com/default.asp)) This is a pretty good way to find pics of almost anything. ---
**Author:** ![Pyrrho12](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b2d939/32.png) [@Pyrrho12](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pyrrho12)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2001, 2:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/19 "2001-06-29T02:42:05Z")
Well, you could always try [Asian Pride Porn](http://www.ifilm.com/ifilm/product/film_info/1,3699,140707,00.html)… ---
**Author:** ![Morrison\_s\_Lament](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d26b3c/32.png) [@Morrison\_s\_Lament](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morrison_s_Lament)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2001, 6:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376/20 "2001-06-29T06:05:51Z")
Not sure if links are allowed, ya know. Do check out the famous site named after a derogatory term for a German person, though. That is, if you happen to come across it. — G. Raven [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/interracial-sex-and-the-net/70376.md?page=2)