# invisible friends

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [January 9, 2004, 9:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725 "2004-01-09T21:48:14Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![maggy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@maggy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/maggy)\
**Post date:** [January 9, 2004, 9:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/1 "2004-01-09T21:48:14Z")

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At the risk of being “out there” did anyone ever have invisible friends when they were young?

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**Author:** ![Chefguy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chefguy/32/138_2.png) [@Chefguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chefguy)\
**Post date:** [January 9, 2004, 10:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/2 "2004-01-09T22:16:16Z")

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Not me ::wipe that look off your face, Harvey:: , but my oldest son had a ‘friend’ he referred to as “Andy Bear”. Don’t know whatever happened to him. Maybe he joined the circus or something.

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**Author:** ![AngelicGemma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/439d5e/32.png) [@AngelicGemma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AngelicGemma)\
**Post date:** [January 9, 2004, 11:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/3 "2004-01-09T23:00:27Z")

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Yeah, but only when I was with my cousin. She always got jelous if I paid attention to anyone else. So I thought an invisible friend would be funny…

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [January 9, 2004, 11:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/4 "2004-01-09T23:10:48Z")

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Not when I was a kid, but now. If I didn’t have the invisible ones, I wouldn’t have any.

They keep me from drinking alone.

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Please do my laundry.

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**Author:** ![peritrochoid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/c68b51/32.png) [@peritrochoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/peritrochoid)\
**Post date:** [January 9, 2004, 11:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/5 "2004-01-09T23:23:29Z")

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I had several. Both guys and girls. One girl, Penny, even had a car and she’d go on trips with me and my family, driving right along with us. I also had a ninja friend who was part Spiderman, and part Snake Eyes (from G.I. Joe). He had powers to shrink and fly, so he would entertain me by flying or swinging through the audience at any boring event I got stuck at.

I still run into Penny from time to time. 😃

oooooooookay … why are all the Dopers looking at me funny now?

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**Author:** ![luluBahrain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e5b9ba/32.png) [@luluBahrain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/luluBahrain)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 12:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/6 "2004-01-10T00:01:30Z")

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My brother and I had Mr Zero and family. If we were pushing an empty swing then one of the Zero family must be in it. And also i swore my Pound Puppy was able to feel things.

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**Author:** ![Cardinal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cardinal/32/4000_2.png) [@Cardinal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cardinal)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 12:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/7 "2004-01-10T00:28:09Z")

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My brother had an invisible dog and cat for a bit. He got kind of picky about them, like 'They didn’t get in the car yet!" It was cute at first, but then he tried it when we were in a hurry, and he got “Yes they did”, and we drove off. I don’t remember them much after that.

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**Author:** ![MLS](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/919ad9/32.png) [@MLS](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MLS)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 12:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/8 "2004-01-10T00:43:23Z")

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I had several. One was a set of wicked tiny creatures whom I blamed for of my own mischief.

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**Author:** ![StGermain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/stgermain/32/2868_2.png) [@StGermain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StGermain)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 12:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/9 "2004-01-10T00:50:58Z")

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None that I recall, although I insisted the family dog talked to me and I could understand him.

My niece had an invisible brother who lived in the carpet in her bedroom. She wanted a sibling badly.

StG

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**Author:** ![dangermom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e274bd/32.png) [@dangermom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dangermom)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 2:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/10 "2004-01-10T02:55:15Z")

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My little girl had one for a few days recently. Oddly, his name was the same as DangerDad’s first name, which he doesn’t use and which she doesn’t know yet. We took him to the store and everywhere, and she held hands with him all the time.

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**Author:** ![bagkitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7ab992/32.png) [@bagkitty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bagkitty)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 3:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/11 "2004-01-10T03:04:36Z")

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Only when I would get caught doing something wrong, he was visible the rest of the time.

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**Author:** ![Dangerosa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/22d042/32.png) [@Dangerosa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dangerosa)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 3:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/12 "2004-01-10T03:16:01Z")

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Yep, a boy and a girl. The girl was names PiPi and the boy was named DohDoh. I am not making this up.

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**Author:** ![jackelope](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/a6a055/32.png) [@jackelope](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jackelope)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 5:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/13 "2004-01-10T05:16:52Z")

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Out of curiosity, it might be interesting for those answering to state whether they were only children or not as well.

I was an only child and had two invisible friends: Johnny and Log.

I’m not sure why his name was “Log,” but I guess maybe I saw a TV show in which a voiceover says, “Dear Log,” in the sense of “Dear Diary.” That’s all I can come up with.

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**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 7:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/14 "2004-01-10T07:45:01Z")

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Hmmmm. Yes and no. I pretended to have invisible monster friends that I talked about. But I never believed that they were real.

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**Author:** ![Horseflesh](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/horseflesh/32/7502_2.png) [@Horseflesh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Horseflesh)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 8:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/15 "2004-01-10T08:14:21Z")

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My son had one last year. Superboy was his name. He didn’t have to get in the car, he would fly along side us. Superboy ate whatever my son didn’t like on his plate. He could walk through walls too.

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**Author:** ![peritrochoid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/c68b51/32.png) [@peritrochoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/peritrochoid)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 12:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/16 "2004-01-10T12:34:24Z")

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> \*Originally posted by jackelope \*  
> \*\*Out of curiosity, it might be interesting for those answering to state whether they were only children or not as well.  
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I was not an only child, but I got bored with my brother and my visible friends pretty quickly.

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**Author:** ![jjimm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba8739/32.png) [@jjimm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jjimm)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 12:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/17 "2004-01-10T12:46:16Z")

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Yup, up until the age of three I had one that would make fundies blanch… his name was **Demon**.

That is, however, Demon - pronounced “DEM-mon”, and he was a butterfly who lived behind the clock face of Big Ben. He tended to make a big mess and spill things when nobody else was there.

My little sister had a friend called Claudia Butterworth, who lived in her wallpaper.

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**Author:** ![Reepicheep](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ed655f/32.png) [@Reepicheep](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Reepicheep)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 12:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/18 "2004-01-10T12:48:25Z")

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Mine lived in the heat outlets. We would have long converstations. My parents kept asking me why I was talking to the ceiling. Once they understood that’s where my invisible friend lived they were fine with me talking to the ceiling. My brother’s friend was an orange and blue blanket that would fly next to the car.

Yes, I come from a strange household.

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**Author:** ![sugaree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/cc9497/32.png) [@sugaree](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sugaree)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 1:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/19 "2004-01-10T13:01:37Z")

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My first invisible friend was named Kurshwhip. I don’t remember him; my family told me this story. Later, I had four, two girls and two boys. I made up stories about this quartet, but I knew they were not really there. Kurshwhip, though, I don’t know. I was under the age of three when I hung with Kurshwhip.

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**Author:** ![Ca3799](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9f8e36/32.png) [@Ca3799](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ca3799)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2004, 2:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/invisible-friends/223725/20 "2004-01-10T14:29:15Z")

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My second child has a tiny, invisible dog named “germs” who lives in his pocket.

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