# Is a 20% tip the minimum for good service?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [August 28, 2005, 10:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965 "2005-08-28T10:33:10Z")\
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**Author:** ![astro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9dc877/32.png) [@astro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astro)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 10:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/1 "2005-08-28T10:33:10Z")

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IIRC it was 15% in years past. Lately I’ve been tipping 20% (more on small dinner checks). Is 20% the new baseline tip for receiving good service?

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**Author:** ![Turek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/turek/32/18782_2.png) [@Turek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Turek)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 10:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/2 "2005-08-28T10:36:35Z")

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Not for me. Tipping evil.

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**Author:** ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/21825_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 10:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/3 "2005-08-28T10:46:04Z")

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My practice is 20% or more for exceptional service, 15% for decent service, 10% or less for marginal to crappy service.

Frankly, I’d prefer that restaurants jack up their prices a little more, pay the servers a decent wage, and make sure they only retain good servers. Yeah, like that’ll ever happen…

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**Author:** ![Cicero](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cicero/32/3594_2.png) [@Cicero](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cicero)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 10:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/4 "2005-08-28T10:57:05Z")

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It happens here (Australia). No tipping. Although taxi drivers would tell you differently.

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**Author:** ![Barbarian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e19adc/32.png) [@Barbarian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Barbarian)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 1:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/5 "2005-08-28T13:27:45Z")

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15%. Any figure you hear higher than that is a campaign by restaurant workers to get paid more for doing less work.

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**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 2:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/6 "2005-08-28T14:04:57Z")

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I usually leave 20%. But that is a personal preference. Usually I eat at the same places each week and know the staff and prefer to give them a little extra. 15% is normal. I only leave less than 20 if the service was particularly bad. And then I leave 10.

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**Author:** ![Snarky\_Kong](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a183cd/32.png) [@Snarky\_Kong](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snarky_Kong)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 4:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/7 "2005-08-28T16:26:17Z")

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My girlfriend, a server, thinks 15% is an insult. She’s crazy though, when you make $11 an hour in tips for a college job you have no reason to complain.

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**Author:** ![PinkMarabou](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ec9cab/32.png) [@PinkMarabou](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PinkMarabou)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 4:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/8 "2005-08-28T16:31:03Z")

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Since I’ve worked in the industry, I leave around 20-25% for good service. Marginal service gets between 10-15%, if it’s poor service, usually less than 10% is the norm. YMMV of course.

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**Author:** ![chaoticbear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f07891/32.png) [@chaoticbear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chaoticbear)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 4:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/9 "2005-08-28T16:41:23Z")

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My tips are usually somewhere in the 30 to 50 percent range, but then again, I’m usually at Waffle House, where they all know my name, and I feel guilty only leaving 1.50 on my 7.50 check, even if it is 20 percent.

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**Author:** ![Eonwe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eonwe/32/240_2.png) [@Eonwe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eonwe)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 4:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/10 "2005-08-28T16:56:41Z")

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I agree with **Chaotic Donkey** that generally very low bills demand a higher percentage tip.

That said, I think tipping was placed on this earth to extort more money out of people like me who feel extreme guilt at leaving anything less than 18 or 20 percent. What a sucker! But yeah, I leave about 20% almost all the time.

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**Author:** ![silenus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/silenus/32/166_2.png) [@silenus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silenus)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 5:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/11 "2005-08-28T17:21:36Z")

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The only way a server is going to get 20% from me is if a blowjob was included in the service! I also feel no tip at all is appropriate if I am not satisfied with the service, either. I would never leave a tip for sub-standard treatment.

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**Author:** ![Future\_days](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/cab0a1/32.png) [@Future\_days](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Future_days)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/12 "2005-08-28T17:48:42Z")

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10% is the max I give, and it has to be very good to get that.

It would appear some people worry too much about how big a tip they give. If everyone tipped a waitress 20% she’d make a bloody fortune.

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**Author:** ![Bomzaway](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e480ec/32.png) [@Bomzaway](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bomzaway)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 6:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/13 "2005-08-28T18:06:35Z")

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> [@Future days](#):
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> 10% is the max I give, and it has to be very good to get that.
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> It would appear some people worry too much about how big a tip they give. If everyone tipped a waitress 20% she’d make a bloody fortune.

Oh yeah. Combined with that minimum wage they get, they’d be rolling in the dough. :rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![kimera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/f0a364/32.png) [@kimera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kimera)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 7:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/14 "2005-08-28T19:28:07Z")

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> [@Future days](#):
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> 10% is the max I give, and it has to be very good to get that.

10% is an insult. The server has to tip out other people, so 15% is the minimum you should tip. Anything below 10% costs the server money. There will always be cheap people like you so you don’t have to worry about waitresses making too much money.

Having worked as a waitress, I always tip 20% unless the service was bad.

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**Author:** ![pinkfreud](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pinkfreud/32/17603_2.png) [@pinkfreud](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pinkfreud)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 7:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/15 "2005-08-28T19:38:27Z")

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Unfortunately, I’m seldom able to eat out anymore, but I used to work in food service, and I really appreciate a good, attentive waiter or waitress. I’ve been known to leave huge tips for really great service. Only once can I recall having deliberately left no tip, and in this case I also complained to the management about the server. Mostly I have tipped in the range of 15% to 20%.

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2005, 7:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/16 "2005-08-28T19:44:26Z")

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I’ll tip 10 to 15 % if it’s just my SO and me. Not because I think the waitress is making too much, or anything, it’s just that generally, I don’t see the reason to tip that high! We’re not demanding, we don’t cause any trouble, we’re probably one of the easiest customers she’s got there. So why should I tip even more…I certainly do feel 20 % is way too high on an average restaurant.

If I’m in a fancy restaurant, or more people, I’ll tip higher.

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**Author:** ![Future\_days](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/cab0a1/32.png) [@Future\_days](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Future_days)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2005, 12:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/17 "2005-08-29T00:12:10Z")

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> [@kimera](#):
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> 10% is an insult. The server has to tip out other people, so 15% is the minimum you should tip. Anything below 10% costs the server money. There will always be cheap people like you so you don’t have to worry about waitresses making too much money.
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> Having worked as a waitress, I always tip 20% unless the service was bad.

Insult my ass. The employer should pay them more. Here in the UK 10% is the norm. 10% is decent anyway, being a waitress is hardly rocket science, get another job if you feel you’re not being paid enough. :rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![Future\_days](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/cab0a1/32.png) [@Future\_days](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Future_days)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2005, 12:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/18 "2005-08-29T00:13:48Z")

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I’m a keen supporter of the Mr Pink philosophy on tipping. 🙂

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**Author:** ![SleepyDuck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a183cd/32.png) [@SleepyDuck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SleepyDuck)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2005, 12:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/19 "2005-08-29T00:14:52Z")

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> [@kimera](#):
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> …Anything below 10% costs the server money…

huh?

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**Author:** ![msmith537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d9b06d/32.png) [@msmith537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/msmith537)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2005, 1:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-a-20-tip-the-minimum-for-good-service/318965/20 "2005-08-29T01:28:11Z")

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> [@Future days](#):
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> Insult my ass. The employer should pay them more. Here in the UK 10% is the norm. 10% is decent anyway, being a waitress is hardly rocket science, get another job if you feel you’re not being paid enough. :rolleyes:

Here in the US, 15-20% is the norm Moneybags.

I suggest you go to a grocery store and cook for yourself if the price of eating out is too high for you.

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