I’m certain that I’m smarter than the average bear, even if the bear devotes more time to its specialty. ( For this argument I am assuming that the bear’s specialty is eating, drinking, mating, and pooping in the woods).
Didn’t mean to suggest that God is not a personal God. God is personal to each of us as well as the Oneness in which all things exist. God’s personality is unconditional love shown to all of God’s creation. If you wish to think of God as a loving Father, fine, it will fit. There is no real distinction of male or female in the spiritual world, sorry, no sex. Those who expect to receive virgins will find themselves without the tool to do anything about it.