Obviously I have no problems with walking or bicycling; I do them all the time. And I think it’s kinda silly to drive short distances when walking is possible.
But I essentially disagree with your premise. Cars are an amazing good for most people. They are a portable, armored, climate controlled pod that can go virtually anywhere. I can drive around town, but on a whim go hundreds of miles in any direction (well, not the ocean). I’m not dependent on anyone else’s schedule, either for the exact departure/arrival time or the general time of day (my car doesn’t shut down at 9 pm). It sits there waiting for me to decide what to do and is instantly available when I do decide. And while the number of road deaths are definitely higher than they should be, they are still an amazingly safe form of transport.
Although Americans may have a particular love affair with cars (due to our wealth and geography), it is hardly unique. Pretty much everywhere on Earth, people buy cars as soon as they are affordable. A desire for our transport to conform to our needs instead of the reverse seems universal.
Despite its much larger size, the EV is actually more efficient than the man on the bicycle. A person on a bike burns around 50 kcal per mile. That’s 210,000 J/mi. A Tesla Model 3 requires 250 Wh/mi, or 900,000 J/mi. Wait–isn’t that more? No, because the food energy took about 10x as much to produce, while the electrical energy was within a few tens of percent. So the bicycle is really about half as good as the car. Don’t tell me how Americans should be losing weight–it doesn’t matter how fat you are, the more calories you burn, the more you need to eat.
The car is largely iron and aluminum, both absurdly prevalent minerals. There is more than enough for everyone on Earth to have a car. Besides, it’s all highly recyclable.
There’s a possible future where all energy comes from solar/wind/nuclear, and we can have a lot more per person than the present day. It’s sustainable–we can keep going for thousands of years with that technology. And with the current population, we can manage an American standard of living, with cars and everything, with just a percent or two of land area dedicated to energy. In fact, if we do things right we can end up with far more land being given back to nature, by trading a little more energy use for high-density indoor food production. We use an absolutely incredible amount of land (and water) on food, on the order of 100x what’s needed, just because we still grow stuff out in the open like it was the Neolithic.
That’s the future I want–high energy density, but served easily by sustainable sources. We all get cars; hell, even flying ones (but electric, self-flying drones). Not to mention electronics and everything else that the first world gets. We can get there–I think we’re actually on the right trajectory–but it requires not listening to the propagandists and the nihilists.