is "hir" an official term now?

And what’s interesting is the lack of contraversy/difficulty with using “you” for both the singular and plural.

I answered this for you in Post 36:

by** CP**:
*"As with hyphenated surnames, “hir” is a reflection of indecisiveness, weakness and linguistic conceit.

I suspect it has a chance to catch on “officially” in the lexicon of those hoping to cast an aura of progressive superiority long before it takes a place in common usage."*

“Hir” may catch on eventually, but at its present position in the evolution of English it is more likely to convey an aura that the user feels in possession of a progressive superiority. Attempting to cast such an aura is not typically well-received and a more likely result will be the perception that the user is a self-aggrandizing snot or is otherwise indecisive or weak.

But have at it, if you think it will help promote your documents. Throw in a hyphenated surname to further the impression you are of Person of Substance and Progressivity.