My nurse practitioner mother is good and tired of relatively uneducated people massing into the clinic demanding something be done for their colds and flu.
“It’s a virus. Drink plenty, go to bed, and quit spreading more germs around.”
If there are drugs for flu, she’s not mentioned them.
I’ve had “bad” (rude/dismissive/incompetent/stinky) doctors almost exactly as often as I’ve had bad neighbors, bad mechanics, bad waitrons, bad help desk denizens, and bad blind dates. When I’ve encountered them, I’ve generally not chosen to see them a second time, which seems like the sensible way to respond.
I don’t go to the medical doctor very often, just for preventive stuff or surgery for the most part. The last time I was on antibiotics was when I had my wisdom teeth out in 1978. There are some major benefits to being a hermit.
The trouble with the rest of you people is that you’re always touching each other :D.
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The best doctoring I ever had was from a physician’s assistant. He was very gentle, and he knew the importance of not keeping the damn speculums in a freezer. He knew when he could treat me, and when he needed to refer me to someone else.
Hey, in my experience, most guys would not be depressed if they got their penis touched more often. However, I can sort of understand this…I’d get real tired of the routine if some doc decided that I needed a pelvic exam every time I had a complaint.
Tamiflu is probably the best-known one, but I think there are other similar meds. As mentioned previously, they’re most effective in the first 24 hours, and after 72 hours you might as well not bother. But the people your mom is dealing with, by and large, don’t have actual influenza. You can tell because they feel good enough to come in bitching about how they’re dying from the flu. My husband’s rule of thumb is to imagine you’re lying on the couch feeling like ass and see a $100 bill outside on the lawn. If you feel good enough to go get it, you have a cold. If you go “meh” and roll over to go back to sleep, you probably have the flu.
As for the doc not treating you, just writing scripts (or not, as the case may be), what do you expect them to do? Put on leeches? They’re looking at issues that are either self-limiting and don’t need anything, or they’re looking at stuff that is going to respond better to medication than any sort of physical treatment.
Our current doctor is a gem. Unfortunately, everybody else thinks so, too - so, getting an appointment with her can be 6-12 weeks out. She will NOT dismiss you if you need to talk to her, or if she feels she needs more information, so somedays she is running 3 hours behind schedule. For me, a fantastic doctor is worth it - I schedule regular appointments WAY in advance.
I consider her the queen of diagnosis - and of referrals. I spent a 6 month period getting everything checked out totally (yes, including that rascally colonoscopy!) before totally ruling everything else out determined that I had IBD.
My vitamin D levels and thyroid were a bit off occasionally - now, I get tested before I start falling apart. I know that under her care, I won’t get brushed off with the quick and easy, get-'em-out-the-door answer.
So, the waits are worth it!
The last time I went to the doctor was for back pain that was so bad I couldn’t stand up straight. He listened while I told him what had happened, and then he watched me stand up off the table. “Easier said than done,” I said, and he responded, “I can see that.” After a bit of poking and prodding, during which he actually paid attention to where it hurt, he told me he could do something then and he would give me a prescription for a muscle relaxer for later. Then he got me positioned on the table and jerked me sideways. I could tell it had made a big difference even as I got up and then he did the other side. When I told him how much difference it had made he said we could wait on the prescription and if it didn’t get much better in a couple of days I should let him know. I never had to call.
So yes, the doctor treated me. And my husband gets the same kind of treatment when he goes in. I really hope this guy never retires.
Well, last year I went to a doctor for what seemed like a cold and some aches and pains. It was my third cold in two months, and I hurt all over. Turns out, I had pnemonia and antibiotics did help it. The doctor also treated me in that she had me take a nebulizer treatment in the office to try to open my lungs up.
Sometimes a cold is not a cold.
In most clinical settings, the role of the physician is to diagnose and determine treatment. With notable exceptions including surgery, the actual treatments are frequently executed by nurses, PAs, techncians and the like.
My son has JRA (a type of arthritis). The doctor that eventually diagnosed him refused to write that down for several years, because it’s a lifetime “pre-existing condition” that can prevent my son from acquiring insurance later. We treated with OTC meds for that time, and the Doc only wrote it down when we couldn’t treat appropriately without prescriptions any longer. Carpal Tunnel is another of those permanent conditions, if I recall correctly, but IANAD. It’s just possible that your doctor is looking out for you and your future. Have you asked him or her?