It might be true. But it still doesn’t make it the most important issue that people face, regardless how infuriating it might be for the person subjected to this mistreatment when it happens. I have the same issue as Scylla with this discourse. You see for instance a black woman from a wealthy background, smart, went to the right Uni, became a successful lawyer and became famous enough to be sometimes invited on talk shows. And when she’s on hair she says “check your privileges”. Who watches this : among others, tons of not very smart white straight men from a poor background, who started working after high school, lost his relatively correct job in a factory whose activity moved to China 15 years ago and has since be struggling to find one low income job after another and isn’t sure how he’s going to pay the rent next month.
You see the problem? There’s no way this woman is less privileged than the overwhelming majority of the watchers, despite her gender and race. In fact, she’s among the most privileged people on the planet, and even of the whole history of mankind. She has essentially no business lecturing anybody about privileges. And hearing her doing so is going to infuriate a lot of people, and rightly so.
Mind you, she could talk about her higher risk of mistreatment. But couching it in this sort of speech that has become common nowadays of “I’m sooo oppressed, and you’re sooo privileged” is unreasonable to put it mildly, and I often perceive it as a need for the speaker to put himself in the “oppressed” category since nobody wants to admit being an oppressor even when wearing expensive trendy clothes made in an Asian sweatshop, so if by luck the privileged college student is a woman or has nebulous sexual identity concerns she will use that to put herself in the correct category and lecture others.
I’ve no doubt that a white man has an edge. But then again, so has a tall man, a beautiful woman, an intelligent homosexual, etc… Racism, feminism, etc are valid causes to fight for. But as Scylla said, in this place and time, there are sources of privilege much more important than your skin color and sexual preferences. You’ll always be better off now being born black, female and homosexual in a wealthy, educated and supportive family than being born white, male and straight in a poor, uneducated, uncaring family.
The problem is that nowadays, part of the left is concentrating almost solely on these identity issues, pushing always further about it to a point where their observations, claims and demands begin to seem absurd to most listeners, and all the while ignoring most of the issues that had been in the past the purview of the left, in particular economical issues, and so leaving in the ditch the unemployed factory worker. Who is instead basically told that he should count his blessings for being white
when he’ll be kicked out of his house for not being able to pay rent by some random student who never worked in his life and has extremely important concerns like safe spaces at the uni (that our factory worker would never be able to afford for his children) for offended people.
While his father felt that he was supported by the old left, he’s considered as a class enemy by the new left by virtue of his skin color and gender. And I’m not using “class enemy” lightly. The discourse on the left is indeed demonizing people simply for being white/male/straight : “shut up and check your privileges”. Those white cisgender straight men have replaced the wealthy “bourgeois” as the main source of oppression in the discourse of a large part of the left, regardless of their actual situation in life and possible complete lack of any actual privilege. And these identity issues became the main concerns for a whole generation of people, who like every young generation, searches for a worthy cause to fight for (and, most importantly, to feel good about themselves, enlightened and virtuous). And then, when he has to choose between a leftist candidate who talk about identity issues and a right wing candidate who talks about employment, who he decides to vote for shouldn’t come as a surprise.
There’s in theory no opposition between the fight against racism and such and fight for economic equality. The left managed it for a long time. But when the first becomes so prominent that the second seems mostly ignored (and is openly categorized as vastly less important by many, who, surprise, even if they’re racially discriminated, are socially among the privileged elite) and more importantly when most of the “oppressed” of the second category are openly told repeatedly that they’re in fact privileged oppressors by default, hence ennemies, that’s definitely not possible anymore.