Oh, I do have flowers! And herbs and a butterfly bush and all sorts of things! I just haven’t done much vegetable gardening as of yet.
Thanks for all your thoughts. I think fizgig and Dogface must be right as to why it might be considered tacky–that it’s a matter of showing that you don’t “need” to use your whole lot to grow food.
I’m very environmentally conscious (Green=environmentally conscious, Bean=slang for head or brain, so Green Bean=environmental thinker.) Part of that is making choices that result in less consumption and less waste. I live in a house that would seem frightfully small to the McMansion set, but I like it. Instead of buying a house that sits on destroyed farmland, contains vast amounts of unused space, and requires that I use a car to get everywhere, I live in an 80-year-old house in town where there is no wasted space. I’m proud that I am not contributing to sprawl, and instead supporting town/country style living.
Yes, sometimes I wish I had a bigger house or piece of land, but with a little effort or ingenuity, we manage beautifully. Part of that, though, is being somewhat flexible about things. For example, a couple of months ago, we moved the computer into the living room area. I’d rather have it and all its ugly paraphernalia elsewhere, but it has been working out great.
Similarly, I would rather but the vegetables in the back. That just seems more natural to me (I guess that is why I’m asking about this). I am irretrievably middle-class, after all. But, I am more than willing to re-think things a bit. I don’t want to get into a situation where I feel like I “need” a bigger piece of land because I “can’t” do the gardening that I want to do here.
For those of you who have wondered “what kind of neighborhood” it is, or whether I have an HOA…well, I live on the busiest street going into and out of town. The area is mixed commercial and residential. I live across the street from a pizza place with an 8-foot high chain-link fence. It ain’t Sutton Place. Technically, I live in the 'hood–the worst section of Westfield, NJ. (If you know Westfield at all, you are probably laughing your ass off right about now.)
I promise not to use pantyhose as plant ties!
Omorka: I was under the impression that the Big Unspoken Southern Belle Rulebook has now been put to paper: A Southern Belle Primer: Or Why Princess Margaret Will Never Be a Kappa Kappa Gamma by Marilyn Schwartz. I’m dying to read it–not in small part because I am a Kappa Kappa Gamma! :eek: