Fair enough. Let me try again.
I understand that you are arguing this, but you are wrong. Let me explain.
Possibly. But outside of its context, it is also not real. The context is the action of an individual. You have to remove this essential context to get to morally neutral, and doing that removes the action from reality. I might agree that a gun shooting itself is morally neutral. However, I think you would agree that such an event is not really useful in determining how morality works. It tells us nothing about whether or not humans should shoot guns. Let alone when they should shoot them or where they aught to be aimed.
The real question, is how can you not make a judgement without such knowledge of context.
No one else can either. Remember that the rest of society, the local priest, the ancient book, or whatever else you think is more reliable are in fact simply constructions of other individuals. If a person can only be relied on to judge the actions of another, and he may not consider his own hypothetical possibility of taking those actions, then what happens to his context? How can other’s judgements be reliable when one’s own is not? Are not those others simply individuals in their own right?
This is exactly backwards. Morality only becomes meaningful when individuals internalize it and apply it to their daily lives. It does not matter, particularly, if the morality in question was voted on by the masses, decreed from some cosmic muffin, or discovered to be a charicteristic of reality through the application of reason. Creating or discovering the ultimate morality will be meaningless unless individuals practice it. It will be even less meaningful if the morality created does not even apply to individuals actions.
But your new question simply drops the context. What is the proper action [for whom] to take in a given situation". If you ignore the for whom part, you have essentially ignored the context. If you look at a mugger shooting a small child and simply try to determine if the gun should shoot its bullet, you will miss entirely the moral context. If you do not put yourself into the situation (or some idealized “reasonable” man), you will similarly miss the context.
The important question one asks when making a moral judgement is “How will I act in this situation I am in now.” Morality is not about passing judgement on others. It is a tool for living a life in the context of that life as a whole. It is the tool we use to put individual actions into the context of the individual who performs them. Deciding which morality to accept and apply are different questions. But this decision depends on how we anser the question “What is morality for”.
Now, said this way, I find something I can agree with. I am not proposing that morality is the sum of the whims of an individual. I think morality can be defined by the nature of the actors who need it, and the nature of the actions which are most important to them. Specifically, humans can define morality based on the fact that they need tools to make decisions, and many of those decisions will allow them to be living humans, or not.
Unfortunately, I think you really meant that you must rely on others to define morality for you when you say “look outside”. I am afraid this is exactly wrong. You must certainly look outside. But at reality and its characteristics. Your ability to reason is the only tool you have to determine the morality which you will accept and apply. Looking to others simply abandons your own reason for thiers.