# is my boyfriend gay or repressed? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 27, 2001, 1:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411 "2001-11-27T01:07:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![robardin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/43a26b/32.png) [@robardin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/robardin)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 2:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/61 "2012-01-09T02:58:45Z")
> [@Ambivalid](#): > > …Maybe this _ **is** _ the update? She scrammed? oh good. I bet it explains what “14 k of g in a f p d” stands for too! ---
**Author:** ![Rigamarole](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/77aa72/32.png) [@Rigamarole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rigamarole)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 3:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/62 "2012-01-09T03:02:55Z")
> [@pati12812](#): > > LOh wow! Ok so I stumble over this post over 10the years later and I have updates! Talk about a cocktease. ---
**Author:** ![pati12812](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b77776/32.png) [@pati12812](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pati12812)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 4:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/63 "2012-01-09T04:01:08Z")
Oh wow! So sorry! Not being a tease! When I posted that ‘10 years later’ reply, I had no idea anyone would see it let alone respond! Kk, I am on my phone just getting off work, I will DEFINITELY post when I get to my laptop! And yes the guy is still in my life…but I wont yet disclose as to what extent, or what part he plays! Stand by for that! ---
**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 4:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/64 "2012-01-09T04:02:28Z")
I assure you, I am on tenterhooks over here. ---
**Author:** ![Rigamarole](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/77aa72/32.png) [@Rigamarole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rigamarole)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 4:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/65 "2012-01-09T04:06:14Z")
> [@pati12812](#): > > When I posted that ‘10 years later’ reply, I had no idea anyone would see it let alone respond! On this board, whenever someone replies to a thread it gets bumped to the top of the page, no matter how old it was originally. So replying to a thread and thus “bumping” it means people will probably see it. ---
**Author:** ![Cubsfan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f4b2a3/32.png) [@Cubsfan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cubsfan)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 4:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/66 "2012-01-09T04:11:18Z")
Oldest zombie thread ever? ---
**Author:** ![boytyperanma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/4491bb/32.png) [@boytyperanma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/boytyperanma)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 4:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/67 "2012-01-09T04:12:10Z")
Really > [@pati12812](#): > > Not being a tease! This seems to contradict that. > [@](#): > > And yes the guy is still in my life…but I wont yet disclose as to what extent, or what part he plays! Spit it out already, or at least let us know if he does or not. ---
**Author:** ![ShelliBean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f9ae1b/32.png) [@ShelliBean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ShelliBean)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 4:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/68 "2012-01-09T04:15:35Z")
Let me guess. - he had breakfast delivered? ---
**Author:** ![pati12812](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b77776/32.png) [@pati12812](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pati12812)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 4:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/69 "2012-01-09T04:19:02Z")
And I will say this much, I am appalled at the spelling (and grammatical) errors I made ten years ago! For someone who makes a solid effort to always spell correctly, I can’t even believe those are my posts! But besides that, revisiting this thread is such a looking glass experience, and it is so cool! ---
**Author:** ![zoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zoid/32/336_2.png) [@zoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zoid)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 4:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/70 "2012-01-09T04:20:16Z")
So did you guys fuck or what? ---
**Author:** ![Lucretia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/13edae/32.png) [@Lucretia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lucretia)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 4:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/71 "2012-01-09T04:22:29Z")
> [@zoid](#): > > So did you guys fuck or what? Seriously…make with the updates, already. ---
**Author:** ![pati12812](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b77776/32.png) [@pati12812](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pati12812)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 4:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/72 "2012-01-09T04:27:23Z")
> [@Cubsfan](#): > > Oldest zombie thread ever? Is it? Wow! Damn let me get home, and update this! (Currently at a friends house, and the length of time I’d be staring at my phone, to post…would be way too rude a move!) ---
**Author:** ![boytyperanma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/4491bb/32.png) [@boytyperanma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/boytyperanma)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 4:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/73 "2012-01-09T04:31:41Z")
> [@pati12812](#): > > Is it? Wow! Damn let me get home, and update this! (Currently at a friends house, and the length of time I’d be staring at my phone, to post…would be way too rude a move!) Yep keep up with the tease… I’m doubting the original premise now, it wasn’t him not being interested it was he was always suffering from blue balls. ---
**Author:** ![pati12812](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b77776/32.png) [@pati12812](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pati12812)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 4:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/74 "2012-01-09T04:32:11Z")
> [@robardin](#): > > oh good. I bet it explains what “14 k of g in a f p d” stands for too! What does it stand for? ---
**Author:** ![Silver\_Fire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a88e4f/32.png) [@Silver\_Fire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silver_Fire)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 4:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/75 "2012-01-09T04:40:15Z")
> [@boytyperanma](#): > > Yep keep up with the tease… > > I’m doubting the original premise now, it wasn’t him not being interested it was he was always suffering from blue balls. I lol’d so hard at this. I wonder if he’s her gay bff now. That would be awesome. ---
**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 4:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/76 "2012-01-09T04:50:55Z")
> [@pati12812](#): > > What does it stand for? 14 kinds of tell the goddamn story already. ---
**Author:** ![pati12812](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b77776/32.png) [@pati12812](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pati12812)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 5:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/77 "2012-01-09T05:50:48Z")
> [@Inner\_Stickler](#): > > 14 kinds of tell the goddamn story already. YOU WONT BELIEVE THIS! My friend said it wouldn’t be rude, so I just spent the past, who knows how long, in touchscreen hell…struggling through calibrational nonsense, keyboard size, screen scrolling and auto text-words bopping in to the damn sentence; just to hit ‘submit reply’ and lose it all! Haha! Will reply from safety of a normal keyboard shortly! I promise! ---
**Author:** ![pati12812](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b77776/32.png) [@pati12812](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pati12812)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 6:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/78 "2012-01-09T06:04:14Z")
An hour! Well, very close to one hour it took me to post and then I lost it! ---
**Author:** ![AClockworkMelon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aclockworkmelon/32/10803_2.png) [@AClockworkMelon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AClockworkMelon)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 6:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/79 "2012-01-09T06:04:31Z")
> [@pati12812](#): > > YOU WONT BELIEVE THIS! My friend said it wouldn’t be rude, so I just spent the past, who knows how long, in touchscreen hell…struggling through calibrational nonsense, keyboard size, screen scrolling and auto text-words bopping in to the damn sentence; just to hit ‘submit reply’ and lose it all! Haha! Will reply from safety of a normal keyboard shortly! I promise! > [@pati12812](#): > > An hour! Well, very close to one hour it took me to post and then I lost it! Are you fucking kidding me? With the time it took to post your last half a dozen replies you could have just told us what the deal was. We’re not interested in a novel. Really, we just want to know if you two are fucking now. ---
**Author:** ![PotLuck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bbce88/32.png) [@PotLuck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PotLuck)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2012, 6:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411/80 "2012-01-09T06:10:18Z")
> [@AClockworkMelon](#): > > Are you fucking kidding me? I believe the answer is yes. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411.md?page=3) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-my-boyfriend-gay-or-repressed/95411.md?page=5)