# Is Pete Davidson's life really that interesting?

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**Created:** [May 5, 2023, 3:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-pete-davidsons-life-really-that-interesting/983620 "2023-05-05T15:42:50Z")\
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**Author:** ![Thudlow\_Boink](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thudlow_boink/32/320_2.png) [@Thudlow\_Boink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Thudlow_Boink)\
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[[Chad] Okay. [/Chad]](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LuzGs8SfXBo&ab_channel=SaturdayNightLive)

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He’s actually pretty funny. Davidson just has that self-deprecating laid back slacker schtick that just makes it look so effortless you think that if he can do it, you or one of your idiot friends from high school could do it too.

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**Post date:** [May 5, 2023, 10:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-pete-davidsons-life-really-that-interesting/983620/23 "2023-05-05T22:56:46Z")

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> [@Thudlow\_Boink](#):
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> > 90% of his schtick is trading off stories about his life.
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> Whether that’s true or not, in order for that to work, you don’t have to have an interesting life—you have to be able to talk interestingly, and/or amusingly or relatably, _about_ your life.

That’s quite true. Shirley Jackson, an acclaimed author of numerous books including _The Haunting of HIll House_, wrote a hilariously charming book about her perfectly ordinary life in rural Vermont, _Life Among the Savages_.

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> [@Thudlow\_Boink](#):
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> [[Chad] Okay. [/Chad]](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LuzGs8SfXBo&ab_channel=SaturdayNightLive)

Chauncey Gardener vibes.

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**Author:** ![Thudlow\_Boink](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thudlow_boink/32/320_2.png) [@Thudlow\_Boink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Thudlow_Boink)\
**Post date:** [May 6, 2023, 12:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-pete-davidsons-life-really-that-interesting/983620/25 "2023-05-06T00:06:37Z")

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> [@wolfpup](#):
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> Shirley Jackson, an acclaimed author of numerous books including _The Haunting of HIll House_, wrote a hilariously charming book about her perfectly ordinary life in rural Vermont, _Life Among the Savages_.

Yes, that’s a good book—kind of like a slightly edgier Erma Bombeck.

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> [@bump](#):
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> _why_ he’s so attractive to the women he’s dated

You don’t find him incredibly handsome and witty?

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**Post date:** [May 6, 2023, 3:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-pete-davidsons-life-really-that-interesting/983620/27 "2023-05-06T15:41:31Z")

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I’ll take that literally just to move the thread along…

I mean, I wouldn’t go so far as to call him ugly, but at the same time, he’s not Rege-Jean Page or George Clooney or anyone like that.

I guess he’s a strange sort of charming- that’s sort of where I was going with the endearing part. He’s got something about his personality that’s interesting/charming/attractive to good looking celebrity women. My guess is that he’s not about the fame and being the center of attention, and that’s likely unusual for a comedian/performer. How many guys that Kate Beckinsale dates are either uninterested in her fame, or uninterested in their own fame? I imagine that sort of attitude combined with interest skates pretty close to her thinking he likes her for her own sake, not for everything else.

I don’t have anything to back that up, other than that just seems to be the way he is, and I could see that being his actual private persona as well. And I’m probably stretching pretty hard to second-guess how people think as well, so take that with a big grain of salt.

He’s also clearly quite intelligent, even though he seems to downplay it in his public persona.

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> [@Thudlow\_Boink](#):
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> > [@solost](#):
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> > 90% of his schtick is trading off stories about his life.
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> Whether that’s true or not, in order for that to work, you don’t have to have an interesting life—you have to be able to talk interestingly, and/or amusingly or relatably, _about_ your life.

Wasn’t that Harvey Pekar’s whole deal? Ordinary, unremarkable guy who discovered he had a talent for storyboarding comics about himself and finding people to draw them.

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**Author:** ![Loach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/loach/32/350_2.png) [@Loach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loach)\
**Post date:** [May 6, 2023, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-pete-davidsons-life-really-that-interesting/983620/29 "2023-05-06T17:48:35Z")

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> [@bump](#):
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> I think he’s endearing in his own bemused-at-his-own-fame kind of way, and when you combine that with his SNL fame and his string of super-hot dating partners, he’s pretty newsworthy as far as vapid celebrity news goes.
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> I think he’s able to leverage a lot of that into being able to do things like “King of Staten Island” and “Bupkis”.
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> Now as to _why_ he’s so attractive to the women he’s dated, I have no idea. Probably something endearing and uncommon for a celebrity, if I had to guess.

A couple of comics who know him since he was 17 starting out in clubs told a story about him asking them over to play video games. When they got there he said “I hope you don’t mind, Ariana is here.” He said it in a way that someone would say it about their unknown girlfriend not bragging that an international superstar was in their house. Their point was these women seem to like being with a guy that is comfortable going to the Met Gala but also just treats them as normal people when no one else around them does. It’s just his personality. And he has a giant hog.

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For the most part _King of Staten Island_ was a good movie. My biggest criticism is more of an Apatow problem than a Davidson problem. There was no ending. I also enjoyed seeing cameos by a bunch of NYC comics that most people probably wouldn’t recognize.

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**Post date:** [May 6, 2023, 9:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-pete-davidsons-life-really-that-interesting/983620/31 "2023-05-06T21:58:19Z")

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Pete Davidson says in one interview that he’s only dated 10 women in 12 years. According to other sources, nine of them are Carly Aquilino, Cazzie David, Ariana Grande, Kate Beckinsale, Margaret Qualley, Kaia Gerber, Phoebe Dynevor, Kim Kardashian, and Emily Ratajkowski. Is that a lot for a male between the ages of 17 and 29, considering that he was starring in a television show at the age of 20?

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> [@Loach](#):
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> Their point was these women seem to like being with a guy that is comfortable going to the Met Gala but also just treats them as normal people when no one else around them does. It’s just his personality. And he has a giant hog.

He first met Kim Kardashian when she appeared on SNL. They had a skit together where they kissed. But he didn’t show up to her wrap party. That apparently intrigued her and she ended up calling him a couple of weeks later. Plus, I believe that at that point sources were confirming she was DTF\*, so the hog part surely played a part.

> **[Kim Revealed She Texted Pete First Because She Was “DTF” After Hearing About...](https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/leylamohammed/kim-kardashian-texted-pete-davidson-first-dtf-best-sex)**
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> “I wasn’t even thinking, Oh my god, I’m gonna be in a relationship with him. I was just thinking, Heard about this BDE, need to get out there... I was just basically DTF.”

\*DTF : Down to Fuck

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I think it’s not so much the quantity, as their beauty.

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> [@bump](#):
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> How many guys that Kate Beckinsale dates are either uninterested in her fame, or uninterested in their own fame?

Supposedly the reason Anne Bancroft fell for Mel Brooks was because he did not treat her like a big star who had already won two Tony Awards and an Oscar.

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> [@kenobi\_65](#):
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> The rumor seems to be that Pete is very well-endowed.

> [@Si\_Amigo](#):
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> I hear he has a big wanker.

> [@Loach](#):
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> And he has a giant hog.

> [@Moriarty](#):
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> the hog part surely played a part.

This might explain his attraction to women, but not why his life seems to be so interesting that he’s been able to trade off of it first on SNL, then a movie, and now a series. Well, good for him. I’d give his new series ‘Bupkis’ a try but I think it’s on a streaming channel we don’t have.

And an amusing anecdote RE: his well endowment: I believe it was Ariana Grande who first shared this news to the world. Pete was asked about it, possibly on one of his Weekend Update appearances, and he said, “it’s not _ **that** _ big- she just has small hands”.

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> [@bump](#):
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> I think it’s not so much the quantity, as their beauty.

He’s hardly the man who’s dated the most beautiful women. Just looking for a list of the ones dated by a famous man, I found the following website. I think that Mick Jagger dates much more beautiful women in a period of 12 years than Pete Davidson. And that continued well after Davidson’s present age. He had a child at 73:

> **[Mick Jagger's Wife And Girlfriends](https://www.ranker.com/list/mick-jagger-loves-and-hookups/celebrityhookups)**
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> Who is Mick Jagger dating? Immortalized in rock and roll history as the charismatic frontman of The Rolling Stones, Mick Jagger has long been a subject of fascination. Known not only for his unmistakable voice and high-energy performances, Jagger’s...

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> [@Wendell\_Wagner](#):
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> Mick Jagger…had a child at 73

He actually has a great-grandchild older than his youngest child, which is mind-boggling.

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> [@Wendell\_Wagner](#):
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> He’s hardly the man who’s dated the most beautiful women.

That’s true, and what you’d expect from the _Rolling Stones’_ frontman.

Dating Kate Beckinsale, Emily Ratajkowski, Phoebe Dynevor, Ariana Grande, and the rest is NOT what you would typically expect from an ok at best looking standup comedian whose claim to fame is that he was on SNL.

There was an unwritten “For him” caveat appended to that post of mine upthread. I wasn’t trying to imply that he was winning that particular race, only that he’s IN that particular race, when you’d think he wouldn’t even be let into the racetrack.

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Trying to come up with criteria for what satisfies _your_ subjective preferences and wondering why your tastes aren’t shared by literally everybody else in the world is a mug’s game.

Several reasons were given above and not all penis related. But somehow that’s not good enough? Different strokes for different folks. Some people like pineapple on their pizza, after all.

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> [@bump](#):
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> what you would typically expect from an ok at best looking standup comedian whose claim to fame is that he was on SNL

It sounds to me that that description fits Fred Armisen too. He’s dated Natasha Lyonne, Abby Elliot, Elisabeth Moss, Petra Haden, Martha Plimpton, Sally Timms, and Carrie Brownstein. It sounds to me that any SNL cast member who doesn’t care about remaining faithful over a long period to one partner can date a lot of moderately famous, moderately beautiful people.

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