# Is she really going out with him?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-she-really-going-out-with-him/413065>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [July 25, 2007, 11:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-she-really-going-out-with-him/413065 "2007-07-25T11:18:01Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 8\
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**Author:** ![DianaG](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7ab992/32.png) [@DianaG](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DianaG)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2007, 3:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-she-really-going-out-with-him/413065/21 "2007-07-26T15:50:23Z")

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Actually it is, a little. There are good and valid reasons to want and need money. Money is MADE of useful. Whatchya gonna do with a bunch of pretty? What is it’s practical application?

Just sayin’. 😉

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**Author:** ![Telperien](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/65b543/32.png) [@Telperien](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telperien)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2007, 3:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-she-really-going-out-with-him/413065/22 "2007-07-26T15:54:54Z")

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[QUOTE=Fiver]  
[This is John Mellencamp’s wife](http://www.elainemellencamp.com/). Yes, poor thing. John is a real humanitarian for saving her from spinsterhood.  
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Damn, where does someone come from that “ordinary-looking” women look like that? Planet of the Babes?

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Fight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/90ced4/32.png) [@Cat\_Fight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Fight)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2007, 3:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-she-really-going-out-with-him/413065/23 "2007-07-26T15:58:03Z")

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[QUOTE=spoke-]  
Yeah, because going for money is so much less shallow.  
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Eh. Maybe when dating a prince or an heir, but being a businessman hints at some sort of a shade of personality - ambition, drive, intelligence to some degree - that I just don’t get from going to the gym/getting implants.

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**Author:** ![Spoke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a88e57/32.png) [@Spoke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spoke)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2007, 4:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-she-really-going-out-with-him/413065/24 "2007-07-26T16:04:58Z")

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These relationships are a two-way street. He uses her for looks/sex; she uses him for money/power. I see two shallow people using each other to get what they want. Neither person in such a coupling is admirable in my book. 🆒

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**Author:** ![AskNott](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asknott/32/5790_2.png) [@AskNott](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AskNott)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2007, 4:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-she-really-going-out-with-him/413065/25 "2007-07-26T16:15:34Z")

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I have read that models seldom date other models. It’s something about needing to be the only spectacular person in the room. :rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![Potato\_Pancakes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/65b543/32.png) [@Potato\_Pancakes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Potato_Pancakes)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2007, 4:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-she-really-going-out-with-him/413065/26 "2007-07-26T16:24:41Z")

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Good. Yesterday I was worried that Joe Pesci didn’t have enough money. Now I know everything is going to be okay.

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**Author:** ![gigi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a587f6/32.png) [@gigi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gigi)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2007, 4:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-she-really-going-out-with-him/413065/27 "2007-07-26T16:39:22Z")

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[QUOTE=Krokodil]  
John Mellencamp and Randy Travis are both married to rather ordinary-looking women (assistant and manager, respectively). And make what you will of the Tori Spelling/Dean McDermott pairing.  
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As mentioned, John Mellencamp is married to Elaine Irwin, super model (“Married an LA doll and brought her to this small town”).

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**Author:** ![FordPrefect](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e99b99/32.png) [@FordPrefect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FordPrefect)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2007, 5:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-she-really-going-out-with-him/413065/28 "2007-07-26T17:38:28Z")

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[QUOTE=DianaG]  
Whatchya gonna do with a bunch of pretty? What is it’s practical application?

Just sayin’. 😉  
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I can think of a few things to with a bunch of pretty 😛  
I am kinda shallow that way.

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