# Is there a male equivalent of the little black dress?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [December 25, 2012, 12:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-a-male-equivalent-of-the-little-black-dress/645075 "2012-12-25T00:20:12Z")\
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**Post date:** [January 3, 2013, 12:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-a-male-equivalent-of-the-little-black-dress/645075/41 "2013-01-03T00:37:39Z")

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I have a go-to black Utilikilt.

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**Author:** ![Beware\_of\_Doug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/278dde/32.png) [@Beware\_of\_Doug](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beware_of_Doug)\
**Post date:** [January 3, 2013, 12:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-a-male-equivalent-of-the-little-black-dress/645075/42 "2013-01-03T00:44:59Z")

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> [@Mollie\_Magill](#):
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> A nice, dark fitted suit. I defy you to find a man who does not look good in a fitted suit.

You mean _tailored_, don’t you? _Fitted_ pretty much means slim cut, and there are lots of us who can’t hack slim cut clothing.

I agree, btw, about the dark suit as LBD equivalent. What people are missing is that it’s the equivalent _level of formality._ It might be socially accepted for a man to dress a level or two less formal than a woman, but I sense a double standard in that. I like to dress “up” to a woman.

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**Author:** ![Beware\_of\_Doug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/278dde/32.png) [@Beware\_of\_Doug](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beware_of_Doug)\
**Post date:** [January 3, 2013, 12:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-a-male-equivalent-of-the-little-black-dress/645075/43 "2013-01-03T00:55:24Z")

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Another thought: ties. Once they were essential with a suit, but now you’re seeing suits without them. A man has to be careful when and where he wears a tie today. If it’s not expected, it can imply you’re stuffy or pretentious.

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**Post date:** [January 3, 2013, 4:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-a-male-equivalent-of-the-little-black-dress/645075/44 "2013-01-03T04:48:28Z")

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> [@Beware\_of\_Doug](#):
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> I agree, btw, about the dark suit as LBD equivalent. What people are missing is that it’s the equivalent _level of formality._ It might be socially accepted for a man to dress a level or two less formal than a woman, but I sense a double standard in that. I like to dress “up” to a woman.

Agree. The dark suit/white shirt a la Clooney looks fab, but a less “dressy” option would be the black slacks/black jeans with black cashmere V-neck.

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**Post date:** [January 3, 2013, 4:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-a-male-equivalent-of-the-little-black-dress/645075/45 "2013-01-03T04:49:59Z")

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> [@Beware\_of\_Doug](#):
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> Another thought: ties. Once they were essential with a suit, but now you’re seeing suits without them. A man has to be careful when and where he wears a tie today. If it’s not expected, it can imply you’re stuffy or pretentious.

That’s part of what makes a suit the male equivalent of an LBD – it can be made more formal with appropriate accessories. Unless the occasion is so formal that it’s black- or white-tie only, a man will probably be fine in a dark suit and tie.

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