# Is there a non-bigoted reason to be anti-same-sex-marriage?

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**Category:** Great Debates\
**Created:** [July 24, 2021, 8:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-a-non-bigoted-reason-to-be-anti-same-sex-marriage/947222 "2021-07-24T20:41:03Z")\
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**Author:** ![kevlaw](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kevlaw/32/2281_2.png) [@kevlaw](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kevlaw)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2021, 3:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-a-non-bigoted-reason-to-be-anti-same-sex-marriage/947222/188 "2021-07-25T15:15:47Z")

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> [@DMC](#):
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> If your posts are an attempt to play some sort of devil’s advocate in this debate, you’ve done a shitty job of it.

I made it quite clear in the thread that the OP quoted, before this debate even began, that I am in favour of same-sex marriage.

> [@How should the Pit be changed, if at all?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-should-the-pit-be-changed-if-at-all/946859/316):
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> I understand the arguments against SSM because I have spent time in other forums where people make sincere arguments against it. I don’t agree with those arguments but I understand them. I think it’s important to understand those arguments because the majority of the population subscribes to them and we need to engage them. If we dismiss them with a wave of the hand and a _you are all just bigots and homophobes_, we will never persuade them that they are wrong.

However, the topic of this discussion is not

> Is kevlaw in favour of same-sex marriage?

It is

> Is there a non-bigoted reason to be anti-same-sex marriage?.

I sincerely believe that there are non-bigoted reasons to oppose SSM. No Devil’s Advocacy required. That you don’t agree with these arguments does not make them bigoted.

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