# Is there any porn that doesn't end after the man cums? **URL:** \ **Category:** Cafe Society\ **Created:** [July 19, 2017, 3:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622 "2017-07-19T03:37:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Reluctant\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/839c29/32.png) [@Reluctant\_A](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Reluctant_A)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2017, 3:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/21 "2017-07-19T15:17:21Z")
If I could go back to hetero porn for a second, I don’t know what the deal is with all the porn ending in facials, but I’d like for it to stop, please and thank you. ---
**Author:** ![Guest-starring\_Id](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guest-starring_id/32/21736_2.png) [@Guest-starring\_Id](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guest-starring_Id)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 1:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/22 "2017-07-20T01:25:10Z")
> [@Reluctant\_A](#): > > If I could go back to hetero porn for a second, I don’t know what the deal is with all the porn ending in facials, but I’d like for it to stop, please and thank you. That is _so_ bukake-intolerant of you. This qualifies you as probably a close-minded person who is most likely hot-carl-averse (which is in the latest DSM vol. LXXXVIII) > [@Jophiel](#): > > Yeah, most porn that I’ve seen at least implies that the woman is happy with how it all worked out including the implicit assumption that she had an orgasm during the course of it. Not much porn ends with the guy blowing his load and going to bed while the woman rolls over and scowls at the wall. The link I provided earlier did have some tender embracing and smooches and then got faded out after about four seconds of it, so, yeah, totes affection and bonding afterwards. Conversely, there can be dysfunction afterwards, bringing to mind the old band [Sarcastic Orgasm](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvyaDsqZt5Y), who were similar to Half Japanese (if they’d taken too much acid) and LOVE the [casio](https://www.google.ca/search?q=casio+keyboard&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjEpeP51ZbVAhVHwVQKHdWPDJwQ_AUICigB&biw=976&bih=809#imgrc=rgHrSs1I3zNWMM:). ---
**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 1:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/23 "2017-07-20T01:30:01Z")
> [@Eddie The Horrible](#): > > That is _so_ bukake-intolerant of you. Speaking of bukkake, I can’t imagine a more awkward, uncomfortable situation than to be standing around in a room with 50 other guys, all buck naked, nursing boners. What do they do while they are passing the time waiting for their turn to jerk off on the girl? Talk about sports? Critique the previous cum shot? ---
**Author:** ![Defensive\_Indifference](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/defensive_indifference/32/6502_2.png) [@Defensive\_Indifference](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Defensive_Indifference)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 2:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/24 "2017-07-20T02:23:27Z")
> [@Jophiel](#): > > Yeah, most porn that I’ve seen at least implies that the woman is happy with how it all worked out including the implicit assumption that she had an orgasm during the course of it. Not much porn ends with the guy blowing his load and going to bed while the woman rolls over and scowls at the wall. This is what I normally see as well. After the guy is done, the movie does usually end, I guess because not many people want to watch the actors cuddle and have small talk. But there’s plenty of porn where the guy bringing the woman to orgasm is part of the scene. Often this is still male centric in that it’s played as a show of the guy’s mad skillz and/or monster cock. But there’s also a fair amount of porn that’s intended to show the participants being attentive to each other. There’s a studio called Nubiles that puts out a lot of that styke. There’s also a BDSM sub genre called orgasm denial, where the dominant woman gets off and the man doesn’t (or sometimes the man does after a long period of being teased by the woman). Although I’m not sure if this is what the OP had in mind. There’s a lot of porn out there, I guess is what I’m saying. Uh… talk to you later. I got a thing I gotta do. ---
**Author:** ![Slow\_Moving\_Vehicle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/slow_moving_vehicle/32/291_2.png) [@Slow\_Moving\_Vehicle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Slow_Moving_Vehicle)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 2:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/25 "2017-07-20T02:56:07Z")
> [@Shalmanese](#): > > I don’t think that’s it. We have plenty of porn that ends with a woman bringing herself to orgasm, porn where a woman brings another woman to orgasm and porn where a man brings a woman to orgasm via toys. All of these genres seem to find plenty of demand among men. But as soon as the penis enters the mix, the end goal of the porn seems to be always to bring the man to orgasm. Yes, but I think it’s hardly controversial to say that the audience for all these different genres is primarily straight men. My own completely non-scientific wildass guess is that in traditional heterosexual guy-girl porn, the male actor is a stand-in for the viewer, who is presumably watching the sex with one hand on his laptop and the other on top of his lap, so to speak. Porn of this sort is about male fantasies, after all. So what gets prominence in the cinematography is female actor’s genitals, breasts, buttocks and face, and the male actor’s penis (so the viewer can vicariously enjoy having a big, porn-star cock). How often in porn vids, for example, do you see shots of the male actor’s face? The scene ends with the money shot, because the male viewer has probably by then already had his own orgasm and has lost interest in the video. (I’ve not seen much porn of sufficiently good acting or plot to hold my interest after the bonin’ is done.) I’m sure there’s a lot of other psychological dynamics going on as well, but I think the basic answer to the OP’s question is - as I said in my first post - that most porn of this type is made for men. ---
**Author:** ![alphaboi867](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alphaboi867/32/3898_2.png) [@alphaboi867](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alphaboi867)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 3:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/26 "2017-07-20T03:12:18Z")
> [@terentii](#): > > More to the point, do they pull out of whichever orifice they’re in before they come? And do they spill their cum on their boyfriends? (Face or bum; doesn’t matter. Maybe they rub it in, like lotion? Or lick it off? Does “spit or swallow” apply here too?) :dubious: 😕 Yes, oral or anal the active partner usually withdraws before ejaculation and finishes externally (usually on his partner). No, that doesn’t usually happen in real life. I’d really annoyed if my partner did that, and extreme pissed off it he did it in my face. Personally I prefer it when they focus on the guy’s facial expressions as he’s ejaculating or being penetrated. As to when the scene ends; if it’s the kind of porn with no 4th wall (ie it’s just the performers talking to an off-screen director & taking direction) there’s usually a short “interview” portion at the end where the director joking asks them questions like how was it and would they ever did it again or go farther next time. Especially if one of performers is supposedly straight and doing this for the first time (“Sorry, the girl just texted she’s not going to make it, but do you boys still want to make some money?”). :dubious: That’s were willing suspension of disbelief comes into play. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 3:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/27 "2017-07-20T03:21:34Z")
I haven’t read this entire thread, but if you’ve looked at porn on the internet then you definitely know who Wifey (Sandra Otterson) is. In a lot, or possibly most of her videos, she orgasms with a vibrator after the money shot by her husband. It’s pretty lame, but she is probably the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. YMMV. ---
**Author:** ![Chronos](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chronos/32/134_2.png) [@Chronos](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chronos)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 12:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/28 "2017-07-20T12:58:47Z")
> [@](#): > > Quoth **Slow Moving Vehicle** : > > Yes, but I think it’s hardly controversial to say that the audience for all these different genres is primarily straight men. Sure, but the existence of those other styles proves that straight men enjoy watching women have orgasms. So why are female orgasms excluded from that one particular style? ---
**Author:** ![Son\_of\_a\_Rich](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/son_of_a_rich/32/5439_2.png) [@Son\_of\_a\_Rich](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Son_of_a_Rich)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 1:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/29 "2017-07-20T13:41:49Z")
> [@Chronos](#): > > Sure, but the existence of those other styles proves that straight men enjoy watching women have orgasms. So why are female orgasms excluded from that one particular style? There’s less female orgasms because, unlike the guy, there’s no way to know what’s real and what’s faked. And most female porn orgasms (afaik) are fake. ---
**Author:** ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 2:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/30 "2017-07-20T14:31:21Z")
On video, you can’t really “see” a woman cum, so the dynamics don’t really work out that well. Anyway, I remember watching a porn once. It was a pair of step siblings going at it. Dude cums inside of girl, and the girl is all like: “OMG! What the hell is wrong with you?!” Then the scene cuts to 4 weeks later. Girl goes into the bathroom to give herself a pregnancy test. And as you may have guessed, she’s pregnant. On the video she of course starts freaking out. The only time that I recall a porno made me laugh out loud. ---
**Author:** ![Thudlow\_Boink](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thudlow_boink/32/320_2.png) [@Thudlow\_Boink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Thudlow_Boink)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 3:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/31 "2017-07-20T15:20:28Z")
> [@nearwildheaven](#): > > Would lesbian porn count in this question? 😛 That’s the answer that my mind immediately leapt to upon seeing the thread title. > [@Slow\_Moving\_Vehicle](#): > > The scene ends with the money shot, because the male viewer has probably by then already had his own orgasm and has lost interest in the video. This is the answer that makes the most sense to me. > [@Chronos](#): > > Sure, but the existence of those other styles proves that straight men enjoy watching women have orgasms. So why are female orgasms excluded from that one particular style? As noted elsewhere in the thread, they needn’t be excluded; they could just occur before the man’s. ---
**Author:** ![gaffa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e68b1a/32.png) [@gaffa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gaffa)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 9:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/32 "2017-07-20T21:05:26Z")
> [@Ambivalid](#): > > Speaking of bukkake, I can’t imagine a more awkward, uncomfortable situation than to be standing around in a room with 50 other guys, all buck naked, nursing boners. What do they do while they are passing the time waiting for their turn to jerk off on the girl? Talk about sports? Critique the previous cum shot? Search for the two “Ask the porn director” threads by member Mike South. He mentioned that just wouldn’t believe just how polite a bunch of naked guys with hard-ons waiting to do their part in a bukakke are to each other, and claimed he could use that experience to negotiate world peace. ---
**Author:** ![Go\_Arachnid\_Laser\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b2d939/32.png) [@Go\_Arachnid\_Laser\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Go_Arachnid_Laser_1)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 9:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/33 "2017-07-20T21:37:00Z")
A few years ago there was this trend (and porn nowadays is all about short-lived trends) of “squirting videos”, where the final money shot had to be the female, you guessed it, squirting. I think the fad ended when enough people in the internet kept explaining that all that liquid was not female ejaculation, but pee. ---
**Author:** ![Sicks\_Ate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@Sicks\_Ate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sicks_Ate)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 9:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/34 "2017-07-20T21:52:48Z")
> [@Ambivalid](#): > > I honestly would like to know the cum-shot dynamics of gay porn! I think it is relevant to the op too, albeit perhaps indirectly. Sooo…put some in the rotation? ---
**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 9:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/35 "2017-07-20T21:54:51Z")
> [@Sicks\_Ate](#): > > Sooo…put some in the rotation? I was hoping to get an answer here. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2017, 11:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622/36 "2017-07-20T23:02:31Z")
> [@Son\_of\_a\_Rich](#): > > And most female porn orgasms (afaik) are fake. I’ve seen one! Where’s my prize? No way those… _convulsions_… could be faked! > [@Grrr](#): > > On video, you can’t really “see” a woman cum, so the dynamics don’t really work out that well. See above! It was somethin’, I’ll tell ya! [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-any-porn-that-doesnt-end-after-the-man-cums/791622.md?page=1)