# Is there anything a hot woman can say that will make men not want to fuck her **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [January 8, 2014, 2:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226 "2014-01-08T02:19:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![SeldomSeen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7ba0ec/32.png) [@SeldomSeen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SeldomSeen)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 5:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/21 "2014-01-08T05:02:20Z")
One little word: **“Urrp”** As recounted [here](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=16934547&postcount=11) ---
**Author:** ![CarnalK](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnalk/32/486_2.png) [@CarnalK](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CarnalK)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 5:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/22 "2014-01-08T05:21:03Z")
> [@Ranger\_Jeff](#): > > Oh, hearing her tell me “My husband is a cop” and/or “I have pepper spray” are big turn offs for me. Yeah, I never sleep over if I hear that. And sweet Lord, Shagnasty. Do yourself and your “lucky ladies” a favor and stick with high end hookers. ---
**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 5:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/23 "2014-01-08T05:26:36Z")
> [@CarnalK](#): > > Yeah, I never sleep over if I hear that. > > And sweet Lord, Shagnasty. Do yourself and your “lucky ladies” a favor and stick with high end hookers. “High end”? You mean like “big assed”? ---
**Author:** ![Isilder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/cc9497/32.png) [@Isilder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Isilder)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 6:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/24 "2014-01-08T06:00:27Z")
“Must be able to accept A+ blood”. ---
**Author:** ![CarnalK](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnalk/32/486_2.png) [@CarnalK](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CarnalK)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 6:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/25 "2014-01-08T06:03:03Z")
> [@Siam\_Sam](#): > > “High end”? You mean like “big assed”? By high end I mean anything other than subjecting a non pro to his “purposes”. ---
**Author:** ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 6:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/26 "2014-01-08T06:04:00Z")
> [@CarnalK](#): > > Yeah, I never sleep over if I hear that. > > And sweet Lord, Shagnasty. Do yourself and your “lucky ladies” a favor and stick with high end hookers. Meeting some lady who is genuinely interested in a casual fling, and hooking up with a prostitute, are two entirely different things. It baffles me why people are always making this comparison. ---
**Author:** ![citizenzen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a8b319/32.png) [@citizenzen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/citizenzen)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 6:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/27 "2014-01-08T06:07:48Z")
Telling a man how good your ex was in the sack might do it. ---
**Author:** ![usedtobe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/ec9cab/32.png) [@usedtobe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/usedtobe)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 7:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/28 "2014-01-08T07:11:09Z")
As many people as there are on the web, finding a dozen who will respond positively to simply _anything_ is not going to be difficult. After all, that dude in Germany found a guy in the US who would come to his house and allow the host to literally eat him. After that, finding guys who want to hump hot scum is rather ho-hum, isn’t it? I figure, if she wants to jump my bones the first time she sees me, I am probably dick #3,157 for her. I’ll hold out for someone who thinks I’m special, thank you. ---
**Author:** ![Namkcalb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c89c15/32.png) [@Namkcalb](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Namkcalb)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 7:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/29 "2014-01-08T07:40:00Z")
I was once Governor of Alaska ---
**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 7:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/30 "2014-01-08T07:59:58Z")
> [@usedtobe](#): > > As many people as there are on the web, finding a dozen who will respond positively to simply _anything_ is not going to be difficult. > > After all, that dude in Germany found a guy in the US who would come to his house and allow the host to literally eat him. Funny you should mention that guy – he was actually a former coworker of someone here on the Dope. (The guy who was eaten, not the eater) :eek: ---
**Author:** ![scabpicker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scabpicker/32/8268_2.png) [@scabpicker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scabpicker)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 8:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/31 "2014-01-08T08:07:26Z")
Well, I know that the answer is yes, for me. I also know that the exact phrase is “I love Jimmy Buffett.” Fortunately, the exact phrase for her was “Wow, really? I think Jimmy Buffett is awful.” So, everyone ended up approximately in the right place. ---
**Author:** ![CarnalK](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnalk/32/486_2.png) [@CarnalK](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CarnalK)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 8:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/32 "2014-01-08T08:22:28Z")
> [@Shakes](#): > > Meeting some lady who is genuinely interested in a casual fling, and hooking up with a prostitute, are two entirely different things. It baffles me why people are always making this comparison. I wasn’t making a comparison. I was commenting on his cold mercenary outlook on non-daughter women. Ymmv. ---
**Author:** ![Mangetout](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mangetout/32/19_2.png) [@Mangetout](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mangetout)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 8:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/33 "2014-01-08T08:36:12Z")
I don’t think there’s anything that anyone could do that would cause or prevent _ **all men on the internet** _ to react in the same, predictable way. I can’t click on the link in the OP from here, but I suspect this is the problem with this scenario - the internet is huge, contains deviants of all varieties, and enables people to find what floats their boat. ---
**Author:** ![CarnalK](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnalk/32/486_2.png) [@CarnalK](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CarnalK)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 8:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/34 "2014-01-08T08:36:17Z")
Though I guess I am being a bit of a jerk. Sorry Shagnasty but I guess you know it’s a “fringe” opinion. It just gave me a serious WTF. ---
**Author:** ![Justin\_Bailey](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/justin_bailey/32/8792_2.png) [@Justin\_Bailey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Justin_Bailey)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 8:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/35 "2014-01-08T08:43:54Z")
> [@Wesley\_Clark](#): > > A major flaw in her logic (seeing how she is not a man) is that she doesn’t seem to grasp that the men do not want to fall in love with the woman or become emotionally intimate with her and become friends with her, they just want to fuck her 5 or 6 times and then forget she exists. She seems to think a bad personality will be a deal breaker for casual sex. Plus her idea of ‘crazy’ just comes across as funny. So I doubt most men took the stuff she said seriously (about wanting to pull people’s teeth, knocking beggar cups out of the hands of the homeless, being an Aaron Carter fan, etc). This is why the article was moronic, she had no idea she was being funny. She thought she was acting mentally unhinged and that guys would realize that. But no, she was clearly a girl with a wicked sense of humor that either… a) was actually looking for a casual hookup/boyfriend and couldn’t help herself from making wild jokes. If this is the case, guys looking for casual sex and/or a girlfriend probably starting messaging like crazy. or b) she was clearly trolling OKCupid and a few guys were playing along because they were bored. ---
**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 8:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/36 "2014-01-08T08:45:41Z")
> [@citizenzen](#): > > Telling a man how good your ex was in the sack might do it. Never stopped me. ---
**Author:** ![Stringbean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Stringbean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stringbean)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 8:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/37 "2014-01-08T08:47:48Z")
Most anything a hot woman says makes me not want to fuck her. ---
**Author:** ![even\_sven](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/dfb087/32.png) [@even\_sven](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/even_sven)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 9:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/38 "2014-01-08T09:00:21Z")
While I agree her profile was too funny to be seen as genuine, it strikes a note with online daters because they often have similar experiences. I remember a guy trying for a month to get my phone number, despite me telling him I would never, in a million years, want to meet him My standard response to ridiculous stick come ons (“Yo, you have a nice smile. Give me your number letz hookup k?”) was “Really?” or “Classy, dude.” This was usually seen as invitation to try harder. ---
**Author:** ![hapkido1996](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f17d59/32.png) [@hapkido1996](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hapkido1996)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 9:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/39 "2014-01-08T09:14:25Z")
To the OP: If she were talking about her STD, yeah. Other than that, not much. ---
**Author:** ![MostlyClueless](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ba9def/32.png) [@MostlyClueless](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MostlyClueless)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2014, 9:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226/40 "2014-01-08T09:29:43Z")
OP; you were propably not aware, but the word “tranny” is generally considered a slur. The word “trans\*” (either with or without asterisk) is preferred. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-there-anything-a-hot-woman-can-say-that-will-make-men-not-want-to-fuck-her/678226.md?page=3)