Sue, as others have said here, it sounds like it isn’t really about there being anything wrong with a Mac—it’s just that you are unused to it. Since you have decided to keep it, it would benefit you to educate yourself on how to use it properly. (Yes, yes, I know…God Forbid I expect you to read any sort of manual!
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OS X, specifically Jaguar (I just installed it) is a very promising OS. A lot of Windows geeks grudgingly admit that there is something quite admirable about a Unix-based OS that is “user friendly” enough for the average user. The more I use OS X (and I admit, I was dragged grudgingly from OS 9.x) the more I like it.
I would recommend getting Robin Williams’ (no, not the actor) book, “The [not so little] OS X Book” and also “OS X: The Missing Manual”. When I made the transition to Mac (it was willingly in my case
) I took it upon myself to educate myself on Macs as much as I could. It really made the transition go pretty smoothly for me. But I admit, there were some growing pains. Sometimes, it’s easier to see the things that you dislike before you see the things that you like.
In my case, my first Mac was an ancient 60 MHz PowerMac. It was about 5 years old when I got it, so that was a definite handicap. I disliked the one-button mouse too, and I wasn’t so sure about having to learn all the darned keyboard shortcuts. But, I decided to give in and learn to do it the Mac way. Eventually, I ended up falling in love with the Mac. Two iMacs later (I’m now on a G4 tower) I am a full-fledged Machead. I still own a PC, though, and make sounds about buying a new one. I might do it one day, too! It isn’t as if I despise all things PC. I just love Macs. And I have discovered that there are a lot of unique things to love about Macs. I just had to give myself time to discover what they were.
One thing that I discovered was that learning all the keyboard shortcuts actually helped me when I was working on my PC. Many of the keyboard shortcuts are similar in Mac and PC (substitute Command for the Apple key). Before I got my Mac, I had never bothered to learn any keyboard shortcuts. Now I try to use keyboard shortcuts as much as possible. I find that they are far more efficient than right clicking or using the menu.
There’s a lot of developing that needs to be done on OS X (it’s only a year or so old!) but it has a great deal of potential. For one thing, it is quite stable—so far, no crashes for me in OS X! And, the more I read about it, the more excited I get! Every day, a new program ports over to OS X. There are a lot of features and qualities in OS X that are unique, and exciting. Did you know that it comes with an Apache server built in? OK, maybe that’s a little too geeky, but I’m stoked about it!
Give yourself time. No one will force you to become a Machead, but since you’ve got the damned thing, might as well make the best of it. Good luck to you, and let us know if we can help in any way!